₦airaland Forum

Rukkydelta:
hmmm....speechless

lol you don't agree?

misspicy:
if that's you on your profile,no you are not prettier than these girls

lol ouch that hurts!! but I don't have any makeup on so I think I'm prettier!

Rukkydelta:
Pics or i don't believe it

lol check my dp. I'm amazing lol

I'm prettier than all of them :p

raayah:
Yum, I had it last time, it was yummy. Although I put like two shots of vodka in the orange juice so it was really strong

amazing. now try the milk shots. you'll think of me when you have it

since you are an alcoholic then I will recommend vodka dashed with orange juice. when hosting a party mix a bottle of vodka with a tin of condensed milk and a glass of fresh cream. I assure you, these are delicious!!!
Thank me later!

greatiyk4u:
After chopping a week ban for just asking a Nairalander a question, I became a spectator, in the process of my "spectatorship"~if such a word exist, I turned into a researcher, in the course of my research, I came up with this interesting topic:
HOW TO KNOW IF THE LADY YOU ARE DATING IS YOUR WIFE.


Women – you can’t live with them; you can’t live without them. Although a catchy aphorism, it’s rather useless. If you can’t live with a woman or without her, then you’re basically screwed. Fortunately, it is most definitely possible to form a bond with a lover strong enough to last a lifetime......isn't it?
The real trick is understanding whether or not the woman in your life now is the "one" for you. One of the reasons why many people end up having many ex(es) that may sometimes end up in frustration and depression is their inability to identify their "wife" at the early stage of the relationship......"Chop and clean mouth" crew excluded.

While each man will be attracted to a different sort of woman, there are a couple of signs that you should pay
especially close attention to, this is because courtesy demands that a "gentle" man should only get married once in a life time. When you do find her… you’d better take good care of her! Too many stupid guys out there are ruining a good thing with the “right woman” because of selfishness. So if you’re not going to treasure her…then please… just save her the trouble and move on........yes, I mean it.

Here are a couple of ways of knowing that the woman you’ve found may very well be the last woman you’ll ever need in your life:


~HER PRESENCE IN YOUR LIFE COMES WITH BLESSING............

In the initial stages of a relationship, when your brain is bathed with love chemicals, you may be willing to overlook the flaw or even find it strangely endearing. But after several weeks,months or even years, when the love chemicals have ebbed, this flaw may begin to grate on your soul.......the Bible supports this claim, that who ever finds a wife will SURELY obtain favour from the Lord...........

It seems painful when men complain of Gold digging women and many others that dump their sorry ass because of "lack of money", if you have ever found your self in this situation, you should be thankful to your God unless you are a mere "lazy man"......... A Woman that is "yours" will surely come into your life with great favour, sometimes not immediate, that will turn around your life for good. even if she is a "gold digger" her Luck will bring enough returns to your hustle that can give her the much needed "gold"..... Any man that is hard working,has the right skills,education, potentials and preparation but "broke" is only lacking Opportunity to show case his potential and rule his world, which the presence of "your wife" in your life will surely make it real irrespective of the situation of the society.


~THE THOUGHT OF MARRYING HER DOESN'T SCARE YOU BUT GIVES YOU JOY

The reality is that when you are marrying the “one,” you won’t be scared at all. Throughout the entire period of dating and being engaged, up until the night before your wedding, you will never have a single second thought about your impending nuptials. The only thing you will feel is
happiness and excited anticipation...........have you found her?

~ SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND.................................................

Physical attraction and chemistry are obviously crucial to any relationship. But at the core of the relationship should be a strong and deeply rooted friendship. Forty years down the line you’re both going to be soft, wrinkly, and saddled with low libidos. What’s going to hold your marriage together when you are old and gray is your friendship. Therefore, if you feel like your girlfriend is your best friend in the world, there is a very good chance that she is the one for you. Do you feel like you could tell her anything and that she knows more about you than anyone in the world? Yes? Well then, she’s your wife, don't joke with her emotion.



~SHE HAS ABSOLUTE TRUST IN YOU...................................

