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My life can never be like comedy, and I have nothing to do with love and romance, then i reject that one " horror"
May our life never be like horror. Amen 🙏

advanceDNA:
Did the mother just wake up and say she's canceling the wedding... She cancelled it first...
which was disrespectful by saying the mother is the problem....which mother in law will like such a woman

Over the years I've seen pple tag taking advice from their family as a redlfag..mostly becos it's not want they want......if the mother had said "buy a car for your wife"...will she be angry he's taking his mother's advice??

.. Nobody fell from the sky....they are product of a family who raised them to become who they are that u now met and want to marry
But hey!! . yall want to cut the input of these parents off because y'all are fvcking somebody's son or daughter......

She should go and find another man that doesn't take advice from anybody

💯 facts bruh, some of this girls are just crazy, how will she be going to another church while her husband is going to another church, does that even make sense to any sensible person.
Even my old mom in those days quit her church and start attending my dad's church, unless the man is not a church goer, "anywhere belle face" kind of man

advanceDNA:
How is it misleading?? So what caused the breakup??

Church wahala" but the wedding didn't take place again because of the groom's mother not because of the brides decisions !!

Furthermore, the source disclosed that ”the groom said his mother clarified it that if the bride would not follow him to his church, the wedding is off.”

In reaction the bride’s eyes ”widened” in frustration as she retorted, “If your mother is going to decide everything for you, then maybe we should call off the wedding.”

”The groom, taken aback by her words, returned home and shared the conversation with his mother”, who also agreed to have the wedding called off.

As the wedding day approached, the bride, Patience, realised that her future mother-in-law wasn’t bluffing.

OkoYibo:
The girl later changed her mind and was begging, promising to attend his church but he refused and called the wedding off.

Very good.

the headline is misleading, many people here don't understand what happened, they're just judging from the title of the topic lol.
Many people here no read write up, nah only the headline them they read lol 😂

Emma1Oj:
The bride has seen someone else she loves more not this trivia excuse..

They are so confuse that they don't even know what they want.. That gender?

bruh did you read to the end?

kings59:
I'm the kind of guy who likes looking at the bright side and avoid criticism or negativity.

You have to be happy with what she told you because she is making you elevate your life and motivating you to increase your hustle.

Take what she said as an advise because that's the typical truth.


When you finally double your hustle and earn more, you would still praise her.

Forget about the poople bringing negativity here, they won't tell you the truth but would be quick to judge.


I apply wisdom in anything I do and say before spitting it out.

guy, your mama or family no motivate you to work hard na ordinary girlfriend na em won motivate you, that's crazy though, bruh some motivations are very bad for mental health, everybody ain't the same emotionally, if it's that easy why don't she motivate herself to make more money or Ginger her brother's to get rich already legitimately.
Bruh the fact reminds that not everybody will be Rich to an extend in this life no matter how hard we try, there will always be " poor, middle class, rich and wealthy, that's just fact about life, not everyone will see up to 5 million in their life time.

AngelicDamsel:
Getting advice from a girlfriend who earns 50k on how to manage 500k is almost unwise.


It is not the money that matters, it's the mentality.

Some earn less and they survive, some earn more and they are in debt.

Use your tongue to count your teeth.

💯 fact, it is not the money that matters, it's the mentality.
Some people 4 million a month is not even enough, why some 300k a month is more than enough, everything boils down to the mentality, The rate you place yourself" placing your standard so high that you will begin to seek the things you don't really need" but want because you want to keep a certain standard so that the society will classify you as big boy, you see them going around on social media and society telling people 1 million is nothing and unwise ones will believe them thinking life is bed of roses, most of them often times don't have up to 3million in their savings account because once the money is coming in, they're spending it Asap because they don't know how to manage, but believe me that the same boy that is always saying 1 million is nothing wait until he gets broke and he is not expecting money from any where, this the same boy Will now know how to manage 100k a month. All of a sudden100k is now something to him" because the money is not coming like before lol 😂

castro316:
So you want to marry/ choose a partner because of sex? It seems you are not ready for marriage. What about all the responsibilities that follow marriage? Do not marry someone you are sexually attracted to. Marry someone who you can live with and give you peace of mind. I don't want you coming here later in the years telling us about how your 'sexually attractive' wife is causing drama in your home and you want to divorce her. Now you don see better woman you ain't contented.

