Be yourself and see if she can stand that. But remember part of winning her heart over is to not run it over. E.g if you like to soak garri by 2am,see if she smiles about that. Remember to do the same too e.g if she eats fufu with one finger. True love is simply Acceptance.

It's a good thing you are concerned for her. Well, as the caring guy you have so obviously proven to be the best option is the "buy-some-stuff" trick. Get her a few things, including the oral b or any other mouth odour killing agent. Give it to her on a weekend or ur next month anniversary. Write a note attached saying "just making sure you lack nothing baby, love you". It worked for my friend,so I know it can do wonders for you.[/color][color=#000000]

It's just a matter of understanding her and yourself better. When you had a girl you were willing to lavish money on, she lacked passion.The one who doesn't want to finish your money has passion to improve herself. Instead of focusing on what her ex might be doing to win her back why don't you just do your part as her man and build the trust factor in your relationship. Let her know you are a mature and patient man not a stalkerish type like her ex. It will be fine. Trust the words of a lady who has been there.