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Events / Re: Why I Won't Attend My Cousin Brother's Wedding Ceremony Today by wellmax(m): 7:43pm On May 21, 2022
Total rubbish. People with entitlement mentality. What you gonna do with the hard copy.

I sent out my wedding IV via WhatsApp. Those who came i appreciated. Those who didn't, i no even notice.

Nonsense. You have nothing to offer the young man.
Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu's Okada Ban: 16 Points To Know by wellmax(m): 8:43pm On May 20, 2022
uBuNiT:
This single action will cost tinubU aso rock. Yoruba can dare aboki to their own peril.

I thought common sense was common.
Politics / Re: Herdsmen Attack Benue Community, Kill Five, Others Missing (graphic Photos) by wellmax(m): 8:40pm On May 20, 2022
It's that tine of the month again to pay salaries. Otom has started his story telling.
Politics / Re: Gunmen Burn DSS, FRSC Offices In Nnewi Over Nigerian Flag by wellmax(m): 10:05pm On Oct 03, 2021
DOTian:
But if they ask you guys to remove your Jihadi flags, you guys should simply remove the terrorist flags so that peace will reign. This is very simple. Now somebody has died because of a very avoidable incident....

Another idiot spotted.

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Politics / Re: IPOB Invades, Burns Joe Igbokwe's House In Anambra, Caught On CCTV (Video) by wellmax(m): 8:04pm On Oct 03, 2021
Faber:
Good one. At least he can fully nationalise in Afonja territory Lagos. We don dash this one to Yoruba people.

His home in Igbo land is gone. Let him build another one in his new home town in Lagos.

Let's see how a foreigner will put mouth in our matters and plans.

Joe Yorubakwe is technically a Yoruba man. Don't come back to Nnewi, u no get house here. Abi you want come lodge for hotel grin grin

The the stupid mindset of an Igbos terrorists, so let's assume he is yoruba, you now support the burning of his property? When Yorubas start doing the same to Ibos can you stand it.

Ipob are truly brainless.

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Crime / Re: Suspected Thief Electrocuted As Transformer Blows In Festac (video) by wellmax(m): 7:31pm On Oct 02, 2021
The camera man had only one job and he failed woefully

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Crime / Re: Suspected Thief Electrocuted As Transformer Blows In Festac (video) by wellmax(m): 7:29pm On Oct 02, 2021
All vandals shall meet their sad end.
Crime / Re: Suspected Thief Electrocuted As Transformer Blows In Festac (video) by wellmax(m): 7:29pm On Oct 02, 2021
What a way to die.
Romance / Doctor I Am Pregnant For My Elder Sister's Husband by wellmax(m): 8:23pm On Oct 01, 2021
"DOCTOR I AM PREGNANT FOR MY ELDER SISTER'S HUSBAND: DO I ABORT THE PREGNANCY OR DO I MARRY HIM? SCARY TRUE LIFE STORY FROM INSIDE MY CONSULTING ROOM"
Three weeks ago I heard a knock on the door of my consulting room. “I said yes "come in". She opened the door and came in. Standing before me was a young woman in her late 20's looking dejected and rejected.

"You are welcome. What can I do for you?" I asked. She managed to answer me "Doctor I am tired of life". That response hit me and made me readjust my seat. I knew I had a serious life matter in my hands." I called my file attendant who was opening her card to bring it quickly which he did. I asked her to have her seat and asked for her name. She answered MERCY (NOT THE REAL NAME). "So what is the problem? Why are you tired of life? Hope you don't have any plan to kill yourself?" I asked. She said "Doctor if death could just come for me right now, will I not be better off? ". I answered her "The most important thing in life is life itself. As far as you are alive, there is hope no matter the situation" I counseled her, not knowing that I was about to hear the worst secret of my entire career so far. In fact we got to a point when she was telling me her story, I almost agreed with her within me that truly death might actually be better but thank God whose mercy is infinite and limitless, no matter the depth of our decadence.

