SmartPolician: Why are Rivers politicians always aggressive?
The man is right though. If you have an MSc or PhD, what are you looking for in an LC government?
Use your knowledge to solve a major problem or seek employment at the state or federal level.
There are still many positions that M.Sc and Ph.D holders can do at the LG level. It's either Mr. Chairman is ignorant of this or plain mischievous. The fmr Director of Admin and General services in my LG was a Ph.D holder. There are HODs who have higher degree qualifications, which enables them climb the hierarchy faster.
The governor said: “On this day, I call upon every resident of Borno, regardless of faith, to join in prayer for the lasting peace and prosperity of our beloved state and Nigeria.
“Consequently, let us therefore devote ourselves to constant prayers, seeking Almighty God’s mercy.
“I also urge the people to use this period to pray for divine protection against evildoers, saboteurs, and all enemies of peace.”
Boko Haram was the brainchild of previous Bornu governors. It started as childplay but quickly morphed into the seemingly intractacle terror it is today. The truth is that Zulum is actually paying billions to 'repentant' boko haram. That money could be spent on arming civilian JTF.
orikoku: Prayers can't do nothing, buy guns and amination to match their strength. Not prayers
Prayers can still help. But that doesnt stop the government from facing the challenge physically. Zulum is the chief security officer but he's not in control of the armed forces.
Kobojunkie: Exception? He is an immature individual meaning he does not respect his fiance and does not know how to emotionally regulate as adults or even husbands are supposed to be. Why is an exception needed for you to admit this?
2. There are no perfect humans out there, and hence no perfect relationship. But does a relationship have to be perfect to be safe and healthy? Clearly, they don't. Why would you advise anyone to enter into a relationship where there is no peace or happiness to be had, only heartache, trauma, immature tantrums at every corner, while staying silent, or being a punching bag to keep the peace? Any relationship where one literally has to exist in survival mode is not a relationship but a literal war/trauma to one's body and mind.
And why is it so wrong for one to choose to remain single for life? Why is that not a better option than entering into unhealthy relationships where one will never find the connection, safety, or love that one truly desires to have?
3. You mean she should begin walking on shells, silence her emotions, and minimize herself, all so she can remain engaged to a man who is clearly immature and has shown her his true self by his actions? To what end?
You are a good writer of fiction. You successfully amplified the little happening to a lengthy novel My guy, being single has its own challenges too, for a lady. Hoping from bed to bed to cure kongi - body no be wood - exposes the single lady to more danger than imagined.
Kobojunkie: Exception? He is an immature individual meaning he does not respect his fiance and does not know how to emotionally regulate as adults or even husbands are supposed to be. Why is an exception needed for you to admit this?
2. There are no perfect humans out there, and hence no perfect relationship. But does a relationship have to be perfect to be safe and healthy? Clearly, they don't. Why would you advise anyone to enter into a relationship where there is no peace or happiness to be had, only heartache, trauma, immature tantrums at every corner, while staying silent, or being a punching bag to keep the peace? Any relationship where one literally has to exist in survival mode is not a relationship but a literal war/trauma to one's body and mind.
And why is it so wrong for one to choose to remain single for life? Why is that not a better option than entering into unhealthy relationships where one will never find the connection, safety, or love that one truly desires to have?
3. You mean she should begin walking on shells, silence her emotions, and minimize herself, all so she can remain engaged to a man who is clearly immature and has shown her his true self by his actions? To what end?
You are overflogging this matter. My innocent advice is blown out of proportion. First off, she's not entering any new relationship. She's already in it to even talk of marriage. There's no evidence of domestic violence, it's all an interpolation. You cannot tell the face of a market by the small hours. That action by the fiance is not enough to fully calibrate that relationship. She needs further observations. I didnt say she go ahead. Give more time. And observe. Period.
Kobojunkie: Calling off the relationship in this case is her way of maintaining her boundary. Boundaries are a way of protecting ourselves from what we have realized is potentially harmful to us, and this man has shown he is just that to the OP. Why should she not seek to distance herself from him at this point?
