₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
This is beyond belief! Imagine the death penalty for just a kiss on the forehead... 😶😶😶

Its their MO, to use fear and terror to make others forcefully comply… its the same MO when u want to leave the religion

ultraviolet27:
Mosquitoes don't affect SS carriers only their crises they don't even experience malaria from mosquito bites their cells are sickle shaped so it can't be eaten by the malaria parasite only they suffer from oxygen depletion and shortage of blood because of lack of circulation as result of their earlier sickle red blood cell shape

lol….
Where on earth did u read that SS folks dont experience malaria ?? The internet is ur friend ooo,

Its your confidence for me….

olakan22:
First of all, your statistics of 50/50 survival is wrong. People with SS genotypes are not 'crisis' patients.

u cant even back up ur claim… u just want to sound nice…
yes they are crises patient?? and it’s not an insult or a derogatory statement … its a fact of science and reality….by generics their red blood cell is sickled shape which makes it less efficient to carry oxygen and it causes them to have pains and regular health crises when their red cell count runs a bit low…. So dont come here trying to sound nice and sugercoative…..

olakan22:
The fact that her genotype is SS doesn't make her a plaque to be avoided.

If u want to call her a plague thats on you… I never did…
But ann SS genotype for a partner is a strong reason to think over if u want to marry….. i have repeatedly seen the periodic health crises of a SS genotype person before…. Its not pretty, both for the patient and those taking care of them..

olakan22:
If he had the S trait, that would be understandable

u are just contradicting yourself…::
So why would it be understandable now? because they may have SS kids abi?
Oh.. so now u want to avoid SS kids because of their SS genotype and prone to health crises?? why are u now claiming in your first paragraph that the SS mother isnt a health crises patient to be avoided ?? U are just deceiving yourself…

olakan22:
but his reasons are primarily self-centred. His assumption that he has significant role in what gene is passed on to his children is somewhat delusional.

self centred ?? He clearly said he was hoping to give his kids a better fighting chance at life even in this area of not passing them the AS genotype that will make finding marriage parters difficult… because that will be the automatic outcome of all his kids if he marries the SS woman..
so please explain,,, how is a man thinking about the genotype of his own kids delusional and self-centred??

olakan22:
Life happens. Even when one has done everything possible, life happens. No one is asking him to marry her.

This is not life happens…life happens are the thing you ddnt see coming that eventually became you realitieszz

. He already knows the woman is SS… Thats full disclosure before entering the marriage…he will be dealing with her health crises as a SS genotype person and will be passing AS genotype to all his children…
theses are real issues,,,, but hey!! you want to make it look like they are not a big deal and also make the guy look bad for considering them…. Shame on you jooor.!!

olakan22:
If you read my comments, you'd see that I advised him to break up with her if he is bothered by her genotype. The 'what if' is because marriage should not be decided by flimsy excuses.

Ur comment was not an advice, it was a bunch of emotional blackmail with a “what if” to make him feel since disease can happen in the marriage, he should just kukuma throw caution in the wind

…… the fact is his concerns are not flimsy excuses…. and that what you are trying to paint it as… and thats why i comically asked if u were SS urself because u sound very biased ..

olakan22:
And yes, intelligence was one of the things he wanted to preserve for his children. He wrote it there.

he never attributed intelligence to genotype as u claimed in your previous comment .. please go read his comment again..

…. He mentioned intelligence separately and added that the girl checked that box as a first class graduate and is also impressive in other areas… he also mentioned that he was first class graduate too..

Gotocourt:
Coca-Cola is a notorious company known for buying competitors. Even here in Nigeria .

They'll buy the competitor and kill it.

So u are supposed to be playing with and helping with your competitors ??

olakan22:
. What if you marry someone with AA and a few years into marriage, she develops a disease condition? Would you dump her? Lastly, your talk about inheriting intelligence has nothing to do with being AA.

Which kind yeye “what if” be that….. ?? Person dey try give himself brain about confirmed crisis patient that their chances of reaching old age is on 50/50 things.,….u dey blackmail am with another what if as reason to accept the girl….

Mind yourself oooo….. u be SS ??

Btw… where did u read him saying inheriting intelligence is related to being AA… ?? Make una dey clam down dey read…

ManLikeL:
Wetin I wan gain from a faceless forum if I lie?
Sheun dey pay us money?