Are you ready to read MERCY’S true life story? Then take your seat, let's go.
"So MERCY I am all ears. Tell me everything that happened to you that made you think death is better". She breathed in deeply and tears started rolling down her cheeks as she asked me the scary question: "DOCTOR I AM PREGNANT FOR MY ELDER SISTER'S HUSBAND: DO I ABORT THE PREGNANCY OR DO I MARRY HIM?" I didn't know when I breathed deeply in too and said “your elder sister's husband?" "The same father the same mother?” She said yes. I breathed deeply in again and composed myself like a professional. "Okay MERCY how did you get here? How did you get pregnant for your elder sister's husband? Is your sister aware? Tell me more about this whole thing". Little did I even know that I had not heard the deepest and worst secret? She went ahead to ask me the second question without responding to any of my serial questions. "DOCTOR DO YOU KNOW THIS IS MY SECOND PREGNANCY? I HAD A CHILD FOR HIM ALREADY WHO IS LIVING WITH US BUT MY SISTER DID NOT KNOW THAT HER HUSBAND IS THE FATHER". At this junction I didn't know if I dropped my pen on the floor or my pen dropped from my hands to the floor, I had to manage to bend down, pick it up, and sit down very well again so that I wouldn't lose my balance on the seat.

"Mercy are you serious about what you just told me?" I asked unbelievably. She said yes doctor. I said how? Okay, can you tell me your whole story with your sister and how you got to this level? Then the sad story began “Doctor I will blame our parents for all this" " why" I asked. She continued "When we were growing up doctor our parents had always preferred my elder sister to me. They would always say she is more responsible than me. They would always say I am useless I should go and look at my elder sister how she is living her life and emulate her. I became competitive with my sister as early as I could remember in life as children. Anything she had I wanted it. I competed with her in everything in life. This cut across even her boyfriend’s when we grew up.

Doctor, I dated two of her boyfriends when we were staying together as sisters in the university but she didn't know. I even aborted for one of them." I was trying not to sweat and keep my calm and composure. We doctors hear deep things of life behind those closed doors of our consulting rooms. We carry them with us as burdens every day even to our graves. Only those secrets we are permitted by the owners to share can be revealed. Sometimes we get depressed hearing these stories. Sometimes my wife would notice I looked depressed she would ask me what the problem is I will say nothing, yet there are millions of secrets you can't share because you swore to an oath to die with them. May God help all doctors the world over? Please keep praying for us for strength.

Back to our story. MERCY continued “doctor I have even broken up some of my sister's relationships in the past that she was not aware that I was the one that broke them. She was not a saint after all like our late parents painted her. There was a time she was planning to marry one responsible, rich, successful guy that loved her so much but I noticed she and one of her exes were still talking. I went ahead to tell the other guy that was planning to marry her which led to their break up. She almost died from the incident and till today she never knew it was me that told the guy. Doctor, I am a horrible person right?" She asked me as guilt was written all over her and was crying bitterly. I consoled her and urged her to continue her story because truly I didn't want to answer that question.

She continued" Doctor so to how I got here with my sister's husband...5 years ago she got married and you know we have been staying together since we lost our parents. We were the only two our parents had. So when she got married I followed her to her husband's house to be staying with her. After two years into the marriage that she could not conceive I started giving her husband a signal that I was available if he wanted me. Doctor, I never knew the extent this childhood rivalry had eaten me up until now. Doctor my sister's husband and I started having intimacy right under her nose and on her matrimonial bed. Anytime she traveled and left me at home with her husband, I took care of her husband till she returned. Eventually, I got pregnant with the husband. I wanted to ABORT it but he begged me and begged me that I shouldn't. He would find a fake father for the child who would take responsibility for the pregnancy and the child without my sister knowing.

The whole issue of being pregnant became a fight between me and my sister but the fake man showed up and claimed responsibility for it and begged my sister to please calm down he would marry me but not now because he was still job-hunting which made my sister leave me in her house to continue staying with her with my child but she could not help the way her husband loved the child so much. She noticed it."

