joy4anney: Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner?

@joy4anney,from ur post, it seems to me u've made up ur mind to live with him(damning the consequence). I would want to know if he hits u at the slightest of provocations or whenever he's in a rage.is he into drugs(or do u suspect he does drugs)? Women for who they are can provoke u to breaking point but that's never an excuse for a man to lay his hand on her. People say 'love is blind' but lovers shouldn't be! If he's in the habit of hitting u then that's a warning sign(scarlet flag) that I think u should consider strongly.ur life is very important u know(if not to u but to ur loved ones). If u think u can cope with it,no problem. Not all that glitter is gold!

Markwil, u nor try

I want to thank Baby mama,CC,Ihedinobi,Coogar,Yellow pawpaw and other contributors for this insightful view and analysis on marriage and it's intrigues. I must confess am awed with the sincerity and openness with which every contributor has made his or her point... I've learnt lorry loads!