₦airaland Forum

As much as I have always not been a strong advocate of excessive exposure to social media I believe it still suffices to say that the age we are in you cannot thrive without it .

And greater thanks to the Almighty COVID,that further emphasizes remote platform to carry out our day to day function

I am quite sure by the time I finish this write up majority of those on this platform would have stopped reading too bad but it's the truth
But if it's a tik tok,or internet skitch
It would have enjoyed millions of view
I haven't seen the said video(even if it is free for all I would not have checked it out) a personal decisions,but I listened to the girls mother and
I was shaken to my core ,
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD BORN WHAT YOU KNOW YOU WILL UNDER ALLEGIANCE TO GOD,NURTURE, GUIDE AND TRAIN .I AM SAYING THIS BECAUSE PARENTING IS NOT BREAD AND BUTTER SO IT TIME WE WOMEN GET OUR ACTS TOGETHER.
I AM A MOTHER AND I KNOW WHAT AM SAYING THE WHOLE BULK STOPS AT YOUR TABLE
BE IT SINGLE PARENTING
OR CO PARENTING
TO KNOW YOU CHILD AND IMPRINT YOUR VALUE IN YOUR CHILDREN IN THIS PRESENT AGE YOU HAVE TO DECISIVELY
GO EXTRA MILE
IF NOT YOU WILL WAKE UP LIKE THIS GIRLS MOTHER TO A STAGGERING REALITY OF WHAT A FAILURE YOU HAVE BEEN
SHE WAS TRYING TO WHIP UP SYMPATHY THROUGH INCOHERENCE
SOMEBODY IN THE BACKGROUND HAD TO GUIDE HER THROUGH A POORLY DELIVERED SHEECH .
MY KIDS ATTENDS ONE OF THE BEST SCHOOLS IN STATE IN WHICH I AM
BUT I AM ONE OF THEIR MOST CRITICAL CLIENT .
I DONT NEED YOU TO LIKE ME AS A SCHOOL OWNER WHEN I KNOW YOU ARE JUST DOING BUSINESS AND CASHING OUT AND COLLECTING MILLIONS FROM ME IN THE NAME IF SCHOOL FEES DUE TO THE FACT THAT THE GOVERMENT THAT IS SUPPOSED TO PROVIDE EDUCATION HAS FAILED ALL AND EXCEPT IF YOU WANT TO BREED MPURU NMIRI SNUFFERS YOU DONT SEND YOUR KIDS TO GOVERMENT OWNED SCHOOL SUPPOSEDLY FUNDED BY TAX PAYERS MONEY.
WHY WOULD YOU LEAVE A TEN YEAR OLD TO GO ALONE TO DIBAI?
WHAT IS THE HYPE?
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO IMPRESS?
WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO MEASURE UP TO?
OR PROVE A POINT TO? Too bad
WHAT IS YOUR TEN YEAR OLD DOING WITH ANDROID PHONE
DO YOU KNOW YOU CAN CONTROL AND REGULATE WHAT YOUR CHILD HAVE ACCESS TO ON EVERY SINGLE ELECTRONIC MEDIUM.
TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCEMENT IS A GLOBAL EVOLUTION BUT PLEASE DONT LET IT BE YOUR UNDOING
IT WOULD MOST DEFINITELY RESHAPE THE FUTURE ,ITS YOUR CHOICE HOW YOU WANT IT TO RESHAPE YOURS
MY KIDS DONT HAVE PHONES AND THEY KNOW THEY WONT UNTILL 16 YEARS THIS WE HAVE ALREADY DISCUSSED AND HAVE THEIR UNDERSTANDING
BUT THEY ALL HAVE ELECTRONIC PADS AND LAPTOPS IN WHICH I FULLY CONTROL WHAT THEY HAVE ACCESS TO
IF YOU DONT KNOW HOW GET EXPERT HELP TO DO ALL THIS CONFIGURATION AND PAY THEM OFF AND IF YOU CAN AND WORK IN IT SAVVY ENVIRON LEARN AND RELEARN TO EQUIP YOURSELF NOT ONLY FOR YOUR SECULAR JOB BUT FOR YOUR LIFETIME RESPONSIBILUTY ONCE YOU CHOOSE TO BRING A LIFE TO THIS WORLD.
See the result .
All the internet yeyebrities that all they sell for a living is sex are now commenting on your issue because you failed from the closet.
Who failed ? In this whole chrisland saga.
It is ALL US.
The problem of this girl is a resultant and multiplier effect of social economic failure
Today education from the age of 5 to grade 12 which is equivalent of our Senior secondary SS3 is free ,but in Nigeria you buy supposedly (good education) for your children at exorbitant prices ,SO I YOU AREN'T CAREFULL WHILE CHASING THE MONEY,TO MEET UP YOU FAILED IN YOU FAMILY VALUE SYSTEM .
PARENT! ESPECIALLY MOTHERS! BE CAREFUL BE VIGILANT.
MAKE YOUR CHILDREN YOUR FRIEND
DO EVERYTHING WITH THEM
BE CAREFULL OF THAT FREEDOM YOU SEEK BY PUTTING THEM IN BOARDING HOUSES
EVEN THE WEST THAT BROUGHT EDUCATION TO AFRICA HAVE THEIR KIDS GO FROM HOME UP TO 12TH GRADE.
THERE SO MANY MORE I NEED TO SAY BUT I HAVE TO PREPARE FOR WORK BUT I WILL GIVE A SHORT STORY AT MY DAUGHTERS SHOOL TO MAKE THIS RELATABLE

THE SWIMMING LESSON OCCURENCE
My kids school built a swimming pool and added it to the schools club options
I decided to enroll them as I was already taking them on weekends for the same
"Why I made up my mind that my kids must know how to smim was a job I could no land on graduation from the uni in the fossil fuel sector because I could not swim'
On the first day of swimming less I daughter's uniform was misplaced by her and she brought home another person's.
I would not want to go into the details but I took it up with the school and the uniform was replace with a new one .this was because her missing uniform very much new cos it was purchase that same term and the one she brought home was very old worn out and short
Please dont get me wrong, even if the uniform she brought home was to be new I would still have know because because I prepare my kids for school every morning .and i would never have allowed her to wear it. But without going into the detail it was not a nice occurrence for the owner nor a palatable occurrence to the head of their elementary my daughter is going to be 9yrs by mid year and this happened this term they are just on holiday from.
I spelt it out to the schools management that they were negligent and that there were no structure or standard operating procedure on ground to forestall, control and prevent reoccurrence of such in the future.
Not to sound too unsupportive I guided them on control as a pmp and safety expert.
The following day I went to check out the pools and I concluded on my next string of actions.
I stopped my kid from staying back for the smim classes and talked them out of feeling deprived my making them come to terms with the flaws I have identified.
And the agreed with me
The school call on weither they to stay back on the smim day ,as they dont understand why I will pay and then decline further service,but I just gave excuse of the need for my kids to rest .they can take the money
As far as am concerned, they cant fully protect my kids and I dont need anybody's sorry because of 50k.
I signed up my kids for a 2 weeks stretch at a place where I will permanently station my help .and everyone is ok
PLEASE LET US TAKE RESPONSIBLITY
MANAGE WHAT YOU CAN BECAUSE NO ONE AND NO LIFE IS PERFECT,
BUT KNOW YOUR CHILD
AND THIS CAN ONLY HAPPEN WHENYOU
SPEND TIME WITH THEM
AND TALK TO THEM
BY MAKING THEM YOUR FRIEND
WITHOUT SPARING THE ROD