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SLIDEwaxie:
start from here in Nigeria then u can take ur yeye message go overseas.

I nver said u should quote my yeye msg

siraj1402:
Hope they will hear.

hope they do I wonder y d hate! Som1 once said the envy nigerians bcaus they work harder

Why the hate!!!
We call ourselves the black race and we still hate each other, even killing each other


The whites killed nd molest us all in the name of racism nd the black skin
So why are we the black race still hating on we
!
It is so sad. But until we begin to se that, we africans are one!! We will find it very difficult. To livve as one


Hate lead to more hate
Killings has no reward instead more pains



Am proud of nigeria!! Many troop in our country without even proper documentation still yet
We live as one!



Show love just because!!

Slimzjoe:
If ah punch u ehn.....that zobo wey u dey drink go hang for ya Throat

hahahaha abegi#u wan. Cook fr jail

Slimzjoe:
Old pishure

old slimzjoe

Lol

Wen you comto nigeria even without visa u wil stay as long as u wish
But wen we go to other countries wt visa we are been killed. Fr no reason
Jas bcaus we hustle hard
Well they envvy us but will nver b grt as we ar

rabbuy:
As far as am concern its either the op is seekin attention or his gf is the most childish being on earth... Well truth be told the story is too short to be true...

m not seeking no fckn attention bro# I wil b so glad if you don't giv me that attention m seeking. Aiit tnx

sinaj:
Hi handsome
ur story iz more lyk a joke...lol

xo funi

funny but true

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For a better nigeria
Great people
One nation

You consider yourself outgoing, but conservative; interesting but a little shy; you can keep a conversation going, but with the right people... sounds good doesn't it? Why do the bad boys always seem to get the ladies?

For the purpose of clarification, bad boys in this hub mean boys that started smooth, cool, mysterious, and loving… but ended up emotionally unavailable, unattainable… even stretching into emotionally abusive; not those that are outright criminals. It’s important to note that bad boys come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. As many women (and men) can attest to… age does not always equal maturity.

Confidence followed up with indifference, sprinkled with a little bit of mystery, intrigue and excitement is what attracts most women to start. There are various reasons why women dump nice guys and go for bad boys. Some of them are stated below:

Control

No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t stamp their feet down or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control.

Indifferent

Bad boys just simply don't give a damn. They can take it or leave it. . Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great confidence, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their confidence is good enough, so they won’t misbehave. That's one reason why they fare well with women. If a woman says no, who cares? They move on to the next one, and they do it with the same verve and maverick attitude as they did the last one.

Predictable

Most women lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. They are predictable and lack no excitement and challenge.

Commitment

If a woman is afraid of commitment, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.

Low self-esteem

Thousands of women who have been in relationships with men who treated them disrespectfully most times go for bad boys. Some of them married several of these men. Why? The women had, as children, been treated in ways that lowered their self-esteem. Consequently, as adults, they tended to fall into relationships that were consistent with what they were accustomed to, with men who treated them in ways that were familiar. A nice guy will treat them in a way they’re not familiar with. They then set to work trying to meet the man’s needs and make the relationship work better. They were accustomed to getting back far less than they gave and that pattern continued into the adult years. It was only when their self-esteem improved that they would recognize they deserved better.

Confident

That's right. They wouldn't be able to pull off half of the antics they do if they weren't brimming with confidence. Bad boys aren't just confident around their friends, but also in talking to the ladies at a friend's party. No matter where you look, women find confidence a major turn on. Looks matter less in attracting a woman, whereas showing that you have confidence is a very attractive quality. This is what makes women do whatever they can, maybe even to the point of obsession, to get this so-called bad boys to reform and turn into good boys. That is a feat that every woman that goes for bad boys fantasizes about achieving.

Adventurous

Ask yourself, "when was the last time I took a walk on the wild side?" If you are asking yourself that question, then you obviously aren't a rebel. The 'bad boys' are always testing the boundaries and pushing the envelope when it comes to their life - and women can't get enough of it. They find it intriguing. And when you put exciting and adventurous beside the other rebellious traits, it sends women into a tizzy.

Thrill

Doing something that was against the norm (or against parents’ wishes) was also a key motivating factor. Doing the wrong thing has an appeal, even if it’s only for a short time… or you drop the nice guy. “This guy was totally manly in every sense of the word. That is why I love him. Secondly, what kept me around him was the thought that I was sneaking and doing something I knew my parents wouldn’t approve of at all,” Carol confessed.

Masculine

Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. This often goes hand-in-hand with being confident, indifferent, exciting, adventurous... etc. Bad boys are often rugged and in-control. That doesn't mean controlling; they just know how to get what they want. They speak clearly and confidently, they look you in the eye, they are passionate about what they believe in... but most importantly, they still know how to treat a lady.

Sex

They are great in bed. The quality of sex with bad boys is one of the reasons; women are attracted to bad boy. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.