Resist the urge to shàlaye…. Pple dont really care about the shalaye that much…. They are just insecure and tackling others to make themselves feel better inside

God Abeg oooo… all of una wey get this kind family members,,, Una dey try oooo

These are the people calling for more tax…. Just to entich themselves even after them leave……after spending just 4-8 years in office…
Public servants that dont serve for 35 years ahould not be eligible for any form of continuous post service payment …


serve and go to your house….. theif everywhere

PheelzAlmighty:
You guys are funny 😂...

Africans and backward thinking

U ddnt even read the post…….

bluefilm:
This man is a Simp
.
Why will he show the wife the message?

Must he?

Na there he fvck up,…
Normal normal… family always accuse the wife for the husband’s behaviour they dont like, even when she ddnt do anything… as a man he supposed know how to strike balance, maintain peace…
But the mumu na captain save a skirt.,,,he dey form i love my love only wife, dey sow seed of hatred conflict and hatred im the wife against his family….

Igodomigodo419:
Hello Nairalanders!

I seriously need help and a bit of advice right now. I've been a silent and observant Nairalander for a long time now.

My marriage is barely 6 months old. Got married to the girl of my dreams. I honestly didn't envisage marriage at this stage of my life but it happened because my wife sacrificed a lot for me, and for us to be living as man and wife.

I really love my wife so much, during our courtship, i flirted with girls online which at some point she caught me, and forgave me. But i still didn't learn my lesson, subsequently, this bad habit of mine of flirting with random girls online continued, even despite her catching me again, she still kept on trusting and forgiving me. Now we are married and still, I'm still in the habit of texting and flirting with random girls.

The one that broke her was this particular lady i was flirting with online, she caught feelings for me and even went as far as posting my Pictures with hers on her tiktok page, my wife saw it online and confronted me. I begged her for forgiveness and was trying to reassure her that it was just an online flirting.. She believed me again and trusted me one more time, but now this girl i flirted with online saw my marraige pictures online (ofcos i told her i was single), and now she'has messaged my wife via Facebook and exposed our chat of us flirting to her.

My wife called me from my office and confronted me of the chat (esp the part i told her i was not married). My wife has been crying ever since and i honestly don't know what to do.

I've begged her, but she's having none of it again. Please i love my wife so much and she's currently pregnant.

I'm ashamed of myself and devasted too. I really need all the encouragement and advice right now.

I will be reading your comment,😭🥺

But una get mind oooo…

Maybe because of the way i see cheating …. I dont forgive cheating…. so I don’t expect to be forgiven

And because I dont know just how vindictive the person will go, after I beg you for forgiveness, I move oooo.. make person daughter no come pour me hot water or acid

daclint:
Just apologize and be more careful next time, cheating na default settings to we men. If you doubt me ask yourself why you continued even after she found out and if u think this gonna be the last one. Think again. And also tell the girls you're involved with the truth about you being married, most girls nowadays no even care sef

Cheating is not in any body’s default settings you just built the habit overtime and chose to continually fuel your lust…

someone is feeling remorseful for hurting his wife which may break his young marriage…u dey tell am make he continue… as in…?? Nor use this brain cross road oooo

If they shout Christian persecution now…. Una go say na propaganda… they are in now their rooms shouting allahakbar … later they will call themselves tolerant and peaceful

Leemzyy:
I pity the girl instead, oh poor girl 🤧 she deserves better 😣

. Someone is using another person’s son, exploiting his feelings when she clearly doesnt want him.. but shes the one that needs pity …

sigh… !!!Women supporting women’s wickedness…

Una nor dey surprise me shaaaa… I do sabi Una tay tay….

Hemanwel:
Has he been charged guilty of certificate forgery? It's still being alleged nah!

Sigh!!

Hemanwel:
We place too much importance on certificates in this country!

How naaa?? The issue is certificate forgery…it’s an integrity issue … but u are making it about something else? Are u justifying is reasons for forgery sir??

I shaa dont like hearing cases of falsified academic records… especially those older generation that literally went to school for free/ cheap money…

Dogalmighty17:
The guy forged his way through life! Let's make him president!

U pple wicked….yall just like pressing tinubu’s neck

Hezzyluv:
Na was oooo.

But, the weight of paint and water is not same na. The formal is heavier. If he was used to paint and inquisitive, he would have noticed the fraud from where he went to buy it.

One of the reason people get defrauded is greed….
When u want to buy iPhone 17 for 250k, you will not notice red flags ..

