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This is very funny. There shouldn't be all this Jamb and tests just for a child to proceed in life. These are barriers for the less privileged that prevents people from succeeding. Until Jamb, Waec and other tests are cancelled, Nigeria can never be better because these kids are not learning anything or gaining anything from their education but majorly reading to pass. This is why an average Nigerian graduate is not employable because they have learnt nothing more than stress in school. Advanced countries focus on making children gain skills and knowledge not making students pass. Our focus is on making students pass

luminouz:
Jesus...what does this history mean now?

All you ever talk about is money, no other value added, just money. If you don't have money today, what's your value?

That's why you lots don't have good marriages. All you ever think of is money, which is a poverty-stricken mentality

How are you sure aside money I don't have other value? I speak about how I constantly travel, doesn't even mean I'm rich but I can get the funds to travel if I want to.

luminouz:
Lol...so travelling out of Nigeria is now an achievement?

Your mentality is low

Ability to travel anywhere anytime is a luxury so many people in Africa doesn't have so it is indeed an achievement.

Decidetolive:
You're still very dull and shallow in your thinking despite living in advance country. A wife no matter her financial status can not travel overseas without the approval of her husband but you don't know that because your brain is infinitesimal. I won't waste my time replying a slow individual like you anymore.

You think we are in 15th century lol. Approval of who? Lol you joking I'm sure. Again only poor people would wait for approval or even think about those things.
You funny

dettolgel:
I can see your poor education written all over your post. Please do point out where I said that someone will be forced to pay what they don't earn or pay beyond their earnings?

Please I am not the reason for your frustrated life. Read to understand before you disgrace yourself here.

Lol, I'm far away from frustration dear. You are the one who is not just poor but very uneducated and spitting rubbish because you have never traveled out of your Country before and you don't know how a country with law works. Since you will end up like Ikenna, i will advise you stay back in Nigeria because if you dare commit domestic violence abroad, you will end up in prison or ending yourself

dealslip:
honestly the way they reason is almost senseless. Thinking every woman is a beggar and can't survive without them

That's very normal in a society like Nigeria where the rich become richer and poor become poorer. The girls beg because there's no opportunity for them to succeed. Success is only for rich or upper middle class families

Decidetolive:
Olodo with no functional medula. You do not measure up with my wife in any ramification of life. You wayward women of this generation do not know what it entails to be married hence your foolish comment

I left Nigeria at 16years, prior to that, I constantly spend my holidays with my Aunties and I go for functions there. You mentioned you can't take your wife out of Nigeria which means she is very poor and ugly that she can't travel by herself. If I need to fly anywhere today, all it takes is for me to order my flight ticket. But since your wife is poorer than church rat including where she came from, it's normal you give her those conditions

Decidetolive:
Too bad. Have made it clear to my wife that I can only take them to west for vacation but relocation ? Never

Of course, since your wife is from 4 generations of poverty and very ugly, why won't you not?

In 2025 girls travel on their own

dettolgel:
A lot of women do it here. How many US citizens receive 15k a month after tax. She wanted to live large off the dude. He would either had run back to Nigeria with his tail between his legs or stay back and slave for her or end it all like a man leaving her with nothing.

I know you have low IQ and very poor but I will help you. No one will ask him to pay what he doesn't earn and if he doesn't earn it, there's no how he's gonna pay anyways but you can't understand because you came from a village with low iq people so I do not blame you.

Mentholated:
"He came after his wife and kids with a gun and held them for 3 hrs" and this told you that he had anger management issues. So for 3 hours, the anger did not make him to shoot his wife

Any spouse that understands the system knows you can keep a trail of manufactured evidence for future purposes.

This is her husband for goodness sake. You are not even getting to my point.

Most modern wives have little or no clue the level of influence they have over their husbands. Just a smile, the right words or a good text message is enough to deescalate things.

Lol so women are deescalators? Men cannot deescalate? I have no RIp to waste for him. Of you move to western countries, remember there are laws there and there are consequences. You can't continue to behave like a Nigerian man who has been trained to violate a woman's right. If you want to be happy, it's in your hands.

dealslip:
That's because you marry poor women, who depend on you all before they can eat. Women who have the capacity to sponsor themselves will not be subjected to such regulation, when she has the means to achieve it. Even you will not give her such conditions. Na those paupers you all threaten with those conditions

Seriously,I come to nairaland to laugh. I come from a generation of women who have all traveled to at least 10 countries. These freaks must come from very poor communities. I hope they heal