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Dimples182:
They really do; little butterflies in the stomach and the excitement of meeting someone new is what they call love and that feeling wears off after 3 months!

How do you differentiate between that and the type of love that lasts?

judey1992:
quit masturbating bro. its a threat to every relationship

I don't masturbate sir.

bitcoinvin:
@op...Take ur time and work on yr self...Dont just date any woman,find the woman that is ur type.
Example..i love Play station so much and my ex always brag to win me in PS...chaiiii..Love is too much.
Well thats my stroy then,find a woman una too both get same interest

Thank you bro

optimusmind:
Lol...
You are driven by passion, that's your little guy there... Once you start getting the kitty, you lose interest.
Normall Fvck Boy problem. You see a girl, your passion to Fvck her makes you thing it's love, you do anything to get her, and when you do, you find out she's maybe uninteresting, or dull, or ugly or something you never saw and then the attraction dies.

The solution is and easy one.

The next time you meet a girl you want to date apply this three rules.

1. Be friends with her for a month without asking her out or making any promises.

2. After a month ask her out and don't bother to ask for a reply for another month... In this period, just be yourself and have fun chatting with her and getting to know her.


3. After you get a yes, then wait another 90 days before you sleep with her..
That's 4 months and no sex. If you can stay that long, you wouldn't leave her again, unless there's a major issue.

Just an idea that worked for a friend having the same issue, it may or may not work for you.

As as posted earlier, I never had sex with any of them. Sex was never the motivation

PapiSmith:
It usually happens whenever you Bleep a girl. You know that moment immediately after you cum thrn you feel like sending her away?


OK jokes apart...I think it'd because you were not maintaining the spark in your relationships

As a rule, no bleeping.

You maintain what is available. The problem is after that period of time, I find nothing to maintain again. I know this is a problem and I don't know what to do about it.

GloriaNinja:
ADJUST YOUR ATTITUDE.

Exactly why I put up this post. How do I go about that?

Please I need help...

I am a young man of 28. I have an issue with my relationships. My relationships do not last more than 3 months. When I see a lady I like, I do everything possible for that lady and promise heaven and earth. I usually mean those things and promises. The way the love grips me, I cannot explain But after about three months, I lose interest. The love will no longer be there and I begin to wonder what attracted me to them in the first place. I try to see why I loved them in the first place but I find none. The spark, desire, love and romance just dies off....just like that.

It has happened in three of my previous relationships and I have broken the hearts of three amazing ladies. I will just look for an excuse to break up with them. It is all my fault, but why stay in a relationship where the spark is no longer there?

Please anyone that experiences this should help a brother out. What can I do to overcome this problem? I am tired of breaking the hearts of ladies I have a relationship with.