₦airaland Forum

Goldieluks:
@OP, bottom line ,he is MARRIED, get a life,and stop the guilt feeling!

Thank you, would do that. We were only talking through BBM, and most of the convo was just general life, career wise and even advice

sauer:
if he hadnt wrote u that cheque with a huge sum of money, would u want to rectify anything?

I emphasized on the huge sum of money because i was surprised after i didn't do anything with him, he still gave me such amount.

Russialane:
and am not done with you yet stop feeling down, you want help is it, you need help imagine coming in here posting such nonsense thread after you already know your intentions with him is just materialistic thank god you said he is married cuz i know some bunch of idiots here will be taking sides with you SUPPORTERS CLUB because they are like minds like you nonsense talking rubbish

I'm sorry to say sir, you are fighting with yourself

claremont:
It is easier for a leopard to change it's spots than for most Nigerian women to change their attitude towards money!

What do you mean Nigerian women and money? Who told you I was Nigerian even if I am? PLUS Why didn't you read the other benefits i wrote? You just highlighted the money aspect.

Osama10:
Its all about the money, take that out of the equation and your interest dies.

Women Women Women.

Errrr I met him and valued our friendship wayyyy before he even offered to give me money which I didn't even ask soo

Russialane:
imagine meeting you for the first time and hes asking for sex WHAT IS THIS WORLD turning into i bet after couple of continous meeting you will start Being Intimate with him  because of cheques and material gains and when he dumps you after having his fill what will you do? come crying in here rite , babe grow up you kinda sound cheap to me already or what do u say i can also write you cheque if thats what you care about .

Maybe you read my post again. Not sure you read it properly

Tjluv:
@ Poster, what exactly is it you want to rectify? Were'nt you fine before the friendship,advice,bla bla? What makes you think you wnt be fine nw? You should even be thankful that he deleted you from his bbm,except of course you want to start sleeping with him.

The friendship even if it's through the BBM, he is a well informed man. his advice, his knowledge to life, job information etc, that's why I valued the friendship and nothing else.




All of you talking about FINANCIAL GAINS Haven't i been talking to him and valued the friendship wayyy before he gave me the Money i didn't even ask for. I miss the friendship!!! That's it.

claremont:
It is easier for a leopard to change it's spots than for most Nigerian women to change their attitude towards money!

What do you mean Nigerian women and money? Who told you I was Nigerian even if I am? PLUS Why didn't you read the other benefits i wrote? You just highlighted the money aspect.

Osama10:
Its all about the money, take that out of the equation and your interest dies.

Women Women Women.

Errrr I met him and valued our friendship wayyyy before he even offered to give me money which I didn't even ask soo

Russialane:
imagine meeting you for the first time and hes asking for sex WHAT IS THIS WORLD turning into i bet after couple of continous meeting you will start Being Intimate with him  because of cheques and material gains and when he dumps you after having his fill what will you do? come crying in here rite , babe grow up you kinda sound cheap to me already or what do u say i can also write you cheque if thats what you care about .

Maybe you read my post again. Not sure you read it properly

Tjluv:
@ Poster, what exactly is it you want to rectify? Were'nt you fine before the friendship,advice,bla bla? What makes you think you wnt be fine nw? You should even be thankful that he deleted you from his bbm,except of course you want to start sleeping with him.

The friendship even if it's through the BBM, he is a well informed man. his advice, his knowledge to life, job information etc, that's why I valued the friendship and nothing else.




All of you talking about FINANCIAL GAINS Haven't i been talking to him and valued the friendship wayyy before he gave me the Money i didn't even ask for. I miss the friendship!!! That's it.

I met this married guy through BB Messenger. He had sent me a request, according to him he made a mistake but after seeing my picture, he struck a convo and then we struck a friendship. He told me he was married and I had a boyfriend so I knew anything further would not be possible. He used to offer advice to me and vice versa even about the relationships, jobs, life etc.

One day, he asked how my day was and i jokingly told him I was broke since my job had not paid my salary yet and he offered to give me some money. We then agreed to meet as this would also be the first time seeing each other in person except pics. When we met, he was even shocked that I looked more beautiful in person and before i knew it, he was all over me, trying to touch me, caress, kiss me which I prevented. He even asked for S*& which i declined and before i knew it he stopped, wrote me a cheque with a huge sum of money. Before we left, i apologized to him for not doing anything with him that I thought we were just supposed to meet, hang out at least first time (though at the back of my mind, could not do anything because i knew he was married), that I valued our friendship, advice, that we should still continue. He agreed

Woke up in the morning and woo, he had deleted me off BBM. I'm feeling quite down 'cos I got used to the friendship and other benefits, life advice, jobs, relationship etc. Was it my fault, can anything be done to rectify such friendship or what do I do from here?