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dude! You're in a relationship! if you're going to go to your friends then at least send her a text and tell her. Sometimes we worry about this stuff and think the worst. talk to her about it. Don't just be a coward and give up. If she loves you she will always worry about your whereabouts.

I've seen this before. It's just lock-jaw. just go to the hospital and they'll sedate her and put the jaw back in it's place

guys please stop talking about stuff that you don't know about. Although I'm not Zulu but there are many cultures that require girls to wear skirts only during certain rituals for reasons that I can't divuldge to you. it's not like they walk around naked all day everyday. It has nothing to do with illiteracy. those girls are educated.

NB. and please stop justifying rape culture. people who rape do it because they are disgusting. not because of cultural practices. or the way you dress for that matter. we should stop victim blaming

the solution is simple. stop dating altogether. just get a sex buddy if you need to. It's obvious you're not mature enough to be in a serious relationship. and I sense that you're still going through the hoeing phase. don't worry girl. You'll be fine in a few years. :*

what is he hiding? if he can't oblige for a simple test he cannot be trusted. I don't care how healthy he looks. test first

lol that means she's really bad at it. You both need to practice hey

there is something called separation anxiety. maybe she has it. she should see a psychologist

wasak:
Of course I know the necessary implications that comes with such decision, it's just that I value the family institution too much than allow financial pursuit pose a block.

that's very refreshing to hear. That's exactly how I feel

I have short hair. not nearly bald but short nonetheless. it's more of a mohawk-like style. I like it. long hair is high maintenance for me. I'm not a typical girly girl. and no contrary to popular belief girls don't do everything for men. my hairstyle is the only way I can express myself. I love it and my boyfriend understands. so I'm not concerned about other opinions.
ps. Most girls use weaves. I like them too sometimes but it's so high maintenance

wasak:
I honestly have been looking for someone who'll tell me she wants to be a housewife, but every girl I've come across say they wanna be Mrs independent.

well I don't blame them because these days we have to look after ourselves without depending on a man. but you also have to make sure you have enough money to take care of both of you if that's the kind of lifestyle you want

I love the idea of owning my own business. not for the money but for something I'm passionate about.
But since I was a little girl I always wanted to be a housewife (don't judge before you hear me out! ). I'm a Christian. Always believed in being a Titus 2 woman. keeping the home front. taking care of the children. making sure my husband has everything he needs.
Unfortunately the world we live in these days makes it hard for us to live like this. hence, many people are uncomfortable with this.

sweetie listen to me. HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR LOVE! If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you. He's trying to make you think it's okay for him to have another chick. infact if you think about it, he might be waiting for the other girl's relationship to crash so that he can leave you for her. You can talk to him about first. But I doubt he loves you the way you love him. You need to find someone who will love you completely! you deserve it.
good luck

op that's what doctors are for. There's lots of contraceptive methods available. doctor will recommend the best one and give you a prescription. you'll be the one paying for this I hope?

dude don't be dumb! she tells you everything because she's honest. People can't help that they're nice. just advise her how she should handle such situations and reassure that you love her. that's not very hard

you clearly don't deserve her! leave her so she can find someone who can love her for who she is. and when she finds that guy who will encourage her to lose weight rather than condemn her, she'll be happier and more beautiful than ever. and you would have lost out

skinny body, tall frame & and deep eyes <3

I don't think any of you understand what he's saying. no one is saying girls should sit back and not work to get stuff on her own. but yall always talk about how men should be head in the family. that also means be a provider. not because we can't provide for ourselves but because you want to provide for your love. it's not necessary but you should want to do that for your babe. just saying.
for what it's worth, I'd do the same for my man

bashydemy:
You are right about guys been stronger than girls, But what will you say if you meet your brother being slap by his GF? some girls will just raise their hand up and slap a guy, That part piss me off so bad.. I got a friend that his wife always slap him when ever they have little misunderstanding and also threaten to throw him out that the house the guy build belong to she and their kids.. If woman try that shit with me ehn, She go tell me if her papa buy me block..

then he needs to seek legal action against her. He should probably divorce her if they can't settle the issue in the house. simple

bashydemy:
And what do you say about lady slapping a guy? i just tire of all this nonsense abeg make God just come wipe us off the surface of the earth jare... A lady will slap a guy and if the guy hit her, he is termed to be bad person..

I don't condone a girl hitting a guy. but we all know guys are stronger than girls. guys can stop a girl from hitting him. can't say the same for a woman

johnson232:
are u the one that will kill her?

silly girl...

so domestic abuse has never killed anyone? seriously? women have died due to this. It's even more likely that he'll hit her again. If leaving a man that hits me means I'm silly, then so be it.

the day a man lays his hands on me is the day I will cut his little willy off! under no circumstances should you let a man even slap you. If he does it once he will do it again. Please get out of that relationship before you die! !!

I always pray for my boyfriend LarryUG I even mention his name. God already knows he's my man so why not. :p

I feel like guys don't understand. it's not that we are incapable of providing for ourselves. We've been doing that for years! It's just that we want someone who will be able to do it for us. a man should provide and lead. that is how we will submit. How will your woman submit and respect you if you don't lead and provide for her? even if you don't make that much at the moment but you should always be able to make a plan. Nothing is more arousing than watching your man make a plan.
that doesn't mean we are gold diggers. iy just shows what kind of husband and father you'll be in the future. A man who can provide for my every need is a keeper. and I would spend the rest of my days trying to make him happy

Juliusdaughter:
Thanks bae. I believe so much in him, his songs are on my playlist he has been getting numerous shows and getting a litle bit known in our state. U know all these struggling artist performs free most of the time just to keep gaining recognition I pray this year doesnt run out on him.

then support him love. it's an investment in both your futures. and even if he turns out to be a douchebag when he's rich and famous then you'll let karma deal with him

you should really think about whether you believe in his talent or not. also talk to him about getting a part time job yo finance his career path. That's a tough industry to crack. but if you believe he can do it then I say support your man and don't mind anyone who says otherwise. This is your future. do you boo.

six pack doesn't pay the bills. six pack won't buy me clothes. six pack won't feed me. I'll stay with Mr pot-belly hey I need real diamonds on my ring finger.