₦airaland Forum

yabas:
Some of you make me laugh, you think everyone is afflicted to a village in Nigeria? I have been here all my life and I don't know up to 10 persons in my village. Even my papa no de go hin village.

Op, you doing the right thing. Don't let anyone discourage you, silence kills sometimes so keep speaking out. Having said that, you mentioning your Aussie passport once is enough, why you still shouting that your ex and children are in Perth? I think you pushing this foreign thing too much. Just mention it & move on.
Also please I beg you, ensure the lady is 40 & above, please o. The older, the better. Most young girls will only use you. We hear these stories everyday. Older men only use younger women to satisfy sexual urge not to marry.



He does not need to give us his life history here. Na only face men de see b4 them de run after women, they will know more later.



Stupid questions



Shut the fk up, you that have pride. It's either you interested or not, na so ona d always bring argument. Person post about dating, na you wan come de lecture am on tribal pride.

Looool, Nigerians tiya me

Thank you bro, well appreciated and will take to your candid advice

Lighthouse50:
Do you mind to have a widow with two to four children?

2 kids to me is okay, but 4 depends if 2 of her kids are financially dependent and 2 still dependant.

HustleSmart:
Yes it is a crime to suffer someone's daughter in this Buhari / Tinibu era

My post never talked about bringing any woman to take care of me, moreover I am not marrying anybody to stay in Nigeria.

Finally in as much I run my own business, I am not blind and stupid for looking for an employable matured woman .Any woman I finally decide on settling with should be able to be employed abroad or able to join me in what I do immediately

opeyy:
OMG...the height of stereotyping!!
I am financially independent and I found love and wanted to settle down with a man, until he felt we were incompatible, which he does after any misunderstanding, where admittedly I did too much and whilst I did not give up, he gave up. It is a 2 way street and I was going to fight for us because I don't ever give up but I am the only one fighting so I know now that it is the end. Your narrative therefore lacks foresight and applies only to a handful rather than most as you generalise. Men too are the architect of their own palava, for the most part.

Thank you sis and truly we guys are not perfect as in all humans, we have our downside.

But this guy is 100% real and need a new start again

Sirqt5:
evening newspaper, divorced, two kids . a catch u r not

talkin like say u never marry before . oga u don marry before na

Sure I have bro and love my kids dearly, but you don't expect me to take a woman into the house without all those stuffs. Do you think otherwise?

Freeze007:
Search for this lady on Facebook, hopefully,she can help, she is a matchmaker

Nkechi Bianze(FACEBOOK)


Goodluck

Everyone deserves to love and be loved...I think you have a good heart

Ok thank you, I will check that out

cococandy:
I don’t know why I found this funny. was the marriage not serious?

Might look funny, but it is not. My marriage was indeed a serious one, but what will be, will be. I However owe the lady to be my wife some explanation though

Vision101:
Aren't you guys sure that this isn't fake? This is a complete naija man. Real topnotch don't look for partners this way? I go in peace.

Bro I am 100% legit...and I am ready to prove that to you if you send me your WhatsApp number.

My reason for the above is you will re-echo it here for others like you to believe me.

I hope to follow up this thread with pictures of engagement and wedding one day. At my age I deserve to make someone out there happy and myself happy as well

baby124:
You are a fool. Will you get out of here you stupid child? Small boy who has not seen life advising a 50yr old. Are you mad or insane? Get the hell away from this thread and let the man find what he needs. Idiot. When did these stupid children start coming here?

OP,
I wish you luck in your search. Don’t mind that stupid child that has probably not left secondary school, coming online with free internet to advise his grand father. I wish you luck on your second journey.

Thank you dear, well appreciated...people like him will always be out there

babajeje123:
I have someone @OP. She is an accountant and a fashion designer, she lives in Lagos. I've sent you a DM.

Ok thank you very much, I have replied the Nairaland message. A fashion designer is cool though because that is my side hustle as well and having an African fashion outfit in a city like Melbourne with her will be cool if we find ourselves good enough.

But have you discussed with her yet?

JBriel:
Can I recommend a lady ?

She's legit. But I'll need time to move from my state to her as I lost her contact

Ok if she wants the same thing with me and I am still searching

RaniOpe:
OP
What if I'm 21

No ooo pls, thank you

sweetman2022:
You will surely see with time, just continue to search. There are good women out there especially if someone recommend it for you as a good woman because he would know a little about her. I have one I can recommend for you. The rest is upto you. Reply me if you are interested.