Although Trust is a crucial aspect of any relationship,What’s most important to keep in mind is how fragile the trust between two individuals is – especially between two individuals who are intimately involved with each other.
When one person breaks the other’s trust, it causes pain.
The more someone trusts the person – the more he or she cares – and the more it will hurt once that trust is broken. Such pain leaves gaping scars that can take eternity to heal. If you found a woman whom you trust entirely and, more importantly, a woman with whom you can’t imagine
breaking that trust, then you may have found the one.



~SHE MOTIVATES YOU NO MATTER THE CONDITION...............

Finding the right woman to help motivate you can make the difference between the realization of your dreams and continuous failure. The ideal woman is a woman who motivates you both actively and passively to be, and to do,
better. One of the greatest gifts a woman can bestow upon a man is a reason to be a better man.
Emotions aside, the woman you ought to marry "your wife" is the woman who adds to your life and doesn’t simply take away from it. Again,this can be a difficult differentiation to make, but it is one of dire importance.
Your emotions can lead you to believe that you need a woman that, in reality, you would be better without. You
need to take a step back and decide whether your life is better or worse with her as a part of it.


~SEX WITH HER IS GREAT, UNIQUE AND DIFFERENT................

There is a certain level of physical chemistry that I believe is necessary for a marriage to work. This is one reason you may never understand remaining celibate until after the wedding day – if the sex is really bad then you’re going to have a difficult time being happy within the partnership.
Some people say that they don’t care much for sex… I’d say that this is because they’ve never had mind-blowing sex before. Although you may be able to get away with ignorance as bliss, why settle for less?

This is yet another crucial aspect of relationships that many overlook until it’s too late. It’s easy to love a woman when
you don’t fully understand her – and to understand her, you have to understand exactly what it is that she wants out of
life. What does she want to do? Experience? Accomplish? What are her goals? Her dreams? Her wants? Her passions? Too often we don’t realize that, although theoretically we may be compatible as individuals, our ideal lifestyles aren’t compatible. It’s difficult to spend your life with someone when the paths you need to take separate.

Before you go ahead and say, “Yes, of course we do!,” make sure that you understand what loving deeply means. To love deeply is to love twofold – it’s to love romantically and to love in the form of agape.
To truly love each other is to love not only who the person is as an individual, but also to love what that person means to you. You have to love the person for who that person is as well as what that person does for you.

The common definition of love, to love unconditionally, is wrong. We all love conditionally whether we like to admit it
or not. The deepest love is a love that can combine both unconditional and conditional love to form a bond that
cannot be broken by outside force – a mutual love that can last the test of time.


~SHE'S GOT YOUR BACK.....................................................

she’s always looking out for your best interest. She has no desire to make you look bad in front of others. If she has a problem with something you’re doing, she’ll punk you in private. She tells you whats up and then lets it go. She knows your faults better than anyone and she isn’t afraid to “help you get better” but you’ll never find her telling stories about all your shortcomings to her friends.
She sees how hard you are on yourself and never stops letting you know that she is there for you. Her loyalty to you is unfailing and you’d better reciprocate. Although life is a struggle sometimes, all you’ve got to do is find a way to make her feel special and there will be no end to the love she pours out upon you.



Finally, When you’re in love, it can be difficult to understand exactly how an individual impacts your life. Because love is as blinding and distracting as it is, realizing the negative impact a person has on you can be almost impossible.
There are people in your life who will support you, criticize you constructively, and help you learn.
If your woman is not this type, then break away as soon as you can; the relationship will only bring you pain and misery.

Cheers and happy reading.

LarryUG is this me? lol

ccollins:
man, am a Nigerian and she is saying the truth. if she was a Nigerian, would u have insulted her way u did.. Nigeria is a shame and disgrace both locally and globally, always hypocrites.. doing evil, pretending to be right and still defending those evil.. honest, I live in Lagos.. go to worried, be in traffic, read news, interact with people and u see how wicked and savage the average is.. such a pathetic country

aww not pathetic hey. just need to curb the judgemental culture. and people need to stop worrying about what other people think!

