₦airaland Forum

SpecialAdviser:
There is no bitter and honest truth in it. I dont know why many of you clap at every statement without deep research about it. Monogamy seems troublesome now because many of us never witnessed polygamy in practice. Every type of marriage comes with its own drama, you cannot just believe one is so perfect.

Below are some of the insights. For every marriage, three major parties are involved. Father, mother and children. Polygamy may look like benefiting men but the mothers and their children will be getting the hits.

1) Father: Yes options for sex. Options for loyalty etc
2) Children; Except the father is rich, may drop out of school. May witnessed constant problems at home, quarrels and envy most times. Go to northern Nigeria and see their kids. With all the money they steal in government, still the most backward region. There can never be a man that loves two women equal! Even God does nit love us equal. If not why did He chose Israel those days in the bible. Why was DAVID His friend? Why did Abraham chase out Hagar? For as long as you cannot love those wives equal, trouble sets in and the kids get the hits.

3) Mothers: Lack of attention, Unhealthy competition, Sometimes lacking sex, Their husbands gets the licenses to honourably chase women since they can bring in another wife. Go to Abuja and see how Alhajis chases young girls for sex. I have seen first wives suffer in Kano state and wonder if polygamy worts it. It looks like its succeeding in the north because most of the women are uneducated and religion also used to calm them. If your child drops out of school, its the will of God. My dad was born into a polygamous home. Very brilliant man. They called him uneducated professor but he never went to school. I still thank God my dad did not bring in another woman to compete with my mum all the time they had issues. It would have been a disaster. I would never have been educated and will still be suffering now. People are blind sha

Summarily, Its only selfish for men to believe their sexual satisfaction and attention is enough for marriages. Do you think of being born into polygamous homes? Most of us would not have attained our heights Most tich people will always make polygamy look perfect until you get into it as a poor man. Many people will argue that when you have another woman in the space of competition, it gets the first woman behaving well but this has always been FALSE. It actually gets the first woman CRAZY. The threat can get her behaving a BIT okay but not when the ACTION is carried out.

my dad married 4 wife's but all of us went to the best schools. Sometimes it's all about balance and sacrifice.

Arsenal 1: 0 crystal
Aston villa 1 : 2 man city

Just like the Antwerp diamond heist.You can never be too careful. some robbery leaves trails and evidence

englishmart:
Almost every Nigerian agency runs without accountability. Customs deliver less than 50% of their revenues to the FG, and so does NNPC, NDLEA, Police, etc.
I know more than 7 NDLEA officers here at Ikoyi, nobody takes Canadian loud like them. In fact, they're the ones who supply seized drugs to street guys.
Every kidnapping gang is headed by a member of the armed forces.

wow. This is really eye opening. Where does the hope of my country Nigeria come from

Yahoo boys are nothing but failures. Bringing unending Shame to the country. I pray karma falls on all of them

DystopianMuse:
Man U 3 wins on a bounce, let the fake hype begins. The full English media is gonna come out, how Amorim is the best thing since slice bread, how they are now title contenders., plastic fans crawling out of their holes, But as usual time will tell!!!

hahaha. You're funny.

Na age make you enter depression. You never ready live life

Someone said exams is till February how true is it

DeepSight:
Ehen?

Is that not evidence of NOT being beautiful.

No be the same thing kill Michael Jackson

DeepSight:
How was she beautiful?

Xx

she died from cosmetic surgery apparently

badoh:
That is why as a president, never entrust key military formations in the hand of those not from your region. One region is impatient and wants power to return to them as soon as possible, another region because of their hate are doing everything possible to make sure the country burns so that power will leave the southwest.

Loyalty and trust has nothing to do with region or tribe. It's more of service and loyalty to fatherland. As a soldier and uniform man you swear an oath to protect the president. It will shock you it was an Hausa man that revealed the coup plotters

Not surprised.This was expected coming after the near coup attempt. Ajayi saved his life

If men were given the chance to mould their own even they'll finish all the clay on nyash forgetting to mould head

In as much as everything in this world is vanity. The world has placed more importance on material wealth. Even to be a family member you must have money

Audio investigation. We all know EFCC is the most useless organisation in the country

Open relationships are more common with bisexual couples. Hope it's not what I'm thinking

Congratulations to joy ogah. A very commendable gesture from the VP himself. Not like that girl who after going for an English contest came back and was rewarded 200k

That owo church massacre is too fresh in my memories. Aketi called it a "black Sunday in owo". The attack in the south west seems to be Fulani herders taking vengeance. When Jonathan said boko haram choose buhari to be their negotiator it's beginning to make sense now

ChybuzzDD:
You guys still use phones to rate people

Baba e tire me oh. Even Nottingham forest owners who has billions of dollars uses an iPhone 7

The system is designed in a way you have to be extremely corrupt to make it. It's the machavellian way in Nigeria. Politics is a tool where people deliberately enrich few people and make life miserable for others. Tinubu has successfully achieved that

This guy looks depressed. May Allah ease his affairs

Jokerman:
But honestly who decided to lump various tribes together into a single country?

No shared language, Culture, Ideas, beliefs, unity.

If there's no unity, the country can't get to where it is supposed to be.

Every tribe in Nigeria shoulda have their own country

na lord lugard now. That man must be a 33rd degree freemason

SatoshiX:
I hope these ones know the consequences of a failed coup?? God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria

They should be set free. The almakuras are like the sarakis in kwara

faceland:
You cannot remove a CIA asset just like that. You must first cause problem between him and his bosses.

fulgencio battista was a CIA asset when Fidel Castro removedvhim. They coup plotters didn't plan it well i guess.

Abdul05:
Why do you like feeding yourself with fake news?

A strange news suddenly comes from a sahara reporter and you quickly jumped into it..

fake new kee you there

geoworldedu:
Not that same Chelsea o. That was a trophyless Chelsea. The Chelsea I'm talking about is the one who flogged PSG 3-0, won an European and a World Cup, became the only team to have won all competitions in Europe and the world. The Chelsea who won Liverpool and never lost any EPL game this season except when they are red-carded. That's the Chelsea I'm talking about. The Chelsea rocked with injuries but still defeated the league winner. That's the Chelsea I'm talking about, not the 2-seasons ago Chelsea.

is it not the same season and players they won PSG

Newsmills:
The killers will later become political leaders in the state in particular and the country at large,borrowing a leaf from the current political leadership of human sacrifices and what have you.

I swear this is so true. They are everywhere in the corridors of power. People with corpses in their cupboard

geoworldedu:
That suggests that the coach is clueless. He doesn't know how to string a good formation. Moreover, no team in EPL can win a non-red carded Chelsea squad. Take that to the bank.

the same Chelsea that arsenal flogged 5 or the one that Man city win home and away

Odss11:
Scared of this lineup....what exactly is the coach thinking
Maybe he wan save Angee

that is what you guys said against amorim the next match Brighton brighten una

Drllmy:
Fellow comrades, please, between a Lecturer II position in a state university and a Senior Lecturer position in a federal college of education, which one would you advise someone to go for? Both are newly established! Thanks

lecturer II in state university