"Doctor I regretted all this. I felt my betrayal of my sister had gone too far. I cried and repented after the whole incident but I was scared to death to confess to my sister what I had done to her but I vowed nothing would happen between me and her husband again. I kept to this promise doctor until 2 months ago. All this while my guilt gave me strength to fight off the husband anytime my sister was not at home and the husband wanted to play with me. I thought I had even overcome him until 2 months ago when one thing led to another and it happened again. Doctor I never saw my period again which made me do a pregnancy test yesterday lo and behold POSITIVE. Doctor help me how do I go about my life from here? To now make matter worse doctor do you know that till now my sister has still not gotten pregnant for the husband? And I told the man yesterday about the second pregnancy and he told me I should marry her, he would divorce my sister and marry me. Doctor, please help me I am finished"

For almost 5 minutes after hearing her story because I didn’t even know the way forward Please the matter is now in your court what do you think is the solution to this problem?
As for Mercy's questions to me if she should ABORT the pregnancy or marry her sister's husband. My own answer is NO to the two questions. DON'T ABORT THE CHILD AND DON'T MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND EVEN IF THE WOMAN INVOLVED IS NOT YOUR SISTER. As to where to go from here I will leave you readers to offer your pieces of advice and suggestions on this delicate matter. As for me, I learnt some powerful life lessons from this matter which I will like to share with you before I leave the floor open for comments and suggestions. Below are the lessons:

Expect another intriguing write-up from me soon.
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The writer is Dr Adesida Adewumi (area of specialization: Family medicine)

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Romance / Re: What Does She Mean By This? by wellmax(m): 6:09pm On Oct 01, 2021
Sometimes ago, I asked this girl out. We've been friends for over 3 years and she'd told her friends how much she loves me.

I asked her out, she said she will think about it.

Well, she didn't give a response and I moved on.

One day I got the SMS saying 'YES'.

I just ignored it, w days later she called to ask if I knew what that meant. Fortunately my last sms to her reads 'hope you are doing fine'. So i said I thought it was a response to my sms.

She didn't know what to say, and I was no longer interested. Na there we finish the matter.

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Politics / Re: 'Buhari Wears $640 Shoes, Seeks Loans Of Countries Presidents Wear $100 Shoes' by wellmax(m): 1:52pm On Sep 30, 2021
Angelfrost:


O come now, you are more intelligent than this... Your emotions are making you come off as equally petty.

What is my business with the pettiness of an idle and fraudulent so called man of God??! I screen every post, pick out the message (The real message) and move on.

I have never concerned myself with the trivial details of any Nigerian from street beggar to Dangote! My sole interest is in the consistent and deliberate seeking of loans at the detriment of the economic future of this nation by someone who has been singing the white lie of economic diversification since he took over power!!!

That picture I shared has no business nor bearing with the useless Reno's personal bile against the lifestyle of Buhari sir... That is the reality of a nation being poorly led!!!

Let's learn to stick to issues that actually matter!!!

Buhari can wear shoes more expensive than any nation's budget! That's none of my business!!! As long as he is doing a fine job of economic growth and national development, we won't even be on this thread!!! Thank you.

Trash, all you said is trash.

Because we owe money our President should walk without shoes abi? you petty ilks.

This is not opposition or being a critic, except like I said you choosed to be and reamin petty
Politics / Re: 'Buhari Wears $640 Shoes, Seeks Loans Of Countries Presidents Wear $100 Shoes' by wellmax(m): 1:33pm On Sep 30, 2021
Angelfrost:


Well, since you and many others chose to miss the Crux of the message or post by Reno... Let the following picture help your reasoning:

Since you choose to be petty, kindly write the president to walk barefooted since Nigeria owes a debt.

Go ahead and tell us the price of his underwear and draw a table comparing it with the cost of underwear other presidents wear.

This is why we are not taken seriously, majoring in the minor and minor on the major issues affecting us as a nation. Of all things, it is a worn shoe that is your problem.

Wendel Simlin is just a fake pastor, who has not gotten over the 2015 loss of his means of free money and seeks attention.

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Politics / Re: 'Buhari Wears $640 Shoes, Seeks Loans Of Countries Presidents Wear $100 Shoes' by wellmax(m): 12:35pm On Sep 30, 2021
Reno is so jobless and useless.

We have left Buhari trousers, now its shoes.

Let us be a serious opposition for once.

