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Your words are contradicting itself

If you had read my words carefully the last lines says it all regarding the divorce being open to love what does that mean regarding create safe space it doesn’t take the fact that some of them have bad characters

And the mistakes we make it’s we don’t call out the attitude out , we manage it , which is wrong

Speak the truth and let them know you have bad character and you can do better because men don’t know they have bad characters

Also I agree with your last part , no one it’s perfect but incompatibility and toxic relationships should not be encourage it’s suicidal and depressing , you are not a fixer , let them fix themselves up before getting into relationships

domexydomen1:
I don’t think 2 wrongs will make a right though. This goes both ways…
Whilst dating a divorced, separated or heart broken woman, you’ll also experience a lot.

For instance, You’ll notice that those who have experienced any form of auto crash or motor accident are unconsciously not comfortable with any road trip, no matter how short the distance or how experienced the new driver is.

My advice, rather than think they have a bad behavior or want to take advantage of you, calm down and show them how safe it is to be with you.

On a lighter note though, there are also men who have never been married and if these ones do not find you attractive then you also need to do a retrospect to understand why you were available to a divorced man.

Lastly, relationships aren’t easy because people come from different cultures and backgrounds. So don’t be too hard on yourself, but it would be great to first get to know a man/woman on a very casual note, their routine, lifestyle and be interested in at least the physical attributes as well as their kind of daily activities before getting into a relationship with them.


Everyone has a fit, try falling for a man/woman that inspires you to be the best version of yourself and you’ll find it quite easy to forgive their flaws.

What info am I giving out too much please that I dated a divorce man is that what they call information

Because the information I post regarding business you don’t comment there if you check previous post

FitCorper:
Bimpe. You are giving out too much info. Have some respite woman. Na Africa we de.

We are still on it and staying positive thanks for your concern

fyneboi79:
I hope your last post about finding a husband worked for you?

Fact

Baronthecelebri:
Everybody has his or her advantage and disadvantage

How does it correlate please

APOPTOSIS:
Why not stay single?
Is it a crime to stay single?
Must you be with a man?
After all, marriage is not meant for everyone.
Reverend Fathers are there, Reverend sisters are there. These people never get married yet they are respected and adored.
Join them and liberate yourself from men.

Divorce man hi

thesicilian:
So if I'm to understand correctly, she dated one divorced man and became an expert on all divorced men?

Noted divorced man

FreeIgboho:
Divorced men NOT divorce men. Grammatical errors everywhere. You can do better than this

Deep words

Thanks for sharing , I strongly agree with you

dollytino4real:
They are not good to themselves but they want u to be good to dem, u attract wat u give

As someone who have dated a divorce older man I can tell you for a fact that 80 percent of them are the problem

Men have bad attitudes

The men don’t want to admit that , most women are the reason why most marriages last long , if that woman decide she is done trust me she is

The one that’s even funny is that they tie their bad attitudes to you must be submissive

Submissive imply being a fool and then walking on you , insulting you , disrespecting you and you not saying anything but saying my husband and my king

Submissive can happen if you as a man have the right attitude and the right mindset

They don’t force submissiveness it goes with the flow

If you are a divorce man today

Change your character you are not always right and you don’t know it all

And your pasts don’t define you

Not all women are bad you experience one I get it

They treat you bad because you fell blindly to not appreciate the good women

And this time when you find that good woman

Change your character , your attitude and be open to love without holding back in positivity

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Asking for support it’s not bad as well but go out there and work hard , put yourself out there

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One of the things I observe greatly about other African men on x

No one is saying they don’t talk about their country women but guess what they speak it in their language

When Kenya 🇰🇪 talk about their women is in their language

When South Africa 🇿🇦 talk about their women

Is in their language

When Ghana 🇬🇭 talk about their women is in their language

When Nigeria 🇳🇬 men talk about their women is in English

Can you see the difference the so called over sabi I know it all don’t observe this

We have our cultural language translate it

Except you can’t speak your language

We need to bring back our cultural language

Moving on

At a point I was observing why do foreign men prefer to visit South Africa 🇿🇦 & Kenya 🇰🇪

Now I realize from my observation on the mannerless degrading tweet our men say about us

