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Business / Re: Things You Must Conside Before Deciding On Wha Business/side Hustle To Do by yolem(f): 7:43pm On Aug 18, 2021
kreemzo1:
Nice info..thanks

Registered
u are welcome..
Romance / Re: NO GO LOOSE GUARD Ooo...Make This Year Better by yolem(f): 7:57pm On Jan 17, 2021
True Talk...Money must be made grin
Donspicey:
If i die poor Baba God will not be happy with me.....


The Devil who also gives wealth will deal with me ruthlessly if i die poor and still miss heaven.......


Because of that i hv no choice dan to be Wealthy by God Grace........



My people hustle ooooooooooo
Romance / Re: NO GO LOOSE GUARD Ooo...Make This Year Better by yolem(f): 9:16am On Jan 17, 2021
InfernoNig:
Don't worry. This year 2021, we go buy benz!!!
Yes ooo..Na the Benz sure pass
Romance / NO GO LOOSE GUARD Ooo...Make This Year Better by yolem(f): 7:27pm On Jan 16, 2021
Na so u talk last Year...
"2020 is my year, I will Build House, My name will go far for Good things, I will buy Mercedes-Benz G-Class, My name Go Turn T-Money, I will Have Plenty Certificates to my name..."���

You Had So Many Lofty Dreams, But THEY didn't really turn Out well..
Some Things u Did well, Some things U really Did not do well.. shocked

2021 Must Make Plenty Sense...All Goals Must Be Achieved. grin
To Attain Your Set Goals, You must:

1. Set Realistic and Attainable Goals.

2. Break the Goals Down into Bits.

3. Dont Be Vague About It, And Ascribe Time to It!

4. Done is better than Perfect, Just Do It!.

5. Keep Trying..

6. Embrace Your Imperfections.

7. Celebrate Your Progress...

For Better Understanding, You can Watch this Video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcyiOHWoiLo

I did a Good Job na...Pls Clap for Me kiss
Career / Re: Why Are People In These Professions Very Rude? by yolem(f): 5:31am On Nov 24, 2020
Nigerians are generally rude people..no sense of empathy. The Rude Society made people in those professions like that.
It's a Guard against their Self esteem.
A typical Nigerian is not patient and will say rubbish at any slight opportunity.
You will find out that all professions in Nigeria that deal with plenty people tend to be aggressive and uncaring.

The People made them So!

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Romance / Re: How To Build Your Self Esteem - Believe In Your Self, So No One Will Use You by yolem(f): 8:33am On Jul 19, 2020
kreemzo1:
Kudos Girl...good one!
thank you sir
Romance / How To Build Your Self Esteem - Believe In Your Self, So No One Will Use You by yolem(f): 9:29am On Jul 09, 2020
Self Confidence is the Assurance you have to go for whatever thing you desire or you want with any struggle or setback while Self esteem would mean whatever feeling that you have, the feeling of worthiness or unworthiness to stay in a particular position or achieve a particular position.
You can have the confidence to apply for a job, go for interview and even get the job but when you get the job and you're beginning to feel do I really deserve to be here or am I worthy to be here, then you're dealing with self esteem here.

To add to that I'll like to ask you few questions that

Are you the type that like to impress everyone and make them feel you're good but inwardly you feel you're not all that good
Are you the type that love to impress everyone and make them feel you're good enough?
Do you attribute most of your success to luck ?
Do you take setbacks personal and think you don't deserve the medal?
Are you reluctant to receive compliments/payment for the service you rendered?
And lastly Do you desire a revamping self esteem?


If you're any of this, then you should watch it because your self esteem is declining gradually
Now to the question how to build your self esteem

1. The first thing is to spend time on things that add value to you things that help you, improve you. This brings us to the consciousness of spending at least one hour in a day to to engage in activities that add value, the more you do this, the more you feel better of yourself. You'll become more comfortable to speak at the table without feeling unworthy or undeserving when you're applauded. That brings us to the question, how many hours do you spend in day to add value to your self?

2. Learn to focus more on your strength while you pay less attention to your flaws. A lot of us have so much skills, and talent but we'd rather become our self critic and perfectionist than appreciate and showcase our unique endowment. You're beautiful, smart and unique, no flaw should be allowed to bring this value down.

3. We must learn to see ourselves in a unique way that raises our self esteem because self esteem starts from the mind, what you think about yourself and how you see yourself. How you see yourself will help others see you in that light, you can't perceive yourself as someone who is weak, unintelligent etc and expect others to see you the other way... As for your flaws if they're things you have no control over, for instance a body scar, learn to close your eyes to it and if they can be controlled such as your ascent, composition etc then fall back to point 1.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBtLqu2ZRQ4

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Education / How To Build Your Self Esteem by yolem(f): 10:03am On Jul 08, 2020
Self Confidence is the Assurance you have to go for whatever thing you desire or you want with any struggle or setback while Self esteem would mean whatever feeling that you have, the feeling of worthiness or unworthiness to stay in a particular position or achieve a particular position.

