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OBUKOMENA:
I married my wife three years ago and we had a child two years after wedding. Before we married, we actually dated for 5yrs. During this time, we were on a no-sex-before-marriage relationship.

On our wedding night, I realized there was something wrong with either of us, cos the sex didnt go well. I'd thought it was the fatigue caused by the day's activities. Subsequently, I noticed that my wife was always shouting and withdrawing from sex each time I penetrated her. I asked her why and she said the sex was painful.

My wife had been in a sexual relationship for almost 10yrs before I met her. I, on the other hand, had only had sex once in my 37 yrs (age I married). When my wife and I agreed to the no sex before marriage thing, during our period of dating, I started looking forward to our wedding night. I started fantasising on what sex would be like with my wife. I longed for sex with her....

How did she become pregnant? Ever since we got married, the kind of sexual intercourse we practised was one in which I would have to penetrate her ONLY with the tip of my joystick, or She pushed me away. Achieving full penetration was a mirage for me and it was frustrating and not enjoyable at all! I could not achieve that full penetration cos to her, it was paining her. That was how we had our sexual intercourse until she informed me she was pregnant. I didn't question the ownership of the pregnancy cos we are both Believers. I must sincerely say that it was DURING her pregnancy that I enjoyed sex with her. It was the period she allowed me to achieve that normal, full penetration I craved for. It was the period she was making those sounds typical of an intercourse.
We both paused sex until 3 months after childbirth.


From the time we resumed sex up till now, matters have become worse. This time around, no partial nor full penetration. All she wanted was for me to just rub my joystick around her vagina and she would cum. This, to me, wasn't my definition of sex. It's a frustrating and nightmarish experience. The sex that I so longed for It now looks like I am married to a woman without a vagina. This situation is killing me softly. I am dying inside. I don't know who to discuss this sensitive issue with for advice. Worse still, She told me bluntly that active, penetrative sex is a TURN OFF for her. She prefers passive sex. My wife doesn't even allow me to kiss her anymore. I guess she allowed partial penetration before childbirth cos she knew if i didnt penetrate her at all, she wouldnt get pregnant. Is this what I am going to live with the rest of my life?

NB: I had advised her to seek medical help; she said NO and that she didn't see it as a problem. I also advised her to use Vaseline during intercourse; she insisted it was inimical to her health. All other suggestions brought before her fell on deaf ears.

Pls, I need advice on what to do.


Modified: Pls, don't just view and ignore. I need your advice. I brought this matter up here cos it's a faceless forum. I will not seek help on Facebook cos it's a sensitive issue concerning my wife

the deed has been done already but if you need real and detailed tips to help you please follow this link below,

https://yawabase..com/2019/09/8-legit-dating-tips-for-todays-singles.html

Wait two days before calling them back, don’t talk about past relationships, always pay on the first date…these are some tried and true dating rules that go back decades. But with so much changing so fast, a lot of the old rules just don’t apply anymore. While it’s still nice to pick someone up or take the time to make a reservation at a nice restaurant, it’s not really necessary anymore. So what is?

Here are eight of the new dating rules for singles looking for love:

1. Let them know you’re interested.

Playing hard to get might be endearing to some, but with so many people out there and more opportunities for the person you’re into to move onto someone new it can backfire in a big way. But who has time for games these days? It can make you look difficult and really doesn’t serve any useful purpose, says Justin Lavelle, who writes extensively about relationships and online dating. “If you like the person let them know. If you don’t, make it clear. Whether online or in-person, responses aimed solely for playing hard to get will likely ruin any chances of a good thing.” There’s no point stringing someone along, either.

2. Don’t be afraid to be honest.

Whether it’s online or in person, there’s no need to pretend to be someone you’re not. If they suggest going to a baseball game, and you’d rather do anything but…be honest and suggest something else. You’ll find out if there’s real chemistry by being who you are. You wouldn’t want to fall for someone who thinks you’re someone you’re not, would you?

3. Have sex whenever you’re ready.

That can be after the first date or it can be after the 50th. The old rule of having sex on the 3rd date needs to be thrown out the window. “In the same vein as ‘be yourself’ just do what feels right for you. Same with calling. If you want to call 10 minutes after a great date… call! Basically, don’t set yourself up for games with timeframes and deadlines that somebody told you years ago. Go with the flow and do what feels right,” says Lavelle.