You are saying he is immature and asking her not to call it off, why? So, she can remain engaged to and potentially marry the same immature man?
Maturity is allowing him go the whole hog. This could be an exception not the rule, who knows. Relationships are so imperfect that applying the stick at every turn makes one single for life. You have to be blind to something. But there are limits. She should act along. Let him call it off himself. I know what I mean by that.
God1000: State of emergency should be declared in all the 36 states and FCT, it appears our military cannot handle the current security situation, it is frightening, nobody is safe anymore
The Military is capable. It's fifth columnists aiding and abetting the terrorists in high places that is the difference. First off, the government that proscribed IPOB has been equivocating over Boko Haram and ISWAP which are real international terror groups by outside designation.
Afriifa: The question is if your Fiance has a car, and your brother asks you to help him ask your fiancé to borrow him his car for a similar event, if you guys refuses, the question now is that how would you handle it? Your answer to that question solves the problem.
Oga. cars and personal effects are not the same. The sister ought to have approached her herself. Borrowing wears? Hmm. People can cross boundaries. It doesn't add up. Too unhygienic in my estimation. Don't call off nothing. Maintain your boundaries but diplomatically. If he decides to call it off, so be it. He is immature. The sissy seems to controls him.
If you want Nigeria to be respected globally, vote for reasonable people with integrity, no charlatans with a questionable character.. Some of you don’t consider global politics and foreign perception before casting your votes.. It’s always tribalism morning and night!
Nigeria and Nigerians are being respected based on who is their leader..
Goodlady: I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man. Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.
What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money. It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him. That's why it's good to do profile check before dating. A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen. Who nor like better thing? When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from. Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.
Karma is real. You are the type that end up buying broke guys young enough to be your sons and being mistreated by them. Nonsense.
wunmi590: Has makinde ever come to your house and annlunce to you that he wants to be president?
Wile betrayed all the G-5 governors by destroying PDP for his personal gain, now makinde noticed it and wanted to put back the party that gave him 2 term governorship ticket and you are talking about presidential ambition..
Seyi is only trying to re-write his wrong, by being part of the people that destroyed PDP when he joined the G-5 governors
The coming days will make things clearer. Makinde is just waking up to the fact that Wike was a self-seeking destroyer.? Akuko ifo. Trust politicians at your own peril. They all know what they are doing. It all boils down to self-interest. Keep this page alive. When Makinde declares for presidency I will ask you questions.
brain54: The parents are wrong and I hope the ministry of education...
Or the school authourity does something about the matter. They should be prosecuted for assault on the teacher.
However, how come the teacher couldn't even defend himself against their slaps. Oh okay, he can only retaliate against unruly defenseless little brats and not the bigger older brats who are his parents!
What are you saying exactly? He is intimidated, faced risk of sack if he dares the parents. He did the right thing by not retaliating. But he must take up the matter in a civil manner. I think the teacher crossed the boundary ab initio by slapping the erring student. He shouldn't have. Should just have reported the unruly student to the school authorities.
This saga is private and not the problem of this country. We have our various issues please. Let Regina and Ned sort themselves. There is terrorism and there is US threat of invasion. And then there is hunger.
Nigeria is still in denial of terrorism. The leadership of the country ought to sit up and show capacity in curbing this menace, else foreign intervention is a matter of time.
Omoboricash: What about me with just 10k naira balance
No same person will keep more than 10m idle in his account. You push money to get money. We talk of cash flow, not cash in account. The richest billionaires do not have their entire wealth domiciled in an account. It's mainly in tangible assets and investments for returns. 10k balance in your account doesn't make you poor. We do not know your off-bank assets.
Royalty83: Trump should solve the killings all over America before fighting for his cherished Christians of Nigeria. Just last month gang related killings in CHICAGO was almost 200. They even call that place chiraq now
Noted. Nigerian's is genocide. Whole villages being sacked.