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I have kept this hair for 5 years plus now,and I can hardly pack it well. I need a remedy to make my hair very long and be reaching my back neck and longer.

hexzelle:
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Twelfthman:
What are you saying self?
He begged her to keep the baby and she refuse which mean the only option left for her is to go for abortion.
That is why I advise her against going for abortion. How did I miss that or you clearly didn't read or understand my write up...

Hmm, you're the one confusing yourself. The boyfriend is against her going for abortion but she insists. So there is nothing else he can do rather to help her have a good abortion. So it's simple what he is asking for..

Dapcity007:
Abortion is not the solution, stop blame shifting, what is wrong is wrong, there is no justification for spilling the blood of the innocent

which innocent? Something that is 6weeks, like beans, you don't know if it she or he, they call it "it" but u clearly didn't read.

Twelfthman:
What part did I miss?

u no see where we all begged her and she refused

DrFunmisticGlow:
take her to a good O and G doctor, and let her abort it.

If he is not ready to marry her then she should remove it.

okay. He is surely reading

Twelfthman:
Pls don't abort the baby... She can put her school on hold, most schools allow it as long as one makes it official. Then she should go have the baby. When done she is free to resume her schooling while the guy family take care of the baby...

I don't support ABORTION.
She shouldnt commit more sin by killing the baby.
This is the one of the consequences of premarital sex so she should deal with it. It pathetic, Ladies should be more careful cus y'all are the ones that suffer most in this kinda situation...

did you even read the post, or you just jumped in and started commenting without understanding?

PrimadonnaO:
You're coming here to ask strangers how to abort somebody's child!

And the so-called man is going to be reading comments. All of you are just really irresponsible and terrible!


Madam OP, who are you in the story exactly? Why are you so involved in this affair?

my best friend. Childhood friend

Oturatetuala:
I won't advice her to take drugs.

report is she is 6wks down

Oturatetuala:
She said she doesn't want to keep the pregnancy then allow her abort it. Which devil una be self, na by force to born pikin.

lol. That's why he is seeking for advice. Which drugs can she take or which hospital.hoe can she go about it?

BadRadio:
The only way I can help you is if you come out plainly and tell me u are that girl.

lol, but I am not the girl in question.

mmadu4:
dont force anyone to do anything against their will else you will regret it . tell your guy to wait for the right woman . at 21 the girl is still in her hoeing phase hence its not going to work . a guy earning 400k should not be settling with a student rather an entrepreneur like himself

exactly.

Hello everyone, I recently made a post about my friend. He told me he actually wanted to get his girlfriend pregnant, and he wants to have a kid at 25 and also check if he is potent so when he gets to 30 the child is 5 etc.now the big issue is here. She is 21

1: the girl he thought loved him never did, as the girl has refused to keep the baby. He informed his parents and they told the lady they will train the child, but she refused. This guy's make 400k every month as an animator. He also has a shop locally etc. But still in his parents house, Self contain, but is ready to move out. My type of man

2: the girl has threatened to drink sniper and force the baby out if anyone tries to stop her. Her problem is she doesn't want to have kids at all, she has life to explore. Etc. She is still in school though.

What have we suggested?

1: the guy told her to have the baby and let her bring it to him and he will take care of the baby, she shouldn't bring a dime. She said no, she can't bear the pain of carrying that child for 9months all her friends will mock her.

2: the guy suggested to travel her outside the state and pay for a house and nobody will know, until she has the baby, and she said no, she can't abandon her school to satisfy someone else, which is the boyfriend.

3; we have told her that abortion is illegal in Naija, she says it either she aborts or she dies, we should take one.

At this point, my guy backed off, though I've been coming around to help him out with some ideas .

What am I searching for?

Any suggestions on how she can have a good abortion without risking her life.

Is drugs better?

Is Hospital better?

What else can we do?

I made this post on his behalf, so he is reading as a visitor

Modified. I'm contacting you

killerdragon:
She is not pregnant baba its a trap

and if she is then that baby isn't for him

tell him to spend one month salary and get a DNA test. it will save him years of suffering later

hw much

Doja2000:
This matter is really getting out of hands.
sha this world is a free world. So let her do whatever she wants to do.
Your male friend should just move on without her

This is just difficult for everyone.

Doja2000:
He should just tell her that she shouldn't abort the pregnancy, that he would take responsibility after she give birth to the child.
Aborting the pregnancy is not the only solution to the problem she is creating.

Some women are just misbehaving in this generation.


Some people are praying day and night for God to give them a child.


Na that idiot wey see opportunity to carry belle wan come commot am

the girl doesn't want to keep the pregnancy neither does she want to marry the guy. She says it's her cross, she is the one to carry the shame etc, and she will remove it. If they try, she will drink rat poison and remove it by force. That the baby will be causing her pain if she has it, and since she can't marry the guy, there is no need having a child somewhere else.

So in this situation, it's like I don't know what to say again, she is already depressed.

Skullano:
Sometimes when some guys talk, I just wonder if they breath from their anus self.

what do you mean?

Itohanmiwa:
I don't support abortion tho. But that's his call to make.