4. Don’t expect exclusivity right away.



With online dating being one of the most popular forms of meeting people these days, it also means that a lot of people have a lot of choices—hundreds of matches, messages, text buddies, and even exes just a few clicks away, explains David Bennett, a certified counselor and dating expert. “This means many people are dating around, in complicated relationships, or at least sorting through the many options.
Some will eventually choose one person to commit to, while others may not commit until they’ve had their fill.”

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Yawabase:
popular Nigeria singer, Davido has lost his cool and sent one of his crew members out of his house.

The sacked crew member identified as Obama according to reports in the hours of Monday stormed with Davido’s crib in Leki with a broken bottle and started exchanging words with the former.

The argument got so hot that the Nigerian superstar who feared for his life had to send Obama out.

Davido after he had sent him out also revealed that he recently had to fork out the sum of N14m as compensation after Obama nearly beat a girl to death.

See complete gist here
https://yawabase..com/2019/09/davido-allegedly-sacks-his-crew-member.html

Yawabase:
popular Nigeria singer, Davido has lost his cool and sent one of his crew members out of his house.

The sacked crew member identified as Obama according to reports in the hours of Monday stormed with Davido’s crib in Leki with a broken bottle and started exchanging words with the former.

The argument got so hot that the Nigerian superstar who feared for his life had to send Obama out.

Davido after he had sent him out also revealed that he recently had to fork out the sum of N14m as compensation after Obama nearly beat a girl to death.

See complete gist here
https://yawabase..com/2019/09/davido-allegedly-sacks-his-crew-member.html

Yawabase:
popular Nigeria singer, Davido has lost his cool and sent one of his crew members out of his house.

The sacked crew member identified as Obama according to reports in the hours of Monday stormed with Davido’s crib in Leki with a broken bottle and started exchanging words with the former.

The argument got so hot that the Nigerian superstar who feared for his life had to send Obama out.

Davido after he had sent him out also revealed that he recently had to fork out the sum of N14m as compensation after Obama nearly beat a girl to death.

See complete gist here
https://yawabase..com/2019/09/davido-allegedly-sacks-his-crew-member.html

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popular Nigeria singer, Davido has lost his cool and sent one of his crew members out of his house.

The sacked crew member identified as Obama according to reports in the hours of Monday stormed with Davido’s crib in Leki with a broken bottle and started exchanging words with the former.

The argument got so hot that the Nigerian superstar who feared for his life had to send Obama out.

Davido after he had sent him out also revealed that he recently had to fork out the sum of N14m as compensation after Obama nearly beat a girl to death.

See complete gist here
https://yawabase..com/2019/09/davido-allegedly-sacks-his-crew-member.html

South African pastor, Alfred Ndlovu has died of malnutrition after going without food for 30 days when he tried to emulate Jesus Christ and fast for 40 days and 40 nights.

South Africa reports that the 44-year-old pastor left home on June 17 for a nearby bush to have prayers, just like Jesus did.

Attempting to equal or break Jesus Christ record of fasting for 40 days, Mr Alfred Ndlovu died just a month despite having no history of illness.

See complete story https://yawabase..com/2019/09/pastor-dies-after-fasting-30-days-and.html

It appears Nigerian music sensation, Zlatan has started reaping the good fortunes of fame and being on hmit songs.
Zlatan grabs mouth watering Ambassadorial deal with Lotto9ja
Zlatan will soon be smiling to the bank as he has grabbed what is alleged to be a six figure deal with Lotto9ja to officialy become their brand ambassador.
Zlatan grabs mouth watering Ambassadorial deal with Lotto9ja
Zlatan disclosed his new engagement via his official Instagram page.
He expressed his gratitude to God and his supporters for the deal.
Zlatan grabs mouth watering Ambassadorial deal with Lotto9ja
The online gaming and gambling site had also confirmed the deal as the company also disclosed the news via their official instagram and twitter

source https://yawabase..com/2019/09/singer-zlatan-grabs-ambassador-deal.html

The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) recently asked President Muhammadu Buhari to quit from office since the Information Minister, Lai Mohammed, allegedly revealed that the president was not in possession of the required certificate and begged Nigerians to pardon him.


