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El Rufai will tey for this hell he desperately put himself.

This is why mischievous people want to spread their unrest to the safest region in the country. They will continue to fail though.

A welcome development. Ogun State needs new structural dimensions in all socio-economic areas.

As expected. Time to go watch too.

That won't happen.

The white guy with nothing in his hand might actually be poor.

But based on reality, an average white nigga is presumed richer than an average black man with the latest iOS devices wearing different brands.

uglodoh:
Lol. You are not serious. Do not mind those people.

I've added more points. They will soon come for me.

Which block did the igbo used to built the Nollywood?

Besides, there's lot of controversies around igbo heritage and history, their leaders inclusive. That may have been the reason why filmmakers are limited to showcase igbos in the Nollywood.

May his gentle soul rest in eternal peace.

First time getting to know about the official FPL for Nairaland. And been here since ages.

I don join. Anyone available to walk me through things for this season?

The question is why's the world Muslim leader arriving in a country where terrorism has been rampaging all around?

It's religion that will finish us in this country.

Anambra and bad news na 5 and 6.

LadyExcellency:
But mad women do this for free. What a life for the helpless.

This implies that anyone indulge in this is m*d you mean?

6million to manufacture a baby you should own for somebody else?

Life.

darediamond:
But How WILL THEY GET THE SHOT with the way those Spanish Players they play them? As in, No Be Ball You See Get for foot you go shoot?

The spaniad didn't have to depend on any favour from the officials, nor depend on a magic from a historical cheater.

correctguy101:
These talks and claims of rigging are entirely propaganda talks.
There's what is called "favorite treatment" and every favorite gets it.
No one would actively rig anything for anybody as if it becomes too obvious, the opposing side would never keep quiet about it and would make sure someone gets punished.

Abi, make we too begin say the match was rigged to give Lamine his first would cup? That the Argentina were asked to play the nonsense they played? You sef see am na, na total nonsense talk.

You see it as nonsense doesn't mean it isn't true. The favouritism was obvious. And if you can't see it, that doesn't mean it wasn't there.

If it was Argentina that scored that goal that was disallowed for Spain (the first goal), it would have been counted.

As for Yamal, he's fortunate to have played in a good team. Spain won because of their team football intelligence, just as for other Spain players. Having said that, he still have a long way to go.

Argentina wanted to win the world cup without playing a single shot on and off target in the final.

FIFA find it difficult to rig the match for Messi. The cry was sweet. Me love it.

Something needs to be done control increasing numbers of beggars in the country.

Seems begging is more lucrative than doing a normal job.

Portugal
England
Argentina
Norway

One of the most useless decision ever.

Na me dey steal people's chairs and tables. As my parent couldn't afford chair or table for me. I built one from rubble planks. Them steal am since JSS 2. After then, na new chair or table I dey use every single week. May steal chair from JSS 3, Steal table from JSS 1, stole from any class and sometimes, na only chair I go get, and sometime na only table. I go use am at least one week before the owner go see am. Then will steal another. That was how I survived Secondary School.

Gigantic memory.

ChybuzzDD:
It may not be true for you, but it's true for millions of other muslims around the world who are sticking to the core doctrines of the religion

Those members don't play with: Surah 9:5, Surah 9:29; Surah 5:51; Surah 2:191 and a host of other pro-jihadic verses

All these has been misinterpreted. These were recorded during the time of conflict and war. They have nothing to do with peaceful coexistence with other religion.

This why it's easy for any evil person to fuel their devilish agenda. Everything has been misinterpreted. What a pity though!

ChybuzzDD:
Their rel!j!on permits killings especially of kafirs/infidels via jihad, and to die as martyrs
They're told that doing so will attract heavenly rewards

This is not true. I'm also a Muslim. And my own knowledge of Islam is opposite of those.

I still can't fathom why killing people is not scary to this people?

We want you all gone too. We're tired of all the injustices and marginalization.

ShobayoEmma:
Number 1 and 3 are the deadliest.

If you can survive those two, you will only need little help to survive hell.



Tinubu, a bad man with good intentions.

Still so much to come, but we'll survive it.

Sonnobax15:

I've been through all of them but in the case of number 8,it was my late elder sister....

Life has really taught me lots of lessons,and that has always been my driving force...

Hmmmm. Keep going, you are stronger than you know.

Been a while I've posted here. But when I see articles that radiates, I'm compelled to share.

Many of us have endured challenges that shaped us to who we have become, we have constantly persevered beyond ordinary. And most time, people think it is that easy to deal with whatever life is dishing at us. The experiences that follow highlight ten forms of adversity that, when faced early, build a rare and enduring kind of strength.

https://www.freejupiter.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/The-Full-Flower-Moon-Is-About-to-Shower-Good-Fortune-on-These-3-Zodiac-Signs-23-3-1536x865.png

Below are 10 life challenges that imbibe in us the quality that makes us looks life in the eyes against all odds.

1. Losing Someone Before There Was Time to Prepare

Early loss is uniquely cruel. The death of a parent, sibling, partner, or close friend before the age of 30 often defies the expected rhythm of life. In youth, relationships are still being built for the long haul—so losing one prematurely feels like being robbed of a future as much as a present. Those who have been through this know that grief is not something that can be neatly “overcome.” Instead, it becomes part of the fabric of life. They learn that time is not promised, that plans are fragile, and that every goodbye could be the last.

This understanding changes how they approach relationships. People are held closer and appreciated more consciously, yet there is also a lightness—an awareness that love cannot cling forever. In this way, loss teaches both attachment and release.