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Crime / Re: Lekki Tollgate: Army Didn't Fire high velocity projectiles - Dieye Willie-Harry by wellmax(m): 8:18am On Sep 30, 2021
#Lekkilies falling like a pack of cards.

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Crime / Re: Unknown Gunmen Behead Man In Anambra With Warning Note 'No Election' (Graphic) by wellmax(m): 10:12pm On Sep 29, 2021
Let the Igbo leaders turn a blind eye while their city is consumed.
Politics / Kaduna Bans Motorcycles, Weapons, Restricts Tricycles In Kaduna by wellmax(m): 5:05pm On Sep 29, 2021
All vehicles used for commercial transportation are to be painted in yellow and black within 30 days.

Telecommunication services have been shut down in parts of Kaduna State as part of new measures to fight banditry in the state.

Parts of Kaduna affected by the telecommunications ban were not made public at a media briefing held by the Commissioner for Internal Security of Home Affairs, Samuel Aruwan, who announced other new measures at a media briefing on Wednesday, September 29, 2021.

Also effective from September 30, the state government banned the use of motorcycles, both for commercial and personal purposes, for three months.

All vehicles used for commercial transportation, including ride hailing cars for Uber and Bolt, are to be painted in yellow and black within 30 days.

Tricycles are allowed to operate only between 6 am and 7 pm, and the government emphasised a ban on possession of or wielding of dangerous weapons.

The sale of petrol in jerry cans or other containers has also been banned in Birnin Gwari, Giwa Igabi, Chikun, Kachia, Kagarko and Kajuru LGAs.

Aruwan said the new measures in the interest of our collective safety and security, and to aid security agencies fighting criminals.

The commissioner said the inconvenience is regretted, but the hardship is expected to be temporary.

"Too many lives have been lost, and too many families have been shattered.

"Small groups of wicked persons cannot continue to hold us to ransom, and force us to live in perpetual fear," he said.

Kaduna is one of the worst affected by banditry and violent attacks in the northern region, with 1,482 people killed and 3,695 kidnapped between January 2020 and June 2021, according to the government's own records.

https://www./2021/09/29/breaking-el-rufai-bans-motorcycles-weapons-restricts-movement-of-tricycles-in-kaduna/

Politics / Re: Herdsmen Killed Chike Akunyili, Dora Akunyili Husband - Gazette by wellmax(m): 12:18pm On Sep 29, 2021
Herdsmen indeed

See for yourself,

Residents Rejoicing and Hailing Unknown Gunmen in Anambra

https://web.facebook.com/watch/?v=997273054339198&notif_id=1632896407776184&notif_t=watch_follower_video&ref=notif

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Politics / Re: Herdsmen Killed Chike Akunyili, Dora Akunyili Husband - Gazette by wellmax(m): 12:16pm On Sep 29, 2021
Gazzete is eager to change the narrative.

This man was killed by IPOB simple.

Herdsmen that will strike in broad daylight in the city?

Anonymous sources when even family members have confirmed it was carried out by IPOB.

Keep deceiving yourselves in the SE, kill your people finish.

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Politics / Re: PDP Dead Forever If It Zones 2023 Presidency To North – Ohanaeze by wellmax(m): 9:33pm On Sep 28, 2021
Toothless dogs

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Politics / Re: Abia Flyover @ 6! Lady 'Celebrates' Governor Ikpeazu's Osisioma-Aba Flyover by wellmax(m): 9:15pm On Sep 28, 2021
Jonathan39:
What about Ogun, Ekiti, Osun. Which one are they building? Or Every Yoruba is now from Lagos? grin grin grin

You have certainly not visited the states you mentioned. The developments going on there can never happen in Ábíá state in the next 30 years. I lived on Faulks road Aba and know the filt of a city that Aba is.
Little wonder they all want to escape to Lagos and other SW states. Go to the remotest village on Osun you will find ibo men there running from the filt back home.


No yoruba man will in a village outside his domain, it's either in the city or he will rather remain an in his own village, but those lefulefu, every where is much better than home.
Science/Technology / Re: Mystery As Hundreds Of Dead Ravens Fall Out Of The Sky In Russia ( Pics, Video) by wellmax(m): 5:02pm On Sep 28, 2021
calculator123:
A shift in the Earth's magnetic field can cause this.

