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damosky12:
Appears many African couples are that way. Even single people who stay alone...

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Dear VMI,

I don't like celebrating birthdays the way most people do. AM I NORMAL? AM I WEIRD?

All I always want to do during my birthdays is to BE ALONE INDOOR and thank God for the gift of life quietly and also reflect on/think about the past, present, future and plan. I do not like all this publicity or pre-birthday countdown thing. I just LIKE IT PRIVATE.

I am beginning to fear that this could affect my marriage because I always act as if there's nothing special about birthdays. I really hope that I won't be seeing my wife and children's birthday as less important (not that I even see it as less important, I just like it private and been done in the unusual way).

The way people do countdown to birthdays and also celebrate their birthdays publicly always amaze me.

I get pissed whenever my fiancee reminds me about the birthday of her family members. She'd be like, tomorrow is so so so person's birthday. . today is my brother's birthday, greet him bla bla bla. . . Madam no time, congratulate them on our behalf. . . I wish them the very best.

My fiancee's recent birthday slipped my mind. I forget to call her that day and she was very mad at me. it was when she brought in cake in the evening after work that I remembered. I hope this birthday celebration thing won't affect my marriage. I hope people around me would understand that I don't hate them or see them as less important.

Sometime, My parents, friends and/or family members are always the ones to remind me about my birthday with their messages/calls. I will be like, I have forgotten that today is my birthday. Birthdays are just like every other days to me. I just try to me it special quietly.

Octopusssy:
I think it is completely normal

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alpharoyalty:
I strongly consider myself an indoor nudist.
My wife and I can stay all day at home completely naked. 👌👩‍❤️‍👨
We only stopped it when our baby clocked 6 months

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wonlasewonimi:
This lifestyle is quite common these days as people get to embrace and accept their bodies

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Zonefree:
Aside during coitus, woman's naked body is a huge turn off for me.

Nothing turns me on than a woman on red pant with a tube over the succulent and scintillating breast. But, total naked is a No-No.

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Exmilitant:
Why would anyone wants to be clothless even in private? ❔

it appears mankind is gradually returning to the paleolithic age, this time with internet, advanced technology and improved health care.

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mariahAngel:
When you're not Adam and Eve.
No, it's not normal. It's bizarre.

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Mindlog:
Indoor nudists, just that it is rarely talked about and there are "disturbing" situations where children are involved in the nudism....an entire family behind closed doors are all naked.......children, adolescents, adults and they all feel so desensitized to each other's bodies as it is so normalized.

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nairalander2020:
Am not married yet but it seems normal to me until a visitor burst in on you thats when it becomes an episode of shame.i hope you know this is africa

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Dear VMI,

My wife and I feel very comfortable being completely n@ked whenever we are inside our 2 bedroom apartment. IS THIS NORMAL? ARE WE NORMAL?

We walk completely n@ked in our bedrooms, sitting room, kitchen, everywhere indoor except when we have visitors around. We also sleep completely n@ked at night except when it's very cold. We can be completely n@ked for a whole day indoor whenever we are the only people at home.

We've been married for 1 year plus now and expecting our first child. We will surely adjust when our child arrives.