bruh sorry to say, but I feel like if you marry someone you are not sexually attracted to, the girl is going to suffer because some how you are not going to value the girl, like you are not going to be giving too much Bleep about the girl well being and is going to be frustrating to her.
Sex plays a lot's of roles in a relationship

seuncyrus:
Might be something else . How often do you watch pornography

bruh i don't watch porn, that stuff is so irritating, I don't masturbate either, the only thing I use to experience for now is wet dream's, just like yesterday.
I have a girlfriend but I have stop sleeping with her for like 3 months now I have not touched her,
She call last week saying she wants to break up because she's tired of complaining

guobe:
You sure say no be fake one

5alive full everywhere , have you not been seeing this 👇

Holluwhakemmy:
Stop lying not everyone will be sleeping around like your sisters . I'm a perfect virgin and I don't have a medical problem pertaining to that.

so what's the benefit of a virgin, because the last time I checked, being a virgin don't guarantee good wife, I mean in character wise, and the last time I checked again "marrying a virgin wife doesn't guarantee she won't cheating in marriage because I have witness a cheating virgin wife.
Life is too short, as a man just pray for a good wife that will give you peace of mind.
Some ladies got their virgin pipe not by choice but by promises made by her first love

AGManuel:
Bro you understand my predicament, how person wan take marry like this when woman de quick tire person😭

i don't know if this is a problem because this stuff is making me to be scared of marriage, my sister's are worried about it, they said I should be praying against it,

whatmoreng:
Same here. But in my own case I don't get bored of the sex. Just bored of the woman

I mean I get tired of having sex from that particular girl, but with another fresh new girl I'm ready to go

As I am right now, no matter how woman take fine reach, I will always be tired of her
That's my main problem now" I can't even spend a week with my girlfriend without getting tired of the sex, sometimes I think I have a problem somewhere because how am I going to stay with my wife for years in marriage.
I always tell any girl I like so much to always cover her body and we should not be having sex almost very day when she comes visiting so that my sex urge towards her won't die.
My best friend said maybe I'm that way because I have so many sisters so I'm used to women unclothedness,

appleous:
who is this "aneema"?

e be like you just learn the word, and you won put am into practice

daytona008:
Your own even better. I met this girl and all she can think of is shopping and vacation. Honestly, nothing wrong in that if you are already made financially.
I am an employee, currently trying to save up aggressively to start a business or relocate by the end of the year because job can end anytime. And all this lady has been talking about is us taking a trip to Dubai and how she will shop a lot. She even told an agency when they asked what type of hotel, that they should book a 5 star hotel. LMAO!
To crown it all, she told me to my face that she cannot date a broke guy. LMAO! For someone that cannot afford to transport herself to work at the moment.
Women are funny.

Again, nothing wrong with a woman having class and those desires. But as a man, know where your leg reach and plan your life accordingly.

In all of this, she is always comparing herself to her friends and sister dating politicians and fraudsters. I pack my kaya waka.

Just use your head men.

Bruh o you deserve award man 👍

appleous:
"Someone that *have* not seen 1m in her life saying this"

Dude, you don't know the difference between have(plural) and has(singular).

So keep your smelly advice to yourself.

so nah English you won chop, continue
BTC no get single English leta but e dey receive billions, you think knowledge is all about English, third speaking language in the world, not even first. Dey Play ⏯️

Michaelkelvin1:
You are an illiterate a nicompu!

So as learned u are ? 1milion would not be able to give ur a wife a decent job ! And besides marrying her is not a favor with ur poverty thinking mentality?? Abi u want make she day sell zobo ni? Or na akara? Even provisions would need a store.. abi na pop corn?? ..

Here u are destroying peoples home

oga stop saying nonsense people are still starting business with 500k until now, I helped someone with 400k to start a provision business middle of last year, and she is doing well now, you start small and grow big that's how business is, broda there is no business 1m can't start as an igbo man with an experience.
Store rent in street 8k annually= 96k
Agent fee: 50k
Table and blank works for keeping goods
50k.
Total = 196k then the remaining you use it and hit the market, the first 4 or 5 month you will not touch any money from that business, it will be just buying and restocking, your boyfriend or brother will be the one supporting you until you stand a little bit.

Bendeco02:
So, for your mind you're the only one dating her?

So far it's not marriage, you hardly see a girl with one boyfriend. She is yours whenever she is with you

I don't reason girls matter because i don't follow only one. Some of them thought i am their boyfriend while some sees me as a flirt and i don't care because am not married to anyone of them.

Last last when it's time for marriage, i may not marry any of them am currently dating.

