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budaatum:
I should introduce you to my grandchildren so you know how naive I might be.

Husband, if you work hard at making me want you, I definitely will exploit you by jumping on you every morning, but what makes you think I'd let you touch me if you have nothing to offer me?

Why would you chose to marry him in the first place if he has nothing to offer?

budaatum:
So, you need your wife to be obligated to have sex with you, and if she doesn't give you permission, it's okay for you to rape her by having sex with her without her permission, and you think that's a healthy desirable relationship?

Can you not imagine doing what you can do to make your wife actually want to have sex with you?

How do you enjoy sex with a wife that doesn't want you to gave sex with her? No, actually, ignore that, since I'm certain rapïsts must enjoy rapïng their wife!

You are just naive, and probably not married, otherwise you would understand that women would exploit this law to the fullest, a husband would Perpetually be working hard both outside and within the home to be able to consummate his marriage.

SixSeven:
.. Thank you, I repost my previous comment.

The bad rap single women have on this forum is for me a disgrace to men because that baby mama and baby daddy nonsense is a sign of failed family upbringing. While people can lose their loved ones or divorce due to irreconcilable differences, men who leave their wives or did not consult the elders before marrying into a family are a big disgrace to men. Give me a man that has 3 wives above useless sissies who are comfortable with their women mothering their kids alone abandoned.

You people copied the thing the government used against the Blacks in US and left your culture. Now you are telling us about single moms 🤡 Nonsense

In some cultures, the brother married off his late bro's wife because women were never treated like Street Vendors and abandoned. I blame women too because western influence has deceived them with one yeye independence and fake patriarchy that we are having more kids without dads because of some strong head women.

Where is the honor our women once had?

Who are the men getting them pregnant and leaving them?

Who are the families allowing their daughters wore about?

You can't just blame the women. Men are the biggest culprits because let's assume women are moomoo as many of you claim, who are the moomoo men planting their seeds in her 🤡 Weak men. Clowns.... It was a ticking time bomb, Nigerians copied street lifestyle of America and the 'independent' life of Europe, then abandoned their own traditions and culture about marriage, family and childbirth, here is the result....


For women, at what age will you wake up

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7553103102446931231?

Most single mothers "out of wedlock" have questionable characters. Having read through OP's story and assuming the story is real and the truth, could you not see the pattern of disgraceful characters from the said woman, which obviously was the reason for her failed previous relationships.
Although the men have some blame to take but the bulk of the shame and blame goes to the women.

AfahaAbia:
Thank you very much for your help. Actually it's in good condition the only issue I have it being a 2 door vehicle. I am feeling the car will be hard to sell when I want to later on

why would you want to resell it later? If it's your first car, why not keep it and own it? Keep it for your children.

The first question should be why was she in police custody? The police have done well by keeping her safe in custody, she should now come out and address us, how come she landed her self in police custody.

I rest my case.

I was reading eagerly to see the full detail of the concession agreement but nothing of such.
Folks, does anyone know the details of concession or what to expect going further.

Kaczynski:
They should keep going there


I don't want to see anyone near oil and gas.



I told a tech bro my base salary as a field engineer bro nearly faint

competitive mentality of average nigerian. the I better pass my neighbour mentality. Anyways hope you ll give back to your society from the huge salary.

theophorus:
When we Truly Love Nothing will ever make Us let Go of the one we claim to Love.

who truly loves and hide it from the partner?

This is the same West that want to teach us Africans morals.

motymop:
i have no prejudice, it just started facts, you obviously do not understand the dynamics of interacial maariages

if 2 people of different culture marry, they end up diluting the main culture, it is fact... the launguage spoken at home, will be the mother's language. it is fact.

there is also identity crisis of the children.

Good point. However, since it's about preserving the culture, we shouldn't then be outraged by their CULTURE of favouring/preserving their male pregnancies, the "prince syndrome" over the female pregnancies.

motymop:
No wonder all the Indians boys are all over Facebook showing their peepee because they are killing their female children.

What these people don't know is that they are creating an imbalance in society

In the future, many of these men won't be able to find women to marry because of the imbalance.

Some of these men will end up lonely or marrying women from other cultures who will then dilute their own identity

The bolded shows you also have your own prejudice; apparently you are guilty of a similar offense.

Focusmind:
India and their caste system

They so much adore the male child - some of the sex-selective abortions in India and even in Nigeria, have the woman as the principal approver of the act - for some women, once they notice that they would potentially birth a girl child, they would opt for abortion.

There is no difference between a male child and a female child - train your female child very well and see her take care of you more than the so-called male children. I love my daughter so much - she cares and could go at any length do things for me - But for my boys, you are on your own.

My daughter would notice my mood and stress and she would ask pertinent questions. If I am taking medications, she would be consistent in asking how my recovery have been. My sons would never ask me, neither would they show concern.

Girl child is bae

If you have them, cherish them.

There is a difference between a male and a female. For reference, refer to the article.
I rest my case.

Well deserved, he is patriotic.

Guys which app una dey use watch the match

Hmmmmm2024:
Who raped who...there is confusion in the story ...I can see and he raped them

Is the victim more than one ? Why are they using plural for the victim....

Some LGBTQ people identify with different pronouns, such as they/them, he/himself, him/her, it's a woke and messed up society.

All I know is that Nigerian graduates—I mean, those that passed through universities and universities passed through them(not cultists and time wasters)—are among the best in the world. Those stresses are part of the training.
I rest my case.

