Are you trying to be sensational, dramatic or ridiculous?

Agbaya

Patrioticman007:


Yahoo boy get mouth to insult Magu ?, Wonders shall never end.

SweetCunt97:
Our Learned colleague but that's the truth.

SweetCunt97:
most cause of depression in 9ja is simply money related. I'm yet to see a wealthy person who's depressed here.

Simply look to the light, be positive. Bad times never last.

delugadou:

by this time next year, you go laugh this posts for nairaland. if u hang in there, Oluwa go surprise you when u least expect am. right now my shoes bad pass ur own sef

Peace666:
There was a time i felt depressed to the point I got used to it.


Though na dry pocket cause am. But then it was as if i was cursed, nothing seem to be working. I kept pushing yet nothing.

Three people dreamt that i committed suicide so when i get to the point of breaking, I'll just remember the dream they had and smile. (I go shame u satan) was my every day confession.


One day God proved to me that i wasn't cursed. Just a period of trial.

frozen70:


The truth is that you are the one fighting yourself

Your mind and brain are playing game with your whole body and your emotional being and you allowed it to happen

Take your child to your parents if she is not living with the mum or you, this period to look after for you so that you can be free from that end and concentrate on yourself

Get yourself a girl friend, start a relationship with her and make her a friend not really a sex partner

People are into relationships to have a friend and a companion

This life is full of troubles and loneliness so don't wallow your self into it even married couples are lonely in their world of marriage

If you can't open up and tell us exactly what is wrong with you then follow the above advice

Theyoungmatron:

What will get you out of a depressive state is in you sir, just like peak milk.
Exercise to get the blood pumping if your health can allow it.
Maybe you haven't had a good sex in a while or do you think your XXXX stuff can't handle it or it has been reduced to XX or even X size.
You need to increase your endorphin, dopamines and the oxytocins with a nice sex romps, sir. Sex can be therapeutic, you know. If you still needs your babymama then be the bigger person.
Facetime your family members and friends.
Go to social media and create controversial topics that you are familiar with. Arguments you have won over and over again in the past. It will keep you busy until this wave of depressive state passes.
Go online, facebook precisely and search for Dave Chapelle shows, Kevin Harts, Trevor Noahs etc and have a good laugh.
Take a trip if you can afford it.
Visit friends and let them do the talking.
If you are a catholic or moslem or whatever, i'd suggest you go to the chapel or mosque and sleep for an hour. The tranquility, the silence and including the perceived feeling that a supreme being knew you are there is kinda reassuring and uplifting.

If it becomes so overwhelming, you can seek out the helps of professionals. I wish you well.

GboyegaD:



0706136.5018

Nice to know. Is this number on what's app?

GboyegaD:
Hope you are much better.

Amya:


You're welcome. I tried chatting you up on WhatsApp but it seems the line isn't registered to WhatsApp.

This is deep. Thank you

Amya:


Hi. How are feeling now?

I've noticed that people that are introspective and overthink tend to fall into depression more easily. Everything has to make sense and any slight clog in the wheel lead them spiralling down.

I was like that as teenager and was in a search fior meaning. Everything looked meaningless and there's nothing more depressing than finding out early-on the meaninglessness of it all. I was able to defeat it by just living. Not thinking too much and not caring. Ingrained in me from that time was the fraility of man. We'll all go. We'll all die. We'll lose those we love and they'll lose us too. That's us what it all comes to eventually

Death doesn't scare me. I've embraced my fraility and the fact that life is a journey that moves so fast.

My advice, don't spend so much time thinking but spend so much time living. For example. If you live your life in a foreign country with no access to the native food you love. The day you eventually come across it, you'll savour and eat it with reckless abandon. You're not worried on whether or not you'll see that meal again. You just throughly enjoy your meal without much thought. That's how you should enjoy life my friend. Do all the fun things you've always wanted to do. Make friends and just live. Having great finances is good but to me, it's only secondary to the most important things.

MT:


I love the fact that he wont plead guilty like Invictus Obi, so he could bag the maximum sentence. We dey watch in 5D