Challenge

In real life, although women dream of meeting perfect Prince Charming, a lot of times end up going for bad boys. It is more about the subconscious behavior of wanting challenges. The possibility of changing a bad boy from a serial playboy into a loving, supportive, feeling is always the pull for bad boy-addicted women. Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved. That’s why those situations tend to never work in most cases because women have refuse to understand that they cannot change a man but should love him for who he is or leave him. “My current bad boy is a puzzle I am trying to solve. He is manipulative and a misogynist. I am just trying to see how much I can change him,” a woman confessed. Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can change them into perfect men, they will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.

Protection

Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. A woman subconsciously wants a man who will dominate her. She wants a man who she can feel safe with –her true knight and shining armor. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure. Women don't dig men that are pushovers. A bad boys gives women an air of strength and togetherness. Essentially the confident, cocky bad boy image rubs off a little bit on her - and she laps it up!

Very funny#

30 comments 70 quotes 80 shares 2reports!!

Oya op post rest

1. What is your definition of commitment?

You and your partner define your relationship.  Know what your relationship means to each of you, to avoid repeating past mistakes, getting stuck in uncomfortable roles, or fighting about what your commitment is. Talk about what you mean by relationship, commitment, love, and faithfulness. You’ll be amazed by what you learn.


2. Have you discussed finances?

Money is a big generator of problems, arguments, and resentment in long-term relationships. Don’t assume money should be pooled. For many couples, separating the money makes things run smoother; you don’t wind up struggling for control of who pays or whose income determines your lifestyle. Different financial habits (one likes to save, the other spends more, or doesn’t keep track) can generate fights. Whether you split expenses evenly, or on a percentage basis, learn to talk about money in a businesslike manner.

3. What about household responsibilities?

Drastically different decorating styles, neatness, and organization levels can become sources of argument, as can housekeeping and chores. Different tastes may require  creativity and negotiation to decorate a shared home that makes both of you comfortable.  Negotiate before moving into your partner’s established home. You may have trouble feeling as if you “belong” in a home previously established by your partner, unless you participate together in reorganizing and redecorating it.

4. How close are you to family or friends?

If one of you has a lot of family or friends, and the other does not, or if you both have big families, find out what those relationships mean. Where will you spend holidays? If there are family members who have problems, such as financial stress, addiction or mental illness, how much will that impact your relationship?

5. How do you handle anger and other emotions?

We all get upset from time to time. If you are usually good at diffusing each other’s anger and being supportive through times of grief or pain, your emotional bond will deepen as time goes on. If your tendency is to react to each other and make the situation more volatile and destructive, you need to correct that problem before you live together.

6. How do you show love to each other?

Talking about which actions and words mean love to you may be surprising. Discussing how you give and receive love will improve your relationship, and help you understand what makes each of you feel loved, and how to express love effectively.

7. How well did you discuss these very questions?

These questions are excellent tests of your ability to define and work out problems. Constructive discussion that leads to a mutually satisfactory solution means you know how to solve problems in your relationship. If you fight, get counseling before going further.

Help na help 1k airtime no bad fr am

Aare2050:
Thanks for the complement.
U claming to be Mr right to all ladies abi?
Don't worry. I will soon report u to GMB

karya ne. He can't do notin#mutumina

Nice write up
No wonder ladies don't give me any breathing space# now I knw y.

Love garden
Main campus adsu

Noted nd thank you










Same old tune

rubey:
Crown her the queen of this section

u gat it ryt #uhmmmm can you crown her on my behalf?

deskossy:
Op make u get sense nah....this ought to be on the joke session

am sorry I lost my senses since 2019

I Comment my reserve





Seems like every one on romance section has his most beautiful lady well this is mine




Give her a name

Well all ladies are beautiful# all guys handsome#

The girl, who has not yet been named, was born to Rambabu Sarvesh and his wife Banna Devi on Thursday. Since then thousands of onlookers from all over the country flocked to a small village to see the new-born infant. The locals believe that the baby girl is an incarnation of the Hindu deity Ganesha, who also has a trunk.

According to the girl’s aunt, crowds of worshippers had since arrived to make offerings to the divine child. She said: “My sister-in-law gave birth to a girl at 7:00 a.m. and her face looks exactly like Lord Ganesha. This is why whoever hears about her is coming here to get a glimpse of the baby and are making whatever offerings possible.”





The girl. who is the fourth child in the family, has facial lump between her eyes that divided her nose in two when the girl was still in the womb. Doctors will examine the baby girl to find out the extent of her condition and whether they need to operate. Now they suggest that deformity was most likely due to a gene mutation, as a result of malnutrition and increased pollution.

Mr Sarvesh, who is already a father to three children, earns 250 rupee (N750) a day, and hopes that his daughter’s birth will change the family’s fortunes.

cooljude:
Funny. I support Jonathan but me sef no go accept that one

mhen. For north cows vvotee and goats too o so we sef fish go hlp us

Phikom:
#burukutu....

confirm african man lol

Pdp una still get hope lol

sinaj:
I cant do without weed nd fone

hw wud u lik to smoke som weed. Yea

Well I can't do without air

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