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A woman wanting to get married is desperate

A woman who don’t want to get married is a feminist

A woman who don’t marry is bad character

Societial and personal views

Let everyone do what works for them

Different views and perspective

Once again I appreciate your concerns

I already have self love for myself but that does not mean because you have self love you can’t love someone

Love is essential in human existence

And some of us are positive that the love will happen

Only a matter a time

Let’s do what work for us

Kobojunkie:
1. You still need a man in your life for what exactly? Please, don't hold back! Honestly state what it is you are thinking. I want to know. What are some of these things you feel you cannot do for yourself?

2. How can that be the case when statistically about 50% of men and women in every generation live and die without ever becoming one flesh as supposedly ordained by your deity? Does this make sense to you that your deity would ordain a thing, and it turns out that half of the time, that ordination never really pans out for about half of the people? Doesn't that make the god who supposedly ordained such a thing seem a colossal fool?

3. I see that all you are packed full of even at this point in your development is nothing but religious gobbledegook, which sort of explains a lot about why you felt to create this particular thread here. 😩😩😩😩

4. What I see is instead a lady who is yet to discover her true strength as a human and a woman. It is not wrong to date or go out to meet people, but I think what is much better than all of that is focusing one's energy and strength on building oneself up... learning to love and cherish oneself a lot more. If and when love finds you, then great, but if not, still great.

Thank you and I appreciate silent groper

All the best

Silentgroper:
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I understand your angle but my perspective is that as a woman even if you were born complete or you fill capable you still need a man in your life because you can’t do it all by yourself sincerely speaking , even in the scriptures it is expected of a man and a woman to become one flesh and it is ordain by God

Just as a woman need a man , a man need a woman to fulfill God plans and not just any spouse like you said the one you will through in good and in bad times and fight every storms together and build a legacy together not for yourself but your generation

You are right I put so much energy into it and I hope I find him and he finds me

Much love

Kobojunkie:
What if you were born complete and capable of handling your business on your own but were mind-raped into believing that there is some man out there to make your life better than you can do it all by yourself? All of this energy you seem to pour into finding someone out there— probably more energy than most women who are currently married(many of them unhappy, by the way) put in—, don't you think you would benefit a lot more by focusing it all towards you and your peace?

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Nairalanders you guys love me too much

I love you so much for this words

The fact you took your time to pen this words down I am extremely grateful

I will put your words into consideration

The love you guys have towards my agency and brand

Thank you 😊

Oyindamolah:
While it's true that traditional workplaces can provide natural social settings for meeting people—including potential romantic partners—remote work doesn’t eliminate those opportunities; it just shifts where and how they happen.

1. Expanded Social Circles:
Remote work frees up time and energy otherwise spent commuting, which you can invest in purposeful social activities—local meetups, professional networking events, community volunteering, or hobby groups. These spaces can offer even more meaningful connections than an office, where relationships often stay surface-level.


2. Intentional Connection vs. Proximity Convenience:
Meeting someone at work might seem organic, but it often happens by proximity, not compatibility. When you seek connection outside work, you’re more likely to meet people who share your interests and values, not just your employer.


3. Remote Work ≠ Isolation (If Managed Right):
Remote work can be isolating—but it doesn’t have to be. It’s about intentionally designing your lifestyle to include physical connection. That might mean co-working spaces, fitness classes, travel, or simply being proactive socially. The flexibility of remote work can actually empower a richer social life—if used wisely.


4. Dating in the Digital Age:
With intentional use, dating apps, online communities, and hybrid events can bridge the gap between digital and physical connection. Many couples today meet online, then build meaningful relationships in real life.

Infact remote work can feel limiting, but it also gives you the freedom to curate your environment, relationships, and daily experiences. You’re not trapped inside—you’re free to build the life you want, without waiting for your future to walk through an office door

Nairalanders you guys love me too much

I love you so much for this words

The fact you took your time to pen this words down I am extremely grateful

I will put your words into consideration

The love you guys have towards my agency and brand

Thank you 😊

Oyindamolah:
While stepping back into the field for direct human interaction and potential personal connection is emotionally understandable, especially after years of independence and celibacy, it’s crucial not to make business decisions primarily based on emotional or romantic hopes.

1. Mission vs. Emotion:
Your agency has been your life's work for a decade. Making a major shift (like going back into the field) should ideally align with your business goals, not just emotional gaps. While loneliness is real, filling it should not compromise the structure or vision of your brand.


2. Energy Drain Risk:
Field work is time- and energy-intensive. Will the increased interaction truly boost your income long-term, or will it distract from scaling your business? You’ve built something sustainable — that’s powerful. Walking away from what you've mastered might stretch you too thin.


3. Alternative Connection Models:
You can still connect with people without fully abandoning the remote model. Consider hybrid strategies:

Hosting branded in-person events.

Speaking at conferences or workshops.

Strategic networking instead of day-to-day field hustle.
These keep your face visible without giving up your leadership seat.


4. Personal Fulfillment vs. Business Structure:
Seeking love or companionship is valid, but mixing it with professional decisions can sometimes cloud judgment. Is there a way to prioritize social and romantic life outside of your professional reinvention? That way, both areas get the focused energy they deserve.


5. Financial Reality Check:
Will moving into the field actually double your income, or is it more of a hope than a strategy? Before pivoting, do a forecast. Field work often looks lucrative upfront, but overhead costs, travel, and time might eat into profits. Your agency might have more scalable options.

In summary you don’t need to abandon your agency or completely return to the field. You might just need a smarter hybrid strategy, mentorship, and stronger community ties — both personally and professionally. You’ve already proven you can survive. Now it’s time to think about how you can thrive — without burning out or compromising your deeper values.

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SMJay:
Where's your location since you can teach, you might be a good candidate for a primary school in my area.

My future husband can be at my work place you know

Also I need to go out and connect physically

Remote work is not easy staying inside for years

I also did explain it in the recent post scroll down

Nairalander248:
Bimpe, tell us why you don't like remote work anymore? Man no dey see you?

I appreciate the honesty

That’s very kind of you to be honest about your believe towards my brand , I have great plans for it but I need capital and support

I am the husband and the boyfriend been independent for 10 years

It’s not been easy so I am not abandoning my agency never but I want to go back on field experience meeting people physically not just remotely

At times I go out and I feel like a stranger it’s not easy working from home

Also maybe I can meet my husband that way

I have been celibate for years konji is not easy to hold so please understand it’s a very sensitive decision I made and also to double my income

May God bless my hustle

UcheKingsley1:
You r the field..
Cos the land is green.
Even so called employers have startup stories.

I appreciate the compliment but May God make that possible for me

It is not easy to do that

You need enough capital to empower more people though in my agency I have few people that work with me but I want to go back on field

UcheKingsley1:
You r smarter than that, be an employer not an employee.

You don add politics

It is well

May God bless our hustle

Firebox123:
see wetin tinubu cause

You'll still vote for tinubu in 2027

Lols that’s the only thing that comes to your mind

I enjoy remote work but I want to go back on field if you see link me up

Nairalander248:
Bimpe, tell us why you don't like remote work anymore? Man no dey see you?

Thank you and really appreciate your kind words

BItt:
I wish you good luck



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