The PDP gave the order ahead of the judgment of the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal in its case against the declaration of Buhari as the winner of the 2019 presidential poll.


But it was discovered that the Ministry of Information had explained that the video on the matter was taken from the interview granted by the minister as far back as 2015.

“While it is true that Lai Mohammed made the comment when he appeared on Channels Television’s breakfast programme, Sunrise Daily, the impression being given that it is recent is misleading. The minister made the comment as far back as 2015,” a source in the ministry said.



PDP claimed that the pushing out of the video was “the deliberate ploy of Alhaji Lai Mohammed to appeal to sentiments, seeing that Mr. President had failed to defend himself before the Presidential petition tribunal.

Source for details
https://yawabase..com/2019/09/buhari-to-step-down-no-certificate.html

Actress Regina Daniel shares the funniest photo of the week asking dam if they can actually kiss the woman on her pic peradventure they are offered a honorarium of 21 million naira cash.
This photo is truly funny if you ask me.

Meanwhile, looking at the hardship savaging the country, most guys would be glad to accept the offer and even ask for more

source for photos https://yawabase..com/2019/09/regina-daniel-shares-funniest-photo-of.html

Moving out from Marvin Record seems to be exciting for the then Marvin Diva, Tiwa Savage. Considering how many years she has spent with Don Jazzy and the Marvin record team, Tiwa Savage did realize that going back to her root will announce her name further to the world.

Recently Tiwa Savage signed a deal with a UK record label "Islandrecorduk. ,a very popular record label in Uk.
Tiwa Savage began her career in UK and now she feels better and at home in the arms of Islandrecord. her new photo will thrill you.

Source https://yawabase..com/2019/09/tiwa-savage-looking-like-river-goddess.html

General Overseer, Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG, Pastor Enoch Adeboye has warned Nigerians never to think of retaliation against South Africans.
Adeboye, who spoke at the September Holy Ghost Service of the church held at the

Redemption Camp, Ogun State, said retaliation would not be the best option but to leave everything for the government to handle.
“I need to make an appeal, please listen. Please, don’t think of retaliation against South Africa. I’ll tell you why. In 1966 just before the civil war, Colonel Ojukwu made an announcement in Nigeria.
“He said he couldn’t guarantee the safety of Nigerians and told non-easterners in the east to go home. Suddenly, we heard that the students of University of Ibadan had cornered all the easterners there and requested that the westerners be safely returned.


“Immediately, all our easterner friends changed and started planning how to retain us until their brethren be returned too. While we were all trembling, a man noted for cracking expensive jokes said he had a child and he had hope to be remembered.
“That joke left the remaining of us thinking about our death and how to plan our escape. You don’t know what it is to be in another man’s land. Don’t retaliate against the South Africa because of the Nigerians still in South Africa,” he said.

source https://yawabase..com/2019/09/dont-retaliate-against-south-africans.html

Man shares receipt of how much he was charged for 'VIP Seating' at a Nigerian airport
A Twitter user took to the platform to let out his shock of being charged for "VIP Seating" at a lounge he visited at Nnamdi Azikiwe Airport, Abuja.

Revealing that he has never been charged for sitting on a chair all his life, he also expressed surprise of the "VIP Seating" being more expensive than the food he ate at the lounge. He tweeted;
Just for sitting on their chair is more expensive than the food I have never paid for just sitting on a chair in my life. Even if you put a gun on my head I will never come close to this side of this airport again

see source for more https://yawabase..com/2019/09/man-shares-receipt-of-how-much-he-was.html

Nollywood actress, Angela Okorie is about to tell full story of her son, Chamberline who was born in a miraculous way.
The handsome baby boy whose birthday is coming up in two days time, according to the mother died and came back to life.
Angela Okorie who was earlier today cursed by a fan of Mercy Johnson after the controversial story by another actress, Sonia Ogiri, also prayed down long life and prosperity upon her baby boy.

She posted a video on her Instagram page and wrote:
“My baby’s birthday In 2days , September5th I can’t wait to tell the world How u came forth My covenant with GodWhy you are untouchable How you @realkingchamberline died and came back to life , The world don’t know you are a Miracle child.

