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Topestbilly:
Yeah, the truth always sounds funny.

It's not the truth. As sex doesn't mean anything go ahead and sleep with thousands of people. It's your body, whether or not you respect it is nobody's business. Enjoy..

Topestbilly:
Because they later realised it's not as special as they thought, especially giving it to someone who doesn't care or see no big deal about it. Being a virgin to adult age doesn't make u a good person or a well mannered being. Virgins can only have their rewards if they marry people who appreciate little things a lot and she should accompany it with good manner.

Really? Lol.. I've had just about enough of this kinda bs though. Sex has now become something you do with just about anyone because you feel like it? Why would it be as special as you thought when you lose it to just about any asshole? Lol.. virgins can only have their rewards? Lol.. I'm sorry.. this is just really funny..

Convos:
I have been married for 9 years and I have always cheated on my wife. As a girlfriend, my wife f*cked me anytime, anywhere and anyway I wanted. As a wife, she is still freaky but only within the four walls of our bedroom.

I believe we have an above average sex life; we shag at least 4 times a week sometimes 6. But I am unfaithful to her, and I can tell you for free, infidelity has very little to do with a person’s partner. Do not believe the myth that if you are hot, sexy and give your man great sex, he won’t cheat.

Men marry the most beautiful women, get her pregnant and get themselves a side chick. A wife is for have a beautiful woman to call a wife, have children and keep a home –the 80%. A side chick is for all the other fun stuff in life – the 20%.

Another myth that needs to be demystified is, not all men cheat. Some men are serial cheats, some men will cheat if the opportunity presents itself in a safe environment, they won’t go out of their way to cheat. Some men don’t cheat because it....


READ ON... http://thenakedconvos.com/i-cheat-i-no-moral-compass/

Quite apt I'll say.. I'm glad that some other people also realize cheating is a result of low moral compass and nothing else.. that's for the serial cheats
For those who cheat when the opportunity presents itself, that's because they are yet to learn that you should never put yourself in compromising situations.

superboyspecial:
I bet u must have gone thru dx,same is still happening to me right now and to tell d truth,it works lyk charm but its not,at a time,I broke up with d gal I was dating to focus more on getting her but up till now,am still in my obsession, most nights I stay awake just because she's online and I love reading her name over and over again even though we don't chat,reminding myself dat if I get her,I was going to revenge all d pains I've been thru because of her but d beta part of me knows dat if I do indeed get her,I am going to love her with all of me,like u said,its a trick dat some minds fall for

Lol.. you're truly finished.. you need to let it go. Trust me.. nobody can give you self-esteem neither can anyone take it away from you by their rejection. It's all in your mind..

Enough said..

Lol... all the while she was curving him he must have felt he was lacking something and made it his life mission to get her. When you reject people they will usually run after you because your rejection makes them doubt themselves and destroys their self-esteem. I bet he feels complete now she's finally his. Lol.. this trick is as old as time. It's not jazz. It's the human mind.

With the replies on this thread it's alarming how insensitive people are..

There's this craze about being open-minded, to what extent does one become open-minded and what is the limit? We should hold on tight to our core values and morals else we lose our essence and identity, easily bending to the opinions and ideals of others which would result in a very clustered and unhealthy life.

That being said, gone are the days I try to be indifferent with the LGBT community. What is wrong is wrong and what is right is right, there's no grey area. Your reasons do not and would never make it justifiable, I believe everyone has very sound logical reasons for every terrible thing they must have done yet it doesn't justify their actions. Let's not put this in a class of it's own and make excuses for these terrible acts. It's unnatural and wrong and should be condemned.

Lol.. The guy destroyed your self-esteem and you were always looking to him for validation. His approval became a drug you craved which he dished out in little doses. You do not love him, get over it. Lol.. that guy has done a number on you, he should work for the Russians.

Having sex or doing anything sexually related clouds your judgement, it'll make you think you're in love because that's what sex is meant for, to bond 2 souls together. The hormones released during these activities are very powerful and they send very strong messages to your brain. They have the same effect as hard drugs.
I'd advise you but I'm very sure you won't take it so I'll just save myself the stress..

In answering problem questions try not to get confused by all the other unnecessary words. Underline the key words and your brain would put it together to help you understand exactly what is required of you..

You guys should have just let this guy die. The world would have been a better place for it.. He's not what he seems..

Thanks for the concern Okenwa.