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May God's name be praise, I believe He will not leave us neither will He forsake His own.

yeap Solumto, including me

Well Well Well, whether confident, shy, stupid, or , , there are some facts we cannot deny here.

1. It will be difficult to see a flawless society,
2. People have different and diverse upbringing, and
3. We cannot flush them out, no matter how much we and the society try.
The point and advice for men is to go for what you want. You choose to look and be cut up in the act or decide to ignore them (if you can) as though they do not exist. “Men are turned on by what they see as Women by what they hear” this I know but don’t allow everything you see to turn you on. You have the sense and power of WILL to handle things you want and those you don’t want. YOU DON”T EAT SHIT B/C YOU MERELY SAW THEM POSITIONED YOUR WAY. LEAVE THEM FOR DOGS.

As for those that think all girls are like that, I think they should circumcise their heart and eyes. Why in the world are you seeing only skimpy dressers and never modest dressers?
I beg a permission to say something on this quote
"all girls are hoes until proven otherwise."
that there is nothing to prove because those that are bent on “ PROVING” can never see those Unhoe or “hoe covered” girls to prove them. Honestly speaking you cannot find them because they are not for you. They are not hoes and definitely not what you are looking for, maybe you see them on the street and pass by.

SUGGESTION PLS
“These girls” dress the way they do bcus of Men and not for follow ladies. So it’s not our (ladies) problem but men’s. I believe men can find solution to that.
I suggest men should have a standard for such “girls” [b]maybe an alternative way to tell you love, admire, etc without them being skimpy. Or Stop going for and after such ill dressers as a way of passing along ur disapproval. (How difficult will that be?) Or that, whatever you know can work better, please do.

ASSIGNMENT
Believing we have a good number of Singles and potential parents in this forum, can we make a change in our own time by bringing up our children in God’s way, to fear God and respect their bodies as the temple of God? Digest this as you run into those skimpy dressers.

I really want to and can if God be my helper.

Hi dear,
with compassion i read through ur posting believing how difficult it is sometimes to make a life long discision. I suggest you don't go back as a fresher but move on (backward never and forward ever), with Third class you have the privilege to go for Post Graduate (PG) after which you can go for your Masters, the only Issue there is that you cannot jump to Master. I know somebody that has the same situation to tackle and right from the school she determined to repeat one academic session even though she didn't have any carryover in her final year, so as to make it to at least 2.2, her lecturer then encouraged her to carry on with PG instead of wasting that year, knowing that the girl wasn't the lazy and dull type and that she has gone for extra training in that field (as a computer engineer has went and equipped herself in professional courses and experience). the girl in question now have a job as she is still to go for her PG. The bottom line here is are you good practically, try and equip urself and move forward.
the second thing is do you want to make a career in IT or in your present discipline, that is for you to answer.
Good luck and be courageous in making this life desicion.