.. and affected only ravens abi?

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Politics / Re: Abia Flyover @ 6! Lady 'Celebrates' Governor Ikpeazu's Osisioma-Aba Flyover by wellmax(m): 2:16pm On Sep 28, 2021
Abia state is an extension of the entire South East, such a disaster region.


Lagos is busy building flyovers everywhere, yet these ndi dots will tell us it was built by FG.


Yeye people.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Some Very Bitter Pills To Swallow by wellmax(m): 12:03pm On Sep 28, 2021
DoggoneDogg:
13. Fear Afonja. They are deadly.

Little boy, grow up from this childishness.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Some Very Bitter Pills To Swallow by wellmax(m): 12:02pm On Sep 28, 2021
thesicilian:

12. Life's unfair. It's been like that from the beginning and will remain so till the end. You just have to learn to deal with it.

No 12. Life is fair because it is unfair to everyone.

Extra.
No 13. You are special and unique, just like everyone else.

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Travel / Re: Rivers State Completes Rumuola Flyover In Port Harcourt (Pictures & Video) by wellmax(m): 5:53pm On Sep 27, 2021
Nice one. PDP or APC all I want to see is development.
Congratulations Rivers even though Wike is an ass hole

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Some Jobs That Will Soon Be Gone For Good by wellmax(m): 12:59pm On Sep 27, 2021
4kelly4handsome:
Here are nine jobs that will be obsolete in few years:

1. Taxi Drivers:
With the increasing popularity of rideshare apps like Uber and Lyft, the traditional taxi driver who works for a taxi Company faces extinction. Running a taxi company is much more expensive than ridesharing, but regular taxi services can not compete with the pricing models of the new transportation model.

2. Bank Tellers:
When was the last time you walked into a physical bank and conducted a financial
service with a bank teller? Automation
and artificial intelligence is quickly replacing this long-standing job. Most loans can be completed and through an app, and checks can be deposited directly Over your mobile phone. For cash transactions, automatic teller machines can increasingly perform more complicated tasks previously completed by a human being.

3. Cashiers:
There may always be a need for one or two cashiers in a store for price check issues and other common purchasingg problems, but the standard cashier jobis in danger. Self-checkout machines and the move towards digital currency are quickly automating the jobs of cashiers.

4. Telemarketer:
While most of us cheer the idea of
telemarketers going away, this doesnt mean we will no longer receive unsolicited phone calls. Currently, most of the telemarketing calls are conducted by automation and Switched over to a person when specific criteria are met. Howeve, those in the telemarketing industry actively look for ways to automate even the current human process.

5. Dispatchers: (except emergency services) Dispatchers for typical service industry jobs such as plumbers, taxi drivers, and other services are quickly being replaced by automation. Over the next five years, most of these jobs will likely be replaced by computers. While we believe machines may eventually replace emergency service dispatchers, this will take longer than five years.

6. Watch repairers: there are two significant concerns with the watch repair jobs that are still in existence. First, many people are switching over to smartwatches that integrate with their phones. Any issues with smartwatches are usually too complex for a traditional watch repairer, so these watches must go back to the manufacture. Second, as automation replaces many in the manufacturing industry, traditional watches tend to get cheaper while watch repair costs are increasing

7. Printing press operators:
Printed media is a quickly dying medium.
While magazines and newspapers are still printed in small quantities, the next five years will show a massive push to strictly digital content. The printing press operators will still be needed for some required publications, but their overall numbers will be all but obsolete.

8. Bus Drivers: Driverless vehicles are becoming much more common, and we are sure public transportation is soon to follow Traditional bus drivers will soon be replaced by driverless transportation to increase efficiency and lower government Costs.

9. Librarians: With the move towards digital media and libraries turning to self serve kiosks, the traditional librarian role is quickly disappearing. With the move towards digital media and libraries turning to self serve kiosks, the traditional librarian role is quickly disappearing

Key Take-Aways
Finding a recession-proof job is essential to preparing for future uncertainty.
By focusing on industry trends and the future of automation, we can better for
careers that can pass the test of time.


Completely disagree

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