Make enemy nor shame us shaaa

Know where you are going…. …Dont ask random pple for directions, lagos pple will treat you like you are a ghost ……
its not their fault everybody is a potential kidnapper or pickpocket in their eyes and they are always in a hurry….. if u are unlucky, someone will take advantage of your situation


Dating is hard in lagos…. Dont leave you upcountry girlfriend until u are sure the pasture is greener on the other side

…..Almost Everybody is cheating in lagos…no lose guard… even the married ones….They will sit in lagos traffic for 3hrs to go and collect penis without thinking to repent for one second

Nigerian politics….?? Very anyhow something…
If governors of states where insecurity has been prevalent were tackled like this, we wont be whwre we are today.

But Nigerian politician only care about playing ruling vs opposition game… they care less weda the people are safe or dying

goslowgoslow:
Show your comment that I posted up there to anybody let them tell you the meaning.
Have yourself a good day or night.

But wait fesss…U still havent said u are not a Muslim though??

goslowgoslow:
"But hey! u can always pretend they are lying and hating on your religion"

That was your comment up there 👆👆👆👆 are you not concluding that I was a Muslim? And now you said I shouldn't deny it!

If I was a Muslim who are you that I will start denying my religion you wan beat me? Mind your business and face the topic. People like you are all over NL ,if you praise government over something you are automatically APC or Tinubu supporter. Very narrow way of thinking!
Yes I said so Muslim don't do that with reference to "Highway".

Baba….i did assume u are Muslim which was why I asked u …. Is being a Muslim a crime??
If I assume u are…..and u feel offended… just say u are not naaaa…. But u still havent …. Yet u are complaining I assumed as if it’s a bad thing being a muslim…. Did I assume u are thief or kidnapper

goslowgoslow:
The problem with ignorant people like you is that because of a comment you jumped into conclusions that I was a Muslim. Regardless was the examples you pointed out on the highway? I even made clear in my comment that it was wrong to pray on the road. Do you people read to comprehend?

… i only pointed out to you that Muslims actually pray on the road because u were saying no Muslims does such..

Btw… being a Muslims is not a crime…. If I assume u are Muslim, u should just clear the air that u are not if u feel offended…. but hey…u ddnt deny though.

Stephen0mozzy:
Ir, she also knows that I have this very cooooold side...

Yeah… thats whwre many pple in relationships get it wrong, they start to see what you do for them as their right and expect you to do it no matter how they treat you…

And yeah…the key is to be able to balance love and craze so they know they can jam craze when they want to pass boundary

goslowgoslow:
Exactly 💯!; Unfortunately a lot of childish people and Muslim haters on this article are not thinking the other way.

This was actually a common sight during Ramadan in the UK… police had to step frequently in to prevent angry citizens from attacking them…

Also happened in France and police had to come clear them out of the way…. But hey! u can always pretend they are lying and hating on your religion

This Omar na ticking time bomb……. She will soon go off

Stephen0mozzy:
I often feel I was lucky to have experienced being in a relationship sha. I norva date girls wey dey skosko.



Anyways, I saw this quote earlier today, and mehn, it sounded sooooo reallllll.... Like, flesh and blood did not reveal this to the guy.

So here's my question to you guys, from your experience, is this really true for most women?

Share your personal experience with being in a relationship with the type of woman referenced in the quote 👇🏾

It’s partly human nature…. When u feel u have the greater leverage in a relationship, u tend to misuse it by taking the other person for granted..

u start to feel complacent and less need to do things to the other person happy and loving you…
….its not a woman exclusive thing ..men do it too.

. just that women tend to do it more because of their entitlement mentality of thinking it’s the man’s jobs to always make them feel loved and like a baby girl and they dont need to do much..

discusant:
I shaked head in disbelief years back at Muritalla Mohammed international airport Lagos, when I saw Muslims praying on the Arrivals corridor of the Airport nearly blocked the corridor.

Baba… no vex ooooo…
which kind English be shaked ??

maasoap:
Of course, you do . Liar! But keep lying to yourself, may be one day you will be able to convince yourself and actually believe it

See baba…. No be everybody be like you..u are obviously a wicked person..
This issue happened back in may… the footage was reviewed before judgement was passed

Go check the statistic of drivers that run over humans and animals in Australia before assuming the man did it intentionally..

franchasng:
A single boy, son of a billionaire, getting married the first time and it is to a divorced woman with kids, this is an aberration

Na this kind news single dey like, making them think you are evil for saying you don’t want to marry them