I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

Being a bachelor at a particular age isn’t just a shame. It becomes a burden cos man can no longer do certain things on his own.

Imagine going to the market to get foodstuffs after a very busy day at work plus you will still return home to cook despite how tired you are.

It’s crazy being a bachelor at 35 and above

Oga, marry early when you still dey energetic and young because if you marry when you dey older e don be for you especially when you no get money.

Jewessgratitud3:
Why would you let them travel without you? This is a festive period now, you should be with your family. If na me, I will not leave my husband o. We travel or stay together.

Na wa. This period wey cold come dey like this... 🥶 🥶🥶

How you dey cope as a single lady, I mean with the cold ?

It seem like a I saw their advert on YouTube and it seem good, they also have a refund policy.


If there’s anyone with an experience with them, kindly share.

No let desperation lead you to wetin you go regret. Most poor people are always humble, just wait till them see wetin dem they find.

Men, what’s your skincare routine?

This is a very serious question, cos with the way the season is going they seem unstoppable. They might win the league again.

FAMILY IS NOT ALWAYS FAMILY

Let’s talk, what’s bothering you right now ?

My own na petrol.. fueling of my car and the generator everyday no be small thing

Songs by AZ, young scotter, thugga thugga, Gucci mane, Dipset, Mobb deep etc and the only Nigerian artist Buju Bxnx, very talented.

I swear, this is funny

Skyview01:
On an income of N30k per mpnth, you dey married and got a girl pregnant?

You get mind!

Did you check the date of the post?

Nemesis0147:
Fake life!!
A country someone will use his or last card to club just for the gram…
All na fake life.

There are lots of people living the best life in this country. Just that Nobody dey ever agree say them get for this country. People must always complain about something.

Wodu89:
Climb Prayer mountain. Go pray and refreshen. Oyo state is a good location

Lol, Abeg give me better location. I dey even reason to enter Accra or Nairobi if I no see any better location for Nigeria.

Comments are welcome

Is there a nice location for vacation within Nigeria nowadays with the high rate of insecurities facing Nigeria currently.

I’m talking about somewhere one can have fun, experience new things etc.

The stress is too much nowadays.

Thanks !!

Skyview01:


I can help relatives with my life , the least i expect in return is honesty. Money is hard to make and if you have to pad bills for me, i will not take you serious anymore.

He couldn’t even call me since I found out he lied to me, he really Bleep up

Now I don’t really care if he loses his admission cos I feel betrayed

FROGMAN101:


How it should be. Me I intend to build my life in a way that I can help many many people.

Being the last born of 2, I still want to help my elder one and even parents.

But the moment I smell any entitlement in your demeanor, even if you in my family, I cut you off straight or give you a shock reminder that I owe you Nothing.

I love how humans always behave when they know they can’t manipulate you for jack shit.

The only person that can display entitlement mentality to me is my unborn child. Even my wife will have to work and contribute.

Bro the thing really pain me, he increased his school fee from 84 to 140k knowing fully well that I have alot going on in my life.

I was about to send him the money until I confirmed from a friend who works in a cyber cafe.

Go for techno spark
10 pro, I bought one early this month and I’m currently enjoying it.

frozen70:


He will reap this bad seed he is sowing once you make sure he engages himself into any casual work during holidays

Remind him that his text book money comes from there

Then you are left with school fees receipts where you will see thr exact money he pays

From your own end, you will know what to give him as feeding per month

Thanks sis

Sonnobax15:

Majority of us did this thing one way or the other.. But that's not the case here........Op,if only you know what those students pass through at this moment in school,you go even pity am.....Cuz it isn't easy any longer....

He for just bill with sense na

Curse777:



Please 🙏 continue giving him.. and act as if you don't know.

The rate at which this teenagers bath spiritual soup they don't know the consiquences over money is very alarming

If he go join bad company because of hunger or oppression, na problem ooo.


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You mean him fit dey bath soap for me, i no understand.

I just noticed he’s been inflating the amount he always tell me he needs in school. The thing pay me sha.

E no even send or pity me to know say I get my own responsibilities. Maybe he feel say I no need money for myself since I never marry or get pickin.

Family matter still dey there, that one na story for another day.

I know say a lot of people dey in the same shoe with me wey be breadwinners.

Abeg, how una take dey handle all these.

Xwizard:
So if you are following this thread, I actually start the web development and I’m about to create another thread for my improvement

Oga, I’m following. How is it so far.

I also have this in mind but I need someone to guide me.

Thanks.

I’ll go first ..


Karma doesn’t happen to everyone. I experienced this today. It’s crazy !

Sirchiboy:
Chai.
See money.
I come dey fine 5m to travel to Germany

5m fit carry person enter Germany

Ishilove:
Nairaland should have an age limit. You must submit your birth certificate before your registration is complete so that we can have less brainless threads littering the forum

E be like say wetin the guy talk pain you 😅

Someone transferred bitcoin to my wallet address since 8am and it’s been pending since then. He even showed me a screenshot of the transfer. Pls what can I do?

Kobojunkie:
If this is who you are at this point In time then it is who you are at this point in time. That's just what it means.

I think he’s very normal ma’am