₦airaland Forum

abobote:
Shut up

People dey dis forum o

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Someone

We4all:
Olamide is an overrated musician with eyes like an owl.

Are u okay?

We4all:
Lol...Nairaland resident detective. You don burst op's game.

He can say whatever he likes

Why do people cheat?
I mean married people. Why?

descarado:
Are you really looking for someone to counsel you or begging for financial help cos you kept on retaliating you are hungry and can't feed

If u don't hav what to say, pls avoid this post

People tend to respect the dead more than the living. If he was alive, he probably be tagged a devil cum Coup plotter

These guys are terrible. Imagine such nonsense. You even know how much they make from these act of criminality. It's ok. Nice one

It's a disgraceful matter to Libian govt

Okay

Zaheertyler:
One way to deal with internal pain is to give yourself a sense of purpose that isn’t monetized
Some would go and clean their local churches
Join an NGO maybe Red Cross or something
You have students in your school form a football team and coach them for free..think very well just do something purposeful that doesn’t give a pressurized atmosphere like having to make money for it and watch yourself heal ..if you keep the pain inside of you and try to mask it with material wealth you will one day become like them.. pain isn’t material
Me myself I’ve been looking at what social jobs i can do for free that gives me purpose doing it

And I’ll advise you to surrender unto a higher authority so you can find peace in your inner self
The authority of Jesus is the highest on earth and is that of peace
There are good men of God out there that you can buy their books and learn more about Jesus Christ and the gospel if you don’t want to go to church
Not all this people preaching about prosperity and wealth oo nobody came to testify to Jesus about wealth or money they all came to testify about ❤️‍🩹 healing which you need
Most importantly I want you to have faith that your story will be transformed not just money wise but wholistically all to the glory of God
And if you need someone to talk to, encourage you and pray with you from time to time or you have questions to ask
Your boy is loyal sir
Cheers and may your healing be permanent in Jesus name
Amen

Thanks

illicit:
Ok
You might try sightseeing

Get out of the house often, find a reason

Mingle with people

When I started leaving the house, I would go to libraries or cinemas

Times are too hard for me. Even to feed is a huge problem

illicit:
Deep

Please make friends maybe at church or the bar if you drink

I don't drink. I don't go to church. I dislike pastors

Maeve7:
Winks2

It’s hard to find the right words but I pray you find help and heal. The scars will always be there but the wounds don’t have to be open forever.

I am deeply sorry you had to go through all of this and it’s sad that you didn’t meet one good soul when growing up. It’s good you have decided to open up now.

Mindlog, can you help here?

🙏🙏🙏. Sometimes I cry with in secrets. I'm unfortunate

I don't know how to narrate this for my readers to understand.
I find it extremely hard to relate with people. I am quick to make friends but I am almost always never committed to keeping friends.
I also don't associate with my family members except when there's a wedding or funeral, then we may get to meet and greet. I barely call my siblings. And when some of these family members call me, I don't pick. I deliberately do so cos I'm not free expressing myself with them. I trust none of them.
I also have serious phobia of traveling, I feel I may have accident and die like my parents. I lost my dad 23yrs ago through accident when I was just five years old, and after a few years, I lost my mum through accident as well. Myself and two siblings lived with our uncles and aunties. The maltreatment I got was too damaging. I was more like a slave. I became introverted, timid and defenceless. Someone would torment and bully me outside and I won't be able to report the matter at home to my aunty & her children cos I was never given the liberty. I was an outcast. I was never loved. I was often despised and hated. My fees were never paid and I was constantly being ridiculed by my mates as I got sent away from sch all the time. I was neve allowed to sit together as a family with my Aunt and her children. I was marginalized. Think of anything.
All these have affected me till this moment that I can't have a girlfriend or related finely with people. I feel unloved, I feel people hate me. I don't trust anyone. I have also lost confidence in Humanity. I just prefer staying indoors, watch matches and keep to myself. I can't trust anyone with my secrets.
As a teacher in a private sch, at times, I overreact when students want to misbehave. I am susceptible to anger.
The hardship, how I suffered to put myself in sch and nobody to assist me all affected me psychologically, emotionally, socially and otherwise.
I need someone who can counsel me. And encourage me from time to time. I feel like doing something stupid sometime when I am down, but I quickly jettison such evil thought. If I didn't do such to myself when I was younger, is it now that I have overcome that I will hurt myself?
If people can see the tears I shed in secrets and still look good the way I look in appearance, they would marvel.
I just want God to wipe out these years off me, by making me successful in life. I'm still struggling to survive as a private sch teacher. I want a better life where I can go to bed and smile when sleeping. Currently, I barely sleep well at night, cos I'm always anxious. Anxiety is taking the better part of me. My heart skips and beats so fast thinking of how the next day would look like.
I'm suffering. How do I survive? To feed is a problem. A big one.

blacknp:
Are you not Nigerian, are you any different from them? some people go they yap their Basketmouth, yet their papa dey police.

Naso my comment pain u?
Sorry o

We are finished in this country

There's seemingly no hope in sight. People who are meant to speak against the govt are now the ones supporting it. Fayose is supporting Tinubu based on the fact that he is his tribesman. They should continue

Pls people even if it's any amount u can help with, pls help me. Hunger is killing me slowly. As a private sch teacher, it's rough and tough

So sad. A national embarrassment to LIBYA

id4sho:
May the sustainer of mankind continue to keep and provide for you 🙏

Amen Sir.
Thanks so much. I seriously need help to buy some foodstuffs pls. I'm starving to death

helinues:
You can't feel threatened if the jokes didn't touch you somewhere that's not good

You're beginning to sound and act too silly on this platform

Nursepepeye:
they should have killed all the police on duty also, it would have been a great news

I'm telling you. The NPF is more corrupt than the Nigerian Politicians and judiciary

id4sho:
Hard luck, May his soul rest in peace 🙏

Amen.
Life hasn't been easy since then. At times I feel suicidal. Lost my mum ten years after the demise of my dad.
I have no older siblings. Life is hard

So sad. Rest in peace brother.
My dad dad through accident about 24years ago while I was just 5years

nairamaniac:
Coke is 350naira
Biscuit for an adult is like 250naira

That's total of 600naira.


Wouldn't you rather buy 3 wraps of fufu or eba without Meat?

I'm just arranging your diet in expectation of someone else's Favour towards you.

Thanks for your concern bro. I appreciate

Saao:
you're nothing without humanity in you. I pray you find peace in God soonest. A life without Christ is disaster, bitterness and frustration. God love you and He really do

Christians are wicked people

This is sad