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Hi Nairalanders.


I will be taking you through a journey of Love Replenishment from now on. Fasten your seat belt and let's ride.

If you follow this thread religiously, you will discover the better way to handle your partner's privacy he/she has been demanding, while living together in peace and harmony.


After a few months or years together, couples can settle down into a 'couple personality' which is greater than the sum of its parts.

You do things together, you socialize together, you find shared interests to follow together.

This is all very lovely and sweet, but it ignores the fact that you are also separate people. It doesn't matter how much you had in common when you met, your partner has some interests separate from yours.

Maybe you had met through a passionate hobby and you both want to devote most of your free time to skipping or dog walking and gaming or visiting cinemas. But even so, you may want to concentrate on different aspects of it, or there maybe other lesser or more interests too.


Your partner needs some time to do their own thing in their own way and even on their own. Maybe they want to meet up with the best mates/friends without you there or shut themselves away for an hour or so at a time reading poetry or sewing or fixing stuffs, become the world expert on a personal research project. And you need to give them the time and the space to do that without getting ill-tempered or jealous or nag about it.


If you are never out of each others company and you both turn into some kind of hybrid creature incorporating bits of both of you, you will end up losing sight of the person you first fell in love with.



Read the last paragraph again.



Yea, hope you agree with me on this. You must have been experiencing this. Perhaps it just come clearer to you right now.

Not giving the needed space is not going to help your relationship because, that's when the whole thing lose its sparkle,its magic, and becomes tedious, just so ordinary.

I am NOT trying to dictate how much time you spend in each others company,in fact I'm not trying to dictate anything. I'm just telling you what works if you want to be happy in love.
Some couples rarely apart and yet still managed to respect each others space. Some rarely socialize without each other. But for most couples, almost 80% of them, a bit more space helps things along and means that you have something to talk about.


The odds are that you need a bit of space from your partner from time to time. Maybe you need a lot..

That's OKAY (based on understanding).


The important thing is to recognize that when they want to do something on their own, its not a rejection of you, it's simply an affirmation of who they are. It's their way of touching base and staying happy and if you don't let them do it, you will lose the person you love.


So no nagging, no irritation, no jealousy, no childish behavior when your partner tells you they need a bit of space. Be pleased for them and for yourself, because this is what's going to keep your relationship fresh.

Your comment and view (both sides) shall be welcomed.


"You need to give them that time and the space without getting Stroppy or jealous or Niggly"
-T.Richard[b]Hi Nairalanders.


I will be taking you through a journey of Love Replenishment from now on. Fasten your seat belt and let's ride.

If you follow this thread religiously, you will discover the better way to handle your partner's privacy he/she has been demanding, while living together in peace and harmony.


After a few months or years together, couples can settle down into a 'couple personality' which is greater than the sum of its parts.

You do things together, you socialize together, you find shared interests to follow together.

This is all very lovely and sweet, but it ignores the fact that you are also separate people. It doesn't matter how much you had in common when you met, your partner has some interests separate from yours.

Maybe you had met through a passionate hobby and you both want to devote most of your free time to skipping or dog walking and gaming or visiting cinemas. But even so, you may want to concentrate on different aspects of it, or there maybe other lesser or more interests too.


Your partner needs some time to do their own thing in their own way and even on their own. Maybe they want to meet up with the best mates/friends without you there or shut themselves away for an hour or so at a time reading poetry or sewing or fixing stuffs, become the world expert on a personal research project. And you need to give them the time and the space to do that without getting ill-tempered or jealous or nag about it.


If you are never out of each others company and you both turn into some kind of hybrid creature incorporating bits of both of you, you will end up losing sight of the person you first fell in love with.



Read the last paragraph again.



Yea, hope you agree with me on this. You must have been experiencing this. Perhaps it just come clearer to you right now.

Not giving the needed space is not going to help your relationship because, that's when the whole thing lose its sparkle,its magic, and becomes tedious, just so ordinary.

I am NOT trying to dictate how much time you spend in each others company,in fact I'm not trying to dictate anything. I'm just telling you what works if you want to be happy in love.
Some couples rarely apart and yet still managed to respect each others space. Some rarely socialize without each other. But for most couples, almost 80% of them, a bit more space helps things along and means that you have something to talk about.


The odds are that you need a bit of space from your partner from time to time. Maybe you need a lot..

That's OKAY (based on understanding).


The important thing is to recognize that when they want to do something on their own, its not a rejection of you, it's simply an affirmation of who they are. It's their way of touching base and staying happy and if you don't let them do it, you will lose the person you love.


So no nagging, no irritation, no jealousy, no childish behavior when your partner tells you they need a bit of space. Be pleased for them and for yourself, because this is what's going to keep your relationship fresh.

Your comment and view (both sides) shall be welcomed.


"You need to give them that time and the space without getting Stroppy or jealous or Niggly"
-T.Richard

Allow Your Partner The Space to be Themselves.

Hi Nairalanders.

I am Ydiz Indapond. Director at Inthapond Global.

I will be taking you through a journey of Love Replenishment from now on. Fasten your seat belt and let's ride.



After a few months or years together, couples can settle down into a 'couple personality' which is greater than the sum of its parts. You do things together, you socialize together, you find shared interests to follow together.

This is all very lovely and sweet, but it ignores the fact that you are also separate people. It doesn't matter how much you had in common when you met, your partner has some interests separate from yours. Maybe you had met through a passionate hobby and you both want to devote most of your free time to skipping or dog walking and gaming or visiting cinemas. But even so, you may want to concentrate on different aspects of it, or there maybe other lesser or more interests too.

Your partner needs some time to do their own thing in their own way and even on their own. Maybe they want to meet up with the best mates/friends without you there or shut themselves away for an hour or so at a time reading poetry or sewing or fixing stuffs, become the world expert on a personal research project. And you need to give them the time and the space to do that without getting ill-tempered or jealous or nag about it.

If you are never out of each others company and you both turn into some kind of hybrid creature incorporating bits of both of you, you will end up losing sight of the person you first fell in love with.

Read the last paragraph again.

Yea, hope you agree with me on this. You must have been experiencing this. Perhaps it just come clearer to you right now.

Not giving the needed space is not going to help your relationship because, that's when the whole thing lose its sparkle,its magic, and becomes tedious, just so ordinary.

I am NOT trying to dictate how much time you spend in each others company,in fact I'm not trying to dictate anything. I'm just telling you what works if you want to be happy in love.

Some couples rarely apart and yet still managed to respect each others space. Some rarely socialize without each other. But for most couples, almost 80% of them, a bit more space helps things along and means that you have something to talk about.

The odds are that you need a bit of space from your partner from time to time. Maybe you need a lot.. That's OKAY (based on understanding).

The important thing is to recognize that when they want to do something on their own, its not a rejection of you, it's simply an affirmation of who they are. It's their way of touching base and staying happy and if you don't let them do it, you will lose the person you love.

So no nagging, no irritation, no jealousy, no childish behavior when your partner tells you they need a bit of space. Be pleased for them and for yourself, because this is what's going to keep your relationship fresh.

Your comment and view (both sides) shall be welcomed.



"You need to give them that time and day space without getting Stroppy or jealous or Niggly"
-T.Richard

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