IFNOTGOD:


last time I checked u don't pay my bills n if u have anything tangible doing u won't b speaking English

have u ever seen d advert of a Ferrari on TV cos those who buy it don't sit in front of a TV now d proverb simply means if English pays ur bill it doesn't pay mine n try to get a life instead of looking for loopholes in other people's English beta still take d corrections to d pharmaceutical store n buy ursef some drugs to aid ur thinking ability

sir, please it is ok you don't need to reply her again. Thank you

I want to thank everyone for your advises and may almighty God bless you richly. Efemanaxy I will appreciate it if you correct me than insulting me, I studied engineering and not English. No one knows it all so you can correct my mistakes. God bless you all

I am the only female child with 3 brothers but the last born is late and the first is not for my father, my mum had him for another man before marrying my dad. When my step brother got married to his wife, we all liked her but she always look down on me just because I was jobless then (but now God is surprising her by blessing me) and my
mum always support her in everything she does. My growing up with my mum was not good at all because she see me as a threat(I don't know why) I rather confide On stranger than confiding on my mum, we never have mother to daughter talk like telling me about menstruation and other things I should know. My first period was very embarrassing because i don't know anything about it but thanks to my teacher that lectured me. Long story cut short, after 2years my step brother married his wife, there was no pregnancy and I do remember him in my prayers because as a Christian i don't hold grudges.
Of course she has really hurt me by telling my mum that her Husband has no sister and my mum told me to my face just because I was very very broke then. But their words challenged me to learn a skill and God had been good to me. My mum forgot I was giving her money when I was working in bank ( I just want you to know the kind of mother I have). So I had a dream that my step brother wife gave birth which I called her and told her, she just told me thank you. After like 2 months, a cousin told me she is heavily pregnant and will soon give birth. I was like what stopped this girl from telling me that "God has done it" when I told her about the dream I had. Instead she kept it from me and when I called my mum to tell her that am pained because my step brother wife hide her pregnancy from me, my mum said "must you know? Abi don't you know it is not good for everyone to know someone is pregnant" I was very sad. That's how they gave birth to 3 kids and I only get to know any time they give birth.
Now God answered my prayer and made me pregnant again after 7years And that same mother that said it is not good for everyone to know when one is pregnant is now spreading it and even told my step brother and his wife without my permission just because I let her know so that she will stop thinking about my brother that died recently. I remember how my OWN MOTHER treated me during my first child omugwo that I vow that I rather employ a stranger to take care of me after I deliver this baby rather than allow my mum to come and give me heart attack again. Before my mum came for the omugwo, there's this old woman I always buy soup ingredient from in the market and not that I do give the woman anything but I always patronise her. when the woman heard I gave birth she called to ask if my mum has come and I told her no. That night she came, bath my baby and was so caring because I had tears inside and outside, so she was pampering me and she spent 3 days in our house before my mum came. she will pet me to eat even when I don't have appetit and won't sleep at night to watch my baby, instead she will tell me to sleep. But as for my mum, reverse is the case. if she prepare food and I tell her that I need spicy food and she should add more pepper, she will get angry. in the morning she won't ask what I will eat lai lai, instead she will ask our last born she came with and will make sure that that one eat before even looking at my face. But I forgave her all this and still respect her as my mother
My pregnancy is already 5months and am always having body pain. It is my husband that do bath and prepare my 7 years old son for school and atimes he run my business for me. Now my mother want to travel with my step brother wife and my mum is suggesting my step brother wife should bring her first child ( a kid of 4years) to stay with me while they travel. Honestly it won't be easy but how do I tell my mum that the little boy will need a care which am too weak to give because of my present condition And she knows I don't have nanny or anyone living with me. How will I tell her without reading meaning to it. Please I need your sincere advise, thanks for reading