It chase away this men from visiting Nigeria 🇳🇬

It’s just recently

We started hearing news about women building connections and getting married with other foreign men

Nigerian women have been stigmatized and stereotyped as a results of the tweet you say about us on this x

And sincerely speaking it will also affect jobs

Nigerian women don’t deserve this at all

We work extremely hard in every sectors

If Nigerian men need to talk to us on this space speak it in our cultural language

Learn to code words diplomatically

If can’t speak Nigeria 🇳🇬 languages then go back to learn language

We have beautiful languages to communicate with us that other African men don’t need to comprehend

A word is enough for the wise

You can’t see Nigerian women say trash about you guys on this space

We say good stuffs most of the time that’s why other African women love you

Nigerian men you can do better

Do better by speaking your cultural language

Do better by treating your women right on this space

Charity begins at home

How you treat us , determine how they will treat us

About time we speak our language Biko

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Lmao Dey play

I am not lumping you with other men I just Dey tell you if you are unserious

We move ni oh

Na you Dey talk move on

I talk move on as well you dey change mouth

You can’t do the dare shift jare let’s move back to our keep Lagos clean 😊

kpankpangolo:
Bimpe don dey back out.

Let’s see how it goes.


Men always put in effort. Thousands of posts on Nairaland prove it. We know women are never sure of themselves, hence the constant frustration boys here face.


The first sign of unseriousness: lumping me with other men. Goodbye, Bimpe. You’ve lost your chance.

I don’t do fling point of correction

I do intentional relationship and if by 3 months you don’t see your self settling down count me out

If you don’t put in the same effort as well , I will easily move on so we are both on that table because you see detachment leave it for me I am very good

Be intentional and I will be intentional, choose me and I will choose you

My number is on the signature

kpankpangolo:
Good. Let’s move to another thread or offline. How will somebody reach you privately?

A relationship or fling takes effort from both parties. If you dull me by waiting for me to entertain you, I go move on without regret.

Everyone is a witness on this space now

I talk and I do

I don dare you and is counting

If truly you mean your words then act on it . I am very serious

kpankpangolo:
My friend, move one side. Talk is cheap. When I knock on your door tomorrow, you’ll tell your aunties to claim you don’t live in the building.

I double dare you today is July

You have September to do the marriage and the pregnancy if e sure for you

I no Dey make noise

If you make the progress this time I mean am and I am not silent

Why is everyone doubting me na sey dem sabi me

kpankpangolo:
Making noise again, Bimpe. If I start, you’ll throw insults as usual and stay silent when I make progress. No be today I sabi you.

Ah Nigerian men

You want me pregnant we Dey talk clean Lagos you Dey talk belle

If e sure for you give me the belle 🙃 I double dare you and marry me in three months

kpankpangolo:
The only activity we’ll perform in Lagos is me trying to get you pregnant.

You don sabi them

I like as everyone Dey shade them

Let’s keep the opinions coming make dem start by doing the right thing rather than condemning Wetin dem no Dey do

Dem go throw rubbish Dey say Lagos Dey smell

illicit:
Yet na them dey throw rubbish on the road o....

Lmao you see

You no Dey volunteer and you Dey say Lagos Dey smell

Traveling don’t mean you can’t keep Lagos clean

When next you come Lagos let’s meet up so me and you will both clean some place in Lagos

kpankpangolo:
I only pass through there when traveling out. Nothing concern me with the slum.

Have you volunteer to clean Lagos

Let’s start from there and if e sure for you , drop pics

kpankpangolo:
Bimpe, Lagos is a smelly city.

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Gbam , I strongly agree with you

Very accurate comment

lordm:
Some people only know how to see problems and not solve anything

If Lagos is smelling is either you start by making it clean as an individual or you carry your dirty mannerism to another states

Very simple

Nairalanders men you guys comment have been very nice this days

What’s happening

You guys are now becomings each day love every convo

No one said that

But there is a saying

What you think it what becomes the outcome

Think right all the time

Tallesty1:
All the people that have been cheated on projected negativity?

Hmmn read my book

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columbus007:
It's a big lie, the last one is the very first. 😁, no go dull yourself. 😊.