They don’t know b4 you were conceived He knows your name KASIEMOBI Chamberline I will be forever grateful to God almighty I will worship him Forever He is the reason we are still Alive Someone dare sent a death sentence To my son , that died when Jesus died?And came back to life when he resurrected Its 7days they gave They are going to be disgraced and removed from The surface of the earth in 7 daysAs long as God lives we shall continue to live.

You are blessed son’

Source https://yawabase..com/2019/09/angela-okorie-my-son-died-and-came-back.html

Only God can save man now, anyways, it's part of the promises of God concerning the end time..
Ladies in portharcourt should also try and be homely, responsible and conscious. Maka na boiz are not smiling.

This man got stucked in a woman while sleeping with her in the secret :[/color][color=#990000]

https://yawabase..com/2019/09/man-got-stucked-while-having-sex-with.html

Nigeria was once 100% Better,Richer and promising than, Ghana, Dubai, India, Korea, Ivory Coast,south Africa, Mali, Morocco, Congo, Tunisia, Cameron and many others countries but today,The bush meat is now beginning to chase the hunter.

I have sat down to analyze the problems going on in Nigeria only to discover that the same problems are caused by Nigerians.
The Old must die in power,
The elders of the country.
The mirror of the nation.
The leaders of the people.
The political gods and goddesses
The first and second citizen of the country.

In recent time, Nigeria has produced the most feeble, slow, weak, sluggish, reluctant leaders in her government.
Nigeria has become a dumping ground for refuses, a gutter where dirty waters flow into the nothingness.

In Nigeria today, the orderliness of God's creation has been trampled by her leader thereby preferring animal's to human beings.
Cow has greater value in the market than any Nigerian citizen when placed on scale.

It is so sad to say that a full blooded leader (president) could have his eyes closed at night to sleep when his subjects are been cheated, tortured,killed and even smoked like dry fish in other countries where citizens from same foreign countries parade themselves here in Nigeria and our Police and arm forces would still be the one protecting them with guns.


Oh Mr President, where is your conscience? You have traded your conscience for humanity for cows and tomatoes.

South African government are killing Nigerians for prisionable and personable offences and you sit down with a cup of coffee in your offices.

Comment and share this post if you don't like the killings of Nigerians in South Africa

Source https://yawabase..com/2019/09/letter-to-nigeria-and-her-weak.html

Since he was announced as the new minister the elements have gone to work, churning the fortunes of Nigerian sports to come up with something new, the hope of a better future sprouting, a muted celebration of the departure of the boy’s scout and the arrival of a journalist to the seat of sports.

The first good news is that the new one is different – young, great resume, impressive antecedents and a positive aura!

Although none of the successes at the ongoing All African Games in Morocco, his very first assignment, can be attributed to him, stakeholders have chosen to see them to nature’s way of indicating a new wind blowing in the land of Nigerian sport.

True, once again we were not given one of our own, a tested sports person with the qualifications, experience and vision that will make Nigeria achieve its true potentials in sport, but what is presented us already shows glimpses of new, exciting and interesting possibilities.

So, enter Mr. Sunday Dare, the new minister.

His first words as minister are a revelation of his person.

I am told that as he drove into the premises of his new Ministry in Abuja for the very first time, he immediately observed a discrepancy in the signposted name of the ministry. The letter he had received from the Presidency had clearly stated the role of the fundamental roles of the ministry.

“Where is the ‘Development’ at the end of ‘Ministry of Youth and Sports on the sign-post”.

It was a question that reflected the depth of the man and the attention he pays to details.

The proper name is Ministry of Youth and Sports Development.

Omitting the word ‘Development’ speaks volumes about the shallowness of the past. Noticing and re-inserting now reveals the depth and understanding of the present. That is the critical word in the ministry’s role in sports in the country.

My own immediate response is to give Mr. Dare a resounding pass mark and pledge my humble support to further his appreciation of developing sports in the country.

Of course, Sunday Dare, is not new to those of us who have been in the media for the past two decades. He was a part of the activist media that fought an unpopular autocratic government in Nigeria at a time to a standstill through their guerilla journalism tactics in the emergence of The News, Tempo and PM News.