Sharp you understand this game perfectly well

Guy you mumu o , which grandfather are you talking, is it the one that in their era any woman caught cheating on her husband has committed a serious abomination?

doyin01:
Going by this your logic , then 90% of Nigerian men should be sued for sexual harassment. for example if you as a guy tell a lady that her husband or boyfriend is enjoying oo ,that she would know how to whine her waist..

even woman too are guilty of this, woman sexually harassment men all the time

authority2006:
What is that if it is not sexual harassment? Do you even know what sexual harassment is? "Is that an invitation to treat" is not sexual harassment in your dictionary?



Say that to a woman in UK, USA or Saudi Arabia, only you will realise how ignorant you are

guy you lie bruh , that means you have not been to the USA or UK before, if you are talking about Saudi Arabians I agree 💯
In The UK and USA the man are guilty of this too, they use words like " look at her ass she's so fine, she got a body killer" and the girl clearly heard too
USA ain't saints they are the most corrupt when it comes to sexual and thug life shit, training a child in Nigeria is better than training a child in the USA, anybody with experience they will tell you this bruh

treatise:
In Western world especially USA you don't need hard evidence before you're sentenced for sexual harassment; ask Donald Trump, Piddy D, and many others. I know some religious dictates expect a woman to bring two or more humans as witnesses before sexual harassment or abuse is proven.

so can you mention one person in the US they sentence without proof, P Diddy they was enough evidence, is this the same US people got killed everyday by their friend's, and the police let the killer go because of lack of evidence or he will say its a self defense, the next thing they free him.
18 yrs old boy sexually harassment a girl of her age and got her pregnant, the boy only got 1 years imprisonment then after that they told him to go and look after the girl, u understand what I mean by that's but he is under probation for 4 years

richmond500:
no be everybody deh succumb to pressure

by the time the security there I mean the police," give you small beating you go know how far,
Once you are out with somebody and any order that was placed there, two of you are equally responsible for the thing, because you are consuming from it too, that is how it is done all over the world,
If you don't want disgrace once he or she is going out telling them to pay first

If no be small thing I for say make thunder fire that your friend, how your friend go even put ear 👂 dey listen to that kind conversation, girl way u go match leave am immediately as she open her mouth talk that rubbish

SeverusSnape:
Lambo buyers.
Be like CLITOcurrency dey more lucrative than Cryptocurrency.

of course, in CLITOcurrency you don't lose but in cryptocurrency you and lost na 5 and 6.
CLITOCURRENCY is billion dollars business

Agbegbaorogboye:
You mean being able to afford it strips her if the right to complain?

of course not, the rich complain too, so she has very right to complain, even though she can afford it but the hike in the price is still telling on her, but boss this particular girl is just calling the 1.2m for show off, I no all this tiktok girls characters

frank317:
see them... smiling and suffering. isnt government supposed to provide accommodation for copers? is that hard for ur loving government? No, they should leave in kpako house because they are copers. by the way, how much is a self contain in lekki environ if thats where u PPA is located, and by lekki environment i also include ajah and sangotedo. Also how much does a student rent a self contain around their university? the way some of u guys think is really depression for anyone evaluating ur though process

guy Wetin you dey talk, so what if you com from poor background way no fit afford lekki house rent, then they will cancel their youth service

Agbegbaorogboye:
What kind of house do you suggest they live in
A face me I slap you where they fight over toilets I guess
Are you really that broke?

then why is she complaining, I'm not supporting that guy o but the girl is rich that's why she rented a house of 1.2m

ukaface:
Ah
No o
I’m not praying for my enemy to die o
I can only pray for such to move far away from me

there are two different types of enemies girl,
Some people don't just like you but they have never thought of bad against you, why some people want to see the person death by all means, they render people's children useless, made some ladies not to find their husbands, sending sickness everywhere, now are you going to pray for this people to live so that they will keep destroying and killing people.
You need to pray a prayer of back to sender, whatever they wish on you will return back to them.
Human being with evil hearts don't go away, they always plan evil all the time, they might be in Nigeria and be sending arrows to someone in America.
Baby girl you better realize that you are in Africa

Truthseeker10:
So Jesus made a mistake in Matthew 5:44, 45?

bruh no be only Mathew 5:44,45 dey Bible o, in the same Mathew 22:44.
Many people prayed for their enemies bruh, I mean wishing them back to sender to their plans e.g Psalm, Isaiah, John, Joshua, and many more