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@lomprico,piazon asked a question. if you don't have answers to it, lock up! must you answer a question with another question?

Baby mama: Gbam!
One of the reasons I had misgivings about my then fiancé ,he was a very easy going man and I feared for my future with him
And I couldn't go on with it
He didn't take life too seriously and had dreams of being a politician
I hate politics and politicians
I couldn't imagine myself on a podium campaigning
Very handsome and sexy man o with Anya love
He ended up in politics ,he has done quite well in that area and made plenty money
What I liked about him,he plays the guitar and wrote music and I love to sing and we would sing together
He also adored me,sadly still does
Still goes by to see my parents and relatives when he is their area for campaigns,as late as this year and " dashes " them money
I broke his heart no doubt,I wish he could get over it,it's been years

@Baby Mama,he wasn't just in love with u but was(still) crazy about u(I sympathize with him). I guess he was ur hubby's forerunner.with u still on his mind,I doubt if he'll ever love another woman.

joy4anney: @Willy, efemena and CC, thanks for ur response. He does not lay hands/ beat. But he talks out of anger things that can be hurtful at times and then switch off into his own zone

@joy4anney,you should be grateful to God Almighty u have a guy that tells and expresses how he feels when he's angry.that means such a guy might not bear grudge.it's always better when people let off steam when they are angry than keeping mum,seeking vengeance. You'll do urself alot of good by avoiding things/situations that triggers his anger button.whenever he switches off,u have it in u to switch him on...wishing u the best in ur relationship.w

joy4anney: Lovely contributions up there. As a single lady in a relationship with a guy with Anger management prob, Baby Mama and other matured minds, what ways would you recommend to live with such partner?

@joy4anney,from ur post, it seems to me u've made up ur mind to live with him(damning the consequence). I would want to know if he hits u at the slightest of provocations or whenever he's in a rage.is he into drugs(or do u suspect he does drugs)? Women for who they are can provoke u to breaking point but that's never an excuse for a man to lay his hand on her. People say 'love is blind' but lovers shouldn't be! If he's in the habit of hitting u then that's a warning sign(scarlet flag) that I think u should consider strongly.ur life is very important u know(if not to u but to ur loved ones). If u think u can cope with it,no problem. Not all that glitter is gold!

Markwil, u nor try

I want to thank Baby mama,CC,Ihedinobi,Coogar,Yellow pawpaw and other contributors for this insightful view and analysis on marriage and it's intrigues. I must confess am awed with the sincerity and openness with which every contributor has made his or her point... I've learnt lorry loads!