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Financial management is a problem fr me if I must admit it. Thankfully I have a girlfriend who is extremely good at managing finance. My salary goes through her. I have never felt so relieved to see and learn from her how to manage one's finance and still enjoy life.

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

I got out of mine addiction at 31, so let me encourage you to go do your best. Don't let the devil win this battle.

Mrwhite09:
I am addicted to porn, masturbation and football betting. its over for me. with these 2 destructive habits its crystal clear that I am not gonna achieve anything in this life.

I work like a slave and put everything to the bookies account and use porn and masturbation to calm myself down after losing my hard earned money. the juju that my village people casted on me must be very strong. I know all the negative consequencies of my actions but i kept engaging in it.

I work a hard labour job, working from 8am to 7pm but I still have nothing. To eat its a war for me talkless of buying other things, a phone I cannot afford, good clothes I cant afford even a decent shoe to wear I cant buy, but I kept staking everyday, chasing imaginary money, while enriching the cruel bookies with my hard earned money.

I watched my mates excell in life while I smell of cum truly I am a useless person. there is no hope for a 30 year old me.

Read my message, I got someone who suffered porn addiction for 40 years. If you feel you are done. Then truly no one can help you. Not even God will override your will. My advice to you?

Turn this mess around, you can do it. All you want to achieve is possible. Porn addiction can be broken. Get the mindset that there is a version of you who is free in the near future. Visualize that everyday and thank God for it.


Just so you know there is a spiritual symbolism to this type of sin. Great ad powerful people to be suffer this.

Porn addiction is meant to trap you from fulfilling purpose. The spirit here is lust.
David, Samson in the Bible. Don't let porn steal now years from your life. IT'S TIME TO SAY ENOUGH.


GET A BOOK WRITE THEM OUT AND BURN THAT BOOK. WATCH IT BURN AND CELEBRATE IT.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND FREE YOURSELF FROM THE GUILT. GOD IS WILLING TO FORGIVE YOU AND DIRECT YOU THROUGH THIS.

Where do I start to advice you on Porn Addiction and Masturbation.. Wow


What is happening is this, there are specific triggers for addiction. What's more. You have alot of time on your hand.


My advice for you is this, professional wise you need a total make over in life.

Healthcare wise :


1.Avoid sugary drinks or anything high sugar go for water always.

2. Go sign up for gym or download an app and start exercising morning and night before you go to bed.

3. Avoid most excessive nuts eating.

4. If you use a laptop, you can change your position to somewhere public, and install anti porn apps
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5. Eat more vegetables and fruits.


6. You need God in your life at this point. It's important for you to anchor your spiritual existence to the creator.

7. Set small goals. Target the withdrawal days. Usually 2-3 days. Set small goals.

8. Find someone to hold you accountable, I need you to talk to someone close to you. When you mess up, let them know. That feeling you get after you tell them it will help you to in the long run.

9. Ensure you exercise daily to help you use up those energy daily. If the body is too tired to get things going it won't be bother you for this mess.

10. Ensure you reduce your carbohydrates, eat healthy, avoid all sugar if you can.

11. Never stay alone. Get the super appetite drugs to help relax your nerves. This is also important to help calm down your body when it gets into a frenzy.

12. Cut your data usage from monthly to daily say 200mb or 100mb. Set data restrictions.

13. Unlock your phone. Sin grows well in privacy. Kept your phone unlocked if possible.

14. Read books, reduce your time on line. Personally you can choose to go off the grid for a while. It won't kill.


15. Master discipline, try fasting. Avoid over eating.


16. Buddy, take control of your mind. The battle of addiction is in your mind. Don't let those thoughts whether from what you see or watch or hear. Go rent free in your head. Capture them and surrender them to God. Rebuke them bro, addiction is not a battle, it's a war in the mind. Don't let anyone fool you to think you are okay.


17. Stay away from movies and movie scenes. Personally if you are a movie lover, go fr Indian or Korean or Philippines.

18. Set a time for yourself on your device, get a phone screen lock app find KEEP ME OUT ON ANDROID playstore. It will lock you out of your phone automatically.

19. The rush you feel during the stage to mess up doesn't last up to an 1hr. If you feel it immediately engage yourself, you can walk away or join people.

The addiction is not the problem, find the root cause of it. Deal with it and you won't harm to deal with porn addiction ever.

I can count the amount of times I have flogged students throughout my teaching career. I only flog based on a written rule we and the students agreed on. Class rules we call them. There was a time I didn't even flog. But however I learnt a bit more. My beliefs still remain. Many of this kids and their behaviors can't be worked upon with cane. When I flog, I I correct them and talk to them. Listen to them and find out how best thins can work.

Most parents Dont even help out at all, they feel schools is where their failed attempts to raising their kids can be corrected. You forget that a school only takes half a quarter of a day the remaining is done at home.


I see parents bringing their kids to be flogged by teachers and I wonder what sort of thing that is .like how do you and why do you do that. I see kids been beaten badly with Marks all over their skins by both parents and teachers and I am wondering why all this.

The amount of physical abuse really is not helping them , how you get so angry to flog a child to death is crazy insane

Dear teachers we must do better!