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Dehindepgenius:
I am almost completely sure you are not giving us the full picture. It would be really interesting to hear your wife's version of this story. As human beings, we tend to tell stories in a way that favors us and make us garner pity. If your wife is the breadwinner at the moment, she deserves your loyalty, respect and understanding. Taking care of the financial responsibilities of a home is not easy. You plan, you worry, you get afraid, you have sleepless nights...especially if your spouse does not pitch in.
Here's what happens. When a man loses his source of livelihood, every little move by a woman suddenly becomes emaaculating. The woman is already under a terrible strain and you are here to barmouth her to strangers.

I frankly do not believe you are doing enough. Factories abound, uber is there, the keke business is there, even uneducated teenagers from the north are hustling and making a good living riding bikes.

Yea, sometimes a man experiences setbacks, my dad did. The true measure of manhood lies in dusting yourself off the ground and trying again. These days sadly, there are too many lazy men who whine instead of actually being men. If you are here bad mouthing your wife, then I'm willing to bet, you do it everywhere. My cousin went through this. Everybody called her wicked. The husband's elder brother was like come and stay with me and I'll fix you up with something. They no tell the brother. Las Las he chases the man out of his home and told everyone to ignore the man because he is lazy. All he does is play video games and sleep.

Society is particularly unfair to women. A quick look through this site will convince any unbiased person of that. You already have men pitying you and condemning your wife which is exactly what you wanted. Oga poster, you came here seeking pity, looking for people to condemn your wife and soothe your ego and you already have faceless strangers doing that, but the truth is you are failing as a husband and a father. These people cheering you on and telling you your wife is wicked are in their ow homes hustling and taking care of their business.

I am a man like you and I will not lie to you. You are your own problem. Take these steps.

1. First of all, love and appreciate your wife. Thank her for all she does.

2. Pray hard and ask God to show you why you are experiencing hard luck. Folks here might not tell you the truth, but you may have a character flaw that is working against you. You may actually be lazy, most lazy people won't admit it. It may also be karma. You may have treated others, including your wife badly in the past hence the problems. Yes, it happens. Find out what the problem is and fix it.

3. Hustle, hustle, hustle! I don't believe in excuses. Real men don't. Meanwhile, what do you do? You can mail me your cv at dehindep@gmail.com.

Good day sir..the email is bouncing back..i need ur help n i want to send my cv

LordKO:
If you're a Mech. Engr. with at least 2 years previous work experience in the petroleum industry, send me a PM immediately.

As for your wife and her recent attitude, it's obvious that you've been living with a frenemy all this while. Only few men are lucky, and can be lucky, to marry virtuous/submissive women. Since she's of the small-minded stock, you've to master the art of treating small-minded people and mete out same to her - if you aren't small-minded like her too.

I am interested sir..studied mech.engr unn..
In need of a job sir

Bluezy13:
Ya, it does.

Yours doesn't??

Which hospital and amount pls?

Alexiz101:
From 6th

Okay thanks

[quote author=Alexiz101 post=71381522][/quote]I didn't reach the camp..
I also saw that the revalidation will be automatic if I was mobilized. I can't know online cos I didn't pay for call-up online..
Will I pay before 5th Oct or from 6th Oct when others are paying?

Alexiz101:
Remobilized ASAP
will end 5th Oct

Good day, I registered in batch A but did not pay for call up letter online. I logged in and I am seeing batch b but can't find any remobilization or revalidation.

What do I do.

.Can I still make payment for the call up online?

If yes, when should I make the payment?

livelymatilda22:
I was busy, I have replied you.

I replied too.can we have this conversation in whatsapp please.i am just see this now and u may become busy again. Atleast I will be notified in WhatsApp.

livelymatilda22:
I have replied you

I see your formal message but I messaged u again.. no reply for that one yet

Nice throwback

No one can tell what happens in the next second.