Source https://yawabase..com/2019/08/sports-new-sports-minister-sunday-dare.html

Romance is an integrated emotion and urge in human life. Human body and psychology is designed to attract members of opposite sex. This intelligent design is the key to human relationships and sexuality which further works as basic element of human continuity on earth through procreation. Usually male and female counterparts feel the buds of romance germinated within at the beginning of adolescence itself.

Sexual maturity has no role in bringing romance on ones minds as people may feel romance much before they attain puberty. Romance is a psychological application imprinted into your brain which is stimulated even in the childhood itself. There are several social and psychological aspects behind a persons inclinations to fall in love.

Pheromones and Hormones

Most of the species are proved to produce certain pheromones and hormones which attract the opposite sex. Though fewer researches are taken place on human relationships, certain pheromones and hormones are believed to play vital role in attracting people each other and making them fall in relationships. These pheromones are said to be smell-free variants, as recognized by a psychological process not through a biological way.

News Source https://yawabase..com/2019/08/love-love-love-this-is-what-makes-you.html

According to Wikipedia, The Eco is the proposed name for the common currency that the West African Monetary Zone (WAMZ) plans to introduce in the framework of
Economic Community of West African States (ECOWAS).
After its introduction, the goal is to merge the new currency with the West African CFA franc (used by most French-speaking members of ECOWAS since 1945) at a later date. This will create a common currency for much of West Africa.
Ten criteria
For the Eco to be implemented, ten convergence criteria, set out by the West African Monetary Institute (WAMI), must be met. These criteria are divided into four primary and six secondary criteria. Up to the fiscal year 2011, only Ghana has been able to meet all the primary criteria in any single fiscal year.

The four primary criteria to be achieved by each member country are: [2]
A single-digit inflation rate at the end of each year

: A fiscal deficit of no more than 4% of the GDP
: A central bank deficit-financing of no more than 10% of the previous year's tax revenues
Gross external reserves that can give import cover for a minimum of three months.

The six secondary criteria to be achieved by each member country are: [3]
Prohibition of new domestic default payments and liquidation of existing ones.
Tax revenue should be equal to or greater than 20 percent of the GDP.

Wage bill to tax revenue equal to or less than 35 percent.
Public investment to tax revenue equal to or greater than 20 percent.

:A stable real exchange rate.

:A positive real interest rate.

History of the currency!

source for full post https://yawabase..com/2019/08/what-eco-currency-have-in-common-with.html

Beauty comes from within. But we do believe that in a society where women (and some men! Equality, folks!) are judged by how well they paint their faces, it’s time to show the world that the world’s most beautiful people don’t need makeup to look better than the rest of us. So with that, here's a list of famous ladies who look gorgeous even when they aren’t all dolled up.
1. Chrissy Teigen

When Chrissy Teigen rolls out of bed, this is what she looks like. Jealous? You are.
2. Jessica Alba

Jessica Alba has been happily married for 10 years, but if she weren’t, she could still probably get a boyfriend even without makeup.
3. Gigi Hadid


California-native Gigi Hadid has been modeling since she was 2 years-old. Gentlemen, let’s admit that even without makeup, she would be nice to snack on.
4. Emilia Clarke

Without makeup, the actress who plays Daenerys Targaryen looks like she could be our neighbor. But only if our neighbor were super hot.

source. https://yawabase..com/2019/08/12-super-celebrities-who-never-applied.html

AM 16 years old. I desperately need your advice. I am not living with my parents due to some circumstances.

My problem is masturbation, and I have been doing this for two or three years now. This act is affecting me seriously. All I think is sex. My concentration has dropped drastically and my academic work is suffering.

I use to be very intelligent, but not anymore. I have resorted to examination malpractices which I feel so bad about.

Please, I need your help urgently. I am ashamed of myself.

Name withheld.

Realising the fact that you need help is good. We must commend your courage for sharing your problem with us. It takes a lot of strength to summon such courage to do so, bearing in mind that masturbation is a secret habit that victims are ashamed of talking about freely.

Most teenagers, males or females, are confronted with the same challenge, but they find it difficult to open up. The reason is that at the stage of adolescence which starts from the age of 13 to 19 years young boys start going through changes in their bodies. Physically and emotionally, this is also applicable to girls as well due to the hormonal changes.

source for more https://yawabase..com/2019/08/masturbation-for-how-long-now-here-is.html