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Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

hidhrhis:
thanks a lot

hidhrhis:
Good afternoon to y'all
I've not being feeling fine for some days now and I really need to go to hospital to know what's wrong with me because I don't joke with my health but I'm not sure if UCH ibadan is attending to patient.
Please if you know kindly help a brother

bjprodint:
Good day,my 3yrs+ son deficates immediately after eating, even without eating.so he's not growing well physically,but very intelligent, in short the best in his class.it started since when he was a baby.people said it was Jedi jedi ,I have treated Jedi Jedi with local herbs.I complained on a mother's forum on Facebook,they adviced I always give him multivitamins which I did religiously, no improvement.I took him to a hospital,they prescribed one drug for diarrhoea and zinc tablet,yet no improvement after using it.I went to a primary health center, they said we should do culture test on his poo.they said its 2k,i was scared that if only testing can cause 2k,then how much will the treatment be?I didn't do it cos I av been broke and an presently tired.my son has taken flagyl tablets to the extend that they are now friends,I deworm him frequently too,yet no improvement.I plan on sending him to my mother inlaw so that she too can try her best,but before then an pleading for doctors in the house to pls prescribe drugs that will work for him.thanks and God bless

Humanoid01:
A direct effect of watching too much nollywood rural movies.