2. Watching a Family Break Apart

The dissolution of a family unit—whether through divorce, separation, or emotional estrangement—can feel like the ground shifting under one’s feet. When it happens in childhood or early adulthood, while there is still dependence on that structure, it can rewrite the meaning of home entirely.

Some find themselves becoming mediators, interpreting one parent’s emotions for the other, or providing a sense of stability for younger siblings. This forced maturity shapes a person into someone who can read a room quickly, anticipate others’ needs, and stay composed under pressure.

Most importantly, it teaches that “home” is not just a physical place. It can be something built internally or with chosen people. And for those who survive such a fracture, the absence of old structures often becomes the foundation for creating entirely new ones.

3. Experiencing Financial Collapse While Others Thrive

Financial hardship in early adulthood often comes with a sting that lingers for years. At a time when peers are taking gap years, traveling, or climbing career ladders with family support, those in financial crisis may be working multiple jobs, juggling bills, and calculating whether groceries or rent takes priority.

The experience breeds resourcefulness. It clarifies the difference between what is necessary and what is simply nice to have. It forces creativity, whether in making money stretch or finding unconventional ways to solve problems.

Perhaps most significantly, it reframes the concept of wealth. Those who have endured such struggles often understand that financial security is valuable, but it is not the sole measure of stability or worth.

4. Facing Mental Health Battles While Others “Find Themselves”

In one narrative of young adulthood, these years are about exploration—trying different careers, traveling, meeting new people, and experimenting with identity. But for many, these years are defined instead by anxiety, depression, panic disorders, or other mental health struggles.

While peers collect memories and achievements, those in this group collect coping tools. They become fluent in managing their own mental state, knowing what helps, what triggers them, and how to recover when setbacks happen.

Such knowledge is not easily gained without experience. It fosters a kind of inner navigation system—one that allows them to steer even in total darkness, and to recognize that self-care is not a luxury but a necessity.

5. Leaving a Relationship That Was Quietly Harmful

Not all harm is visible. Some relationships chip away at confidence, independence, and identity so slowly that the damage becomes almost invisible to the person experiencing it. Leaving such a relationship before the age of 30 often requires walking away with little more than self-belief.

This act is not just about ending a relationship—it is about choosing self-preservation over familiarity. It builds a finely tuned instinct for danger, the ability to spot early warning signs, and the courage to prioritize well-being over appearances.

It also instills a lifelong understanding: love that demands self-erasure is not love worth keeping.

6. Facing One’s Own Mistakes

While it’s common to talk about forgiving others, less is said about confronting personal failures—especially when they have hurt someone else. For some, this reckoning happens early, bringing the realization that they have been the one causing harm.

This is not an easy truth to live with, but facing it head-on requires accountability and emotional maturity. It dismantles black-and-white thinking, replacing it with a nuanced understanding that people can be both deeply flawed and deeply good.

The result is a stronger capacity for empathy, both toward others and toward oneself.

7. Speaking Out Despite the Risk

Challenging injustice, refusing to conform, or simply saying “no” in a setting where compliance is expected can come at a high cost—especially when done without power or protection.

Those who choose to speak out anyway often find themselves changed by the experience. They learn that integrity is not always comfortable, that disapproval can be survived, and that sometimes silence can be more damaging than risk.

Over time, this becomes less about bravery and more about instinct. Courage, once practiced, becomes habitual.

8. Becoming the Caretaker for a Parent
When a parent becomes dependent due to illness, addiction, or another crisis, the natural order is reversed. A young adult suddenly takes on roles—managing medical appointments, navigating systems, and providing emotional stability—that are far beyond their years.

This role reversal accelerates maturity, but it also reframes the meaning of love. It becomes clear that care is not always reciprocal and that responsibility sometimes outweighs readiness.

Such experiences create an enduring sense of reliability—an understanding that showing up matters more than feeling prepared.

9. Losing the Original Life Plan

Sometimes the future a person imagined disappears entirely. A career collapses, an opportunity vanishes, a diagnosis changes the trajectory, or a personal dream dies unexpectedly.

When this happens before 30, there is often little choice but to start again. Those who do learn flexibility not as a concept, but as a lived necessity. They become skilled at adapting on the fly, finding possibility where others see only loss, and building new paths without waiting for perfect conditions.

10. Continuing When Quitting Would Have Been Easier

Perhaps the quietest, yet most profound, form of resilience is simply choosing to keep going. It’s the uncelebrated act of showing up for one more day, applying for one more job, or attending one more appointment when the effort feels pointless.

There is no audience for this kind of perseverance. It’s an internal decision, made repeatedly, to move forward despite the absence of proof that things will improve. This kind of persistence becomes an almost physical instinct—a refusal to stop, even when stopping would be easier.

Bonus: The Weight and Gift of Early Hardship

Hardships faced before 30 don’t just leave marks—they help form the person entirely. In these years, the mind is still flexible enough for experience to shape identity at the core.

Strength, in these cases, is not about invincibility. It is about continuing even after breaking. It is about transforming wounds into wisdom, uncertainty into adaptability, and survival into a quiet kind of power.

Those who have endured such trials carry with them a truth that others may never have to learn: the human capacity to endure is often greater than imagined. And once learned, this truth cannot be unlearned.

That's it. What do you think?

Curbed from
https://www.freejupiter.com/if-you-endured-these-10-challenges-before-age-30-youre-stronger-than-most-people-will-understand/

Congratulations to Lagos for this great feat. Next up is F1.

We'll be there.

Money is just a mint printed to represent value. The real money is not physical, just like value.

This is positive.

Hard to blame the scammers. Job seekers also must stop being desperate in applying for job vacancies. Most times, there are red flags that are ignored.

This doesn't justify their silly acts, however, government should find away to deal with culprits.