I am not asking for your support.

Updated the thread. He is reading.

Itohanmiwa:
Op for your friend to open up to you, then I think you at least owe him the promise of making sure he sees this thread. This here reminds me of me few years ago. That your friend should stop having sex with the said girl for a few weeks and think things clearly as we can only offer advice but it's left for him to set his priority straight and doing that with a clear mind will help him a lot. This girl right here is suffering from "mental poverty" and that young man better acts fast for the sake of his future. Like someone said up there any lady that can comfortably tell a guy to go into fraud is just not worth it. A man's life begins at 30 and that guy already has a massive head start. All he needs is just focus and trust me that girls will drive him crazy on the long run. In a world filled with lies and deceit, I encourage him to think for himself and do what is right no matter how hard it seems. If he is suffering from low self esteem he should try hitting the gym to gain the confidence he needs. Most importantly as I'll always advise every young man out there follow the teachings of redpill, it's a way of life and best thing is it's free all over naira land. But most men just chose to focus on the negative sides of the red pill. Get game and hustle hard in your early year's instead of committing yourself to relationships and dividing your focus.

the girl Is now pregnant for him 2 weeks. He is now planing an abortion

ahnie:
mouthpiece of the gods.

See how you're just narrating gbogbotigbo as if you were there....I bowed to your royal narrating skills.
I put it to you that.... you're just a pained side chick.

side chick, the guy is my tight man, we grew up together

atlaz:
From ur post, I can deduce dat you really think this guy is trying and he's not doing bad and you wouldn't mind being wit. So, if the young man is reading, go for the girl dat created this thread.
She would help you become big and grow.

This I have seen

lol, come on naw, I'm not in for it

Zorr:
I know the guy must be a dumb guy forming Nairaland Redpiller, he should go ahead and marry her. She's the perfect match for you.

this is very rude. I need matured minds, now you showed how insensitive you are

So one of my male friends came to me for advice, I told him I will create a post and send him links so he can read mature advice. Please if you're below 21 years do not comment here I beg you.

So he has been dating this girl for 1year and now, He told me that the girl once told him to do yahoo and make money. Mind you, this guy is a freelancer and earns about 300k monthly and the girl knows. There was one time he told the girl about his film production and someone wanted to sponsor it, but the man is inviting him to his hotel. He was shocked as his girlfriend told him to go even if it was gay he should close eye and do it, that people do a lot for the money.

Now, this guy bought Airconditon one in his room and the other his office, his girlfriend got angry that he was wasting his money and started telling him how she has issues in school and he doesn't want to help.

The only thing she has done for him is to buy him 2 polos for a year and took him out once. However, there was also a day he didn't have money and the girl borrowed him 10k to do the stuff which he paid back, however he was not freelancing by that time. He said one day the girl was buying something at a mall, and he called the girl and sent her 5k to buy some stuff for the both of them, I mean like Shawarma which both will eat, but was shocked the girl came back and bought nothing, asking the girl, she said the money was too small to buy anything and she didn't also give him back the money.

He is confused because he was dating the girl while he had little cash and she was there, but I told him it was not struggling. But what do I know?

Whenever she is with this girl, she refuses to pick her calls in front of him, even if she picks, she says" hello, I am in the market, or school or shop" she has never mentioned on call she is with her boyfriend not even once.

Also, one time he decided to test this girl, and told her they were going out with 5k in early 2020, they went out, and then he decided to buy himself some stuff he could eat in the night since he works from home and stays awake till 4 am every morning and this guy has an ulcer, so he needs to be chewing something, immediately he picked up cornflakes, the girl also picked up cornflakes for her self. He was shocked as she told him, that" anything you pick he should also pick for her" even after telling her he has a budget of 5k for both of them, with his own money oo and she is making such demands.

If I remember more I will update, but please should he dumb this girl and find someone else.. the girl is an apprentice now.

Update;He said the girl is pregnant for him, and the girl is also saying she can't marry him. Now they are left to delete the foetus

sharaff6:
inverter is far better than gen .. after buying gen you will buy fuel also servicing

can I get an inverter including solar panels for that price and it will carry two ac

edlion57:
12 kva inverter and batteries will cost u more than 1m but for me inverter is better because of the noiseless sound

Listers don't make that much noise. Besides, I can't use because of noise and spend more than 1million. It's not worth it, we live with noise everyday of our life's. Cars, horns, fan noise, ac noise, customers talking etc even neighbours running generators. Nah

My job require constant electricity. I was thinking of buying a medium Lister gen 12kva or will inverter be better, I want to carry 2 A.c laptop's, desktops,

bobo65:
5k for adaptor

okay. I need original cause the one I bought they said it is not adaptable to my phone. So I guess I need original Google pixel own. How do I get it it?

Hello, can I get iPhone 11 for 200k? Also anybody has Google USBC c to 3.5 mm adapted to listen to music?

Jung:
Lol oya upload pics, so we see your face very well na.


Then full body photo sef.

Let's assess.

hmmm, if I do this here eeh, Na so people go full my DM with messages