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Juoflife1:
If you have land, you can do a private cemetery business
Business plenty, na money no dey

Private cemetery? For nigeria? How would that work? Nigerians value their dead, would rather Bury in their living room.

GanagiBitrus:
If you come to my house & claim my TV belongs to you. I'll simply say I've misplaced the receipt.

The onus rests on you to prove the TV belongs to you by providing receipt with your name & serial number of the TV.

Abi You think you can claim ownership of my TV by providing any TV receipt without serial number?

You're just trying hard to sound intelligent but you're not. Serial number has never been the only determinant of ownership, besides, the onus is on you who cannot provide receipt of the said powerbank , to prove beyond any doubt that you're the real owner of the gadget and ofcourse you cannot. The main problem with Nigerians is that poverty and corruption has so dealt with people that no one believes in the courts/ judiciary to do the right thing.

If you find yourself in the USA/UK, steal someone 's gadgets and when they present their receipt of purchase in court, ask them for serial number without providing your own receipt

GanagiBitrus:
Receipt without Serial number of product is almost useless in proving ownership of the product.

Who has receipt of ownership without serial number has a good case over who cannot provide receipt of ownership at all.

GanagiBitrus:
Heartless people everywhere.
How will this OP be willing to help a stranded person next time?



Even if you track the man down, he can deny. How can you prove the PowerBank belongs to you without the powerbank serial number on your receipt?



Sure about this 28th Dec? That's a Sunday.

Op has receipt of purchase, let the criminal produce his.

Lalami3232:
I understand how sad and hurt you may feel but the truth be say, you go spend more time and money if you wan use police or other things take track am. So I go suggest say make you ignore am because the man na thief and most thieves are small. E go fit shock you sef say he don sell the power bank. Just overlook am bros but if you mistakenly meet am anywhere someday, don't disappoint me and the entire nairaland crew members. Scam dey pain ooooooo, I'm talking from experience

Please avoid this advise, it is this ignore it attitude that encourage bad behaviour in nigeria. If you have the means and time, chase this case and he ll have to refund every penny you spent.

UK should be deporting these stupid Nigerians constituting nuisance in the UK. Just imagine how quiet this environment was before these two idiotic fools started polluting it.

That most young Nigerians do not think; they only care about food, social media and sex.

Anything to rid Nigeria of banditry and insurgency is welcome; however, we should be careful when dealing with the West. America might actually be using Nigeria as a training/testing ground for their weapons in the guise of helping Nigeria fight insurgency. If not, why bomb Kwara State instead of Borno.

I dont understand the theme of this write up. so what happened?

"There was a time I worked in different bakeries. The last one happened to belong to my Friend's immediate younger sister and I was made the manager. But despite all the efforts we put into it,they were to no avail. In fact,we got liquidated, bankrupt and fell off from business."

Based on the excerpt above, can you tell us about your portfolio that earned you the position of manager of the bakery? Did you study business management in school? What businesses had you managed before you took this role? What managerial efforts did you put in but fail at?
NB: this is not criticism but for learning purposes.

fitinwell:
Ok, Start your own transport business ans charge ₦20,000 you can even do 90% discount price from Lagos - Enugu...

Don't use this your brain and mindset in intellectual discourse please

fitinwell:
So if you are the one running the transport business... You will run your passengers to enugu free of charge...

It's obvious you are one of the problems of Nigeria, but just to be polite, he will not run his transport business free of charge but will charge the passengers reasonably, why on earth will Lagos to Enugu be #85k while carrying other passengers as well, if not for the terrible greed that is inherent in us Nigerians?

Seeplusplus:
Did you read the part where he said it costs about 50k daily to feed the birds? So he should sell at a lost?

The problem with most Nigerians like you is ignorance. You sit in the comfort of your homes/offices to dictate how cheap foodstuffs should be, simply because farming has always been known to be a poor man's job in Nigeria.

Yet, same you will expect a recruiter to pay you $1k simply because you manage to know how to display "hello world" on the browser.

If you think farmers are cashing out like you guys always do, why not join the industry? I know you'll say no. But here you are saying rubbish about the few people still risking their lives and resources just to keep the industry afloat

Very terrible mentality

It is either you are genuinely naive to Nigerians' greed or you are actually one of the problems of Nigeria. The seller clearly stated that it costs on average 50k to maintain the birds daily, not just to feed them. Did it occur to you that the seller would obviously have thousands of birds in his/her farm? Then how in the world would a turkey be sold at 150k if not for greed? How many Nigerians legally earn 150k a month as a salary to be able to afford one turkey for 150k?
Anyways, as Nigerians are not patronizing the turkeys, he/she should go and eat them.
I expect you to also justify the 400k cost of flight from Lagos to the East, after all, $1 is #1500
I rest my case.

MaziObinnaokija:
Bia! Those wey second hand keke don show shege don tell him NOT TO GO NEAR USED KEKE.If those people eyes nor see shege pro while hustling with their keke,they'll be in best position to tell him to go ahead NOT YOU.Always listen to pipu.Nor be everything we dey play with here

People will discourage you in life but pay no heed to their discoragement. Do not let your 1.2m go to waste, go and buy your keke and ride it yourself.
It is better to try and fail than not try at all.
You must be stubborn to succeed in life.
I rest my case.

You guys greed will make you people want to put all your problems in the price of chicken. Which one be turkey for 80 to 100k

Don't mind those people discouraging you, go buy your fairly used keke and ride it carefully, you ll succeed with it. Just make sure it's not an abused/over used keke.

Go for it.