You can have the confidence to apply for a job, go for interview and even get the job but when you get the job and you're beginning to feel do I really deserve to be here or am I worthy to be here, then you're dealing with self esteem here.

To add to that I'll like to ask you few questions that

Are you the type that like to impress everyone and make them feel you're good but inwardly you feel you're not all that good
Are you the type that love to impress everyone and make them feel you're good enough?
Do you attribute most of your success to luck ?
Do you take setbacks personal and think you don't deserve the medal?
Are you reluctant to receive compliments/payment for the service you rendered?

And lastly
Do you desire a revamping self esteem?

If you're any of this, then you should watch it because your self esteem is declining gradually

Now to the question how to build your self esteem

1. The first thing is to spend time on things that add value to you things that help you, improve you.
This brings us to the consciousness of spending at least one hour in a day to to engage in activities that add value, the more you do this, the more you feel better of yourself. You'll become more comfortable to speak at the table without feeling unworthy or undeserving when you're applauded.
That brings us to the question, how many hours do you spend in day to add value to your self?

2. Learn to focus more on your strength while you pay less attention to your flaws.
A lot of us have so much skills, and talent but we'd rather become our self critic and perfectionist than appreciate and showcase our unique endowment. You're beautiful, smart and unique, no flaw should be allowed to bring this value down.
3. We must learn to see ourselves in a unique way that raises our self esteem because self esteem starts from the mind, what you think about yourself and how you see yourself. How you see yourself will help others see you in that light, you can't perceive yourself as someone who is weak, unintelligent etc and expect others to see you the other way... As for your flaws if they're things you have no control over, for instance a body scar, learn to close your eyes to it and if they can be controlled such as your ascent, composition etc then fall back to point 1.

Source-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBtLqu2ZRQ4
Gaming / Re: Football Manager 2021 Mobile Official Thread by yolem(f): 9:51am On Jul 08, 2020
who are the people still playing this game ..I have working formation ooo...e make sense die!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXwtNDPW8_I
4-5-1 formation
Education / One Main Obstacle To Success - How To Overcome It by yolem(f): 11:08pm On Jun 20, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVMqxpGrKSI


Fear stands as an obstacle to success
It keeps you from trying
It pulls you back each time you attempt to reach towards those big goals
Fear swallows up your confidence
Shut your dreams
keep you from trying
Most people don't live dream because of fear

*HOW LONG WILL YOU CONTINUE TO STAY IN THE CAPTIVITY OF FEAR* ❗

*HOW LONG WILL YOU KEEP HOLDING YOUR SELF BACK* ❗❗

*HOW LONG WILL YOU CONTINUE TO WALLOW IN DOUBT* ❗❗❗

This is specially made for someone
Listen and Share until we reach the targeted audience �
You should be our subscriber by now���
Education / One Main Obstacle To Success - How To Overcome It by yolem(f): 8:40pm On Jun 20, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVMqxpGrKSI


Fear stands as an obstacle to success
It keeps you from trying
It pulls you back each time you attempt to reach towards those big goals
Fear swallows up your confidence
Shut your dreams
keep you from trying
Most people don't live dream because of fear

*HOW LONG WILL YOU CONTINUE TO STAY IN THE CAPTIVITY OF FEAR* ❗

*HOW LONG WILL YOU KEEP HOLDING YOUR SELF BACK* ❗❗

*HOW LONG WILL YOU CONTINUE TO WALLOW IN DOUBT* ❗❗❗

This is specially made for someone
Listen and Share until we reach the targeted audience �
You should be our subscriber by now���
Education / 4 Things You Must Do To Stay Happy Always by yolem(f): 6:45pm On Jun 13, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wz4dbFnscrg

Do you desire sincere happiness?
Is it possible to stay happy always?
Will you like to have a state of mind void of worries?

Then you should check this and thank me later. grin grin

Staying happy always in time like this might be considered almost unrealistic. Moreover life doesn't want us to be happy always like some people would say.

I have deliberately made this video to unleash the secrets on how to stay happy always.
Enjoy
Romance / Do You Ever Feel Stuck? 5 Ways To Get Freedom by yolem(f): 6:36pm On May 24, 2020
Do you know there's difference between to be stuck and to feel stuck?
What are the initiators for this feeling?
How can one get to cross this border?
These among other things will be discussed today. Life is to good to be depressed �. This session is where you get to learn how to shake things off and be on top of your game.
*Note* : *the first two solutions can be applied by anyone to get accurate results, however, the last three(3)is very essential depending on the kind of situation on ground* .
*Do not be in an hurry to leave cause you never know which is best for you*


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqcTGCTtuwk

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