Rollar:
Yeah, most Nigerians are pretentious assholes, no doubt. I was just pointing out how her own case may be peculiar, Nigerian or not.

after all the insults, suddenly you agree? smh I never even insulted anyone

itstpia8:
I think you should save your observations for your Nigerian boyfriend (I assume he's the reason you're here), not Nigerians in general who dont even know you.

nope! no boyfriend!

ronald4lif:
They aren't exactly prude, it's all a facade fueled by organized religious sentiment. Never mind the puritanist character they display, they love sex like everyone else and indulges as much but religion has conditioned them to behave sanctimoniously.

aahh interesting! Now I'm getting the picture

MrsPhyno:
Later when you say NL guys are often so rude and aggressive they'll start to shout u down

Can't OP ask a simple kweshion again? It's a unique topic in the appropriate section

Uh, our culture has prudish tendencies. And most of us are either Christians or Muslims which are both very non-licentious religions

thank you MrsPhyno! that's what I needed to hear not all these attacks I'm getting. my post wasn't intended to diss your country

pinceprinz:
I begin to wonder who's being overtly judgemental and needs chilled water here .. You can't call me a humorless being and expect me to prove ain't, what's the point? You'll pay my bills?

lol okay okay I hear you. but don't you think I'm making valuable points here? do you not see what I'm noticing?

Vjcray:
[size=14pt] last time I checked I included a "quotation" mark in my post. ..


You want to school me? ?
Oh just fvvk off my already.. . [/size]

yay okay thanks for your valuable input. bye felicia!

pinceprinz:
What are u willing to do to the condition if I tell u huh? Anyway, ain't mad at u, just suggesting it will be more beneficial to masturbate instead of wasting time trying hard to see through an opaque mind

yall are patriotic behind the prudishness that's for sure. taking everything too seriously

Vjcray:
[size=14pt] the only thing making me "prudish" right now that hippopotamus horn you call a leg on your profile. ..

You could pass for a Ruffalo... .


Now run along and Stop seeking obsolete attention... .
Goat.. [/size]

lol do you even know what prudish means? you are actually proving my point by lashing out at me like that. Did you stop and think what I said might even be a little true? no? okay sit down...

nanauju:
South Africans always following up on Nigeria(Giants) since time immemorial..
Who do u say you're again

who said I'm south african and what is giant about Nigeria? yall so defensive damn! bye felicia!

pinceprinz:
What is now your own? Go n masturbate jarey

why you mad boo?

Diddyydiva:
And you think that's a reason to open a thread






End time thread

lol I was just trying to get into your minds. anything wrong with that?

RexKexMilann:
Nope. Not true At all.

but my experience proves otherwise

RexKexMilann:
Who are You & What are You "Saying"

no disrespect fam but I just want to learn about your people. is what I'm saying not true?

obiorathesubtle:
don't you ever complain about my country people again!


Worry about your own_fucking country you! Where the_fuck are you from anyway? _fucking lass.

lol oh come on I'm not complaining just stating an observation. Please tell me if I'm wrong

I've been watching your threads and all I ever see are people claiming to be virgins or talking about marriage. and the minute you see anything about sex or the likes you frown and be like "end time thread". I don't even know what that means. yall act prudish and pious in my opinion. not all of you though

Djboosting:
Lmao @bolded...

She's obsessed with the dick

lol she should just eat and wipe mouth. simple

lady OP, it's quite obvious that this guy does NOT love you. Do yourself a favour and move on. you're not there because "he won't let you go". you're there because you keep hoping he'll choose you. HE WON'T! if the dick is too good for you to pass up then just ride it and shut your mouth. as long as you don't mind being side chick or friends with benefits. your choice

soilsista:
Nami ndiryt

Lol but siyaqhelwa apha hey!!

siqhelwa kakhulu. but their opinions don't matter hey

soilsista:
Lol not anymore!! There's LeboS. We're equal.
Unjani Vee?

lol ndiryt lovey. and you?

soilsista:
Vooyour is Xhosa? I feel outnumbered now

lol yes I am. You're outnumbered babe.

PunkyVeer:
Of course we can take it. Ngena mkhaya sibanike a bit of Xhosanostra

lol ndijonge ngathi babuye umva noko. kodwa ke they should stop undermining us hey. why are we being judged. anyway it takes 2 to tango. those girls don't steal the money for weaves. it's given to them by their naija sugar daddies. just saying

Punkyveer lol so happy that you already did the ranting without me. Some people just be hating on S.Africans for no reason. but it's fine hey. we can take it.