Sure why not, provided she is a matured woman and truly ready to settle down

realtalk19:
What if such woman has kids ,how will you go about it knowing fully well she's a single mum

I have 2 kids as well. So I don't have issue with that. In fact I naturally will prefer a woman with kid/kids

Evolutionlove:
Lol abi, Me I sabi you modern ladies naw. Na most of this Old men no Just get sense. Who still wants to be spending 35years with Just one person nowadays wey FUN full everywhere lol. Nowadays wey una eyes don tear finish and you guys have the freedom to do what you want and as you like. Na him one person dey look for who he go keep under his bed for his house. Abi make he call you whenever you are available make una go flex and both party go go their way afterall. Shikena..

That you are loud mouthed does not mean you are right, that you dance with one leg does not mean all must do the same.

Do your thing the way it pleases you and let others do what will please them. Live and let's live

HustleSmart:
Na who no get money dey find wife
If you have money wife go find you

Ok tnx...I no get money, so I am looking for a wife, na crime?

NeckingNgulping:
I see posts on facebook where women who are desperate to get married are looking for a man to call husband. I mean mature women.

From their comments on there, i noticed they are very serious about getting a man. Go there, at least you'd see the faces of the interested ones and choose the one you might like. Not here a faceless forum like Nairaland.

Bro no vex, send me the Facebook link...I will extend my search

Neptunium:
My friend's not lookn for divorcee . How old are ur kids? Wetin happen 2 ur marriage?

Unfortunately I am divorced, no need to pretend to be what I am not.

What happened in my marriage is not here to be discussed but with whoever show interest. Showing interest does not mean it is done: it simply means we can now talk about ourselves and see if we can take the next step

Evolutionlove:
A lot of Men are really suffering nowadays and I'm certain this Is Just the beginning of you Men most especially Nigeria Men predicaments. Most of you were the ones who built these monsters and I pray you people get to enJoy more premium suffering In their hands. Ladies/Women are taking up the Job of Men In the society everyday and when a Lady/Woman has money and power. He needs not Man..

Ok

Ok12345:
I don't want to marry but we can be friends....once you find your wife we can cut off communication

Thank you for the kind words, but sorry to say all I need is a friend looking for a guy to settle down with and not just friendship without a future

Youngwiz71:
how much will you pay her a month for being your wife because this your Criteria e be like like say them go dey drop cv so u go see say them dey qualified

The Criteria is easy naa bro. Just be employable...I truly do not see the problem here. Moreover there are jobs over there. I am not because I need a woman urgently marry a liability...No way

IbrahimSkiba:
Godspeed Sir

Thank you and God bless you

Chydon888:
Wish you Goodluck man.
God will grant your heart desires.
Don't forget...also keep your faith alive.

Thank you bro

Moderators,I beg you to pls help move this to front page. I need a Wife. Not a woman ooo...emphasis on a Wife. Anything to convince you moderators I will do. But don't put my identity public . Thank you

Issue dealt with...thank you Nairaland
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Datboredberri:
You wanna hide your tribe so you aren't judged by bigots?

Where's your pride?

If any lady rejects you for that, she wasn't worth it in the first place...

Pls do not get me wrong; I am proud of where I come from and my tribe, but I need a woman to love and to love me in return. My tribe will be released once we start talking

JASONjnr:
Anty, if you want to give the man a chance, just do it and stop pretending...

Op, just drop your number make she call you.

I beg loud the mic...now I can relate to some people and things I never took serious too.

But honestly, I truly need a wife.

Datboredberri:
What's your tribe... ?

Does tribe truly matter in the things of the heart. I am not considering that and I don't want to be judged by my tribe.

I however speak 3 Nigerian language, Yoruba, Igbo and mine which I will only reveal one on one

Neptunium:
U got kids?

Yes I do. A boy and a girl

IbrahimSkiba:
Are there no women, in your village?

If you were actually serious about getting a wife, you would have discussed it with your village elders and they would have arranged you a wife..

My village people?....no oooo. But fact is I am dead serious here, moreover I just made up my mind to settle down because I was working on a project for the past 4 years here. Now I must return...hence the haste

Oturatetuala:
My grandma dey available na just 89years of age.

Bro not desperate ooo, I just need my own woman. Not someone I will babysit ooo