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That most young Nigerians do not think; they only care about food, social media and sex.

Anything to rid Nigeria of banditry and insurgency is welcome; however, we should be careful when dealing with the West. America might actually be using Nigeria as a training/testing ground for their weapons in the guise of helping Nigeria fight insurgency. If not, why bomb Kwara State instead of Borno.

I dont understand the theme of this write up. so what happened?

"There was a time I worked in different bakeries. The last one happened to belong to my Friend's immediate younger sister and I was made the manager. But despite all the efforts we put into it,they were to no avail. In fact,we got liquidated, bankrupt and fell off from business."

Based on the excerpt above, can you tell us about your portfolio that earned you the position of manager of the bakery? Did you study business management in school? What businesses had you managed before you took this role? What managerial efforts did you put in but fail at?
NB: this is not criticism but for learning purposes.

fitinwell:
Ok, Start your own transport business ans charge ₦20,000 you can even do 90% discount price from Lagos - Enugu...

Don't use this your brain and mindset in intellectual discourse please

fitinwell:
So if you are the one running the transport business... You will run your passengers to enugu free of charge...

It's obvious you are one of the problems of Nigeria, but just to be polite, he will not run his transport business free of charge but will charge the passengers reasonably, why on earth will Lagos to Enugu be #85k while carrying other passengers as well, if not for the terrible greed that is inherent in us Nigerians?

Seeplusplus:
Did you read the part where he said it costs about 50k daily to feed the birds? So he should sell at a lost?

The problem with most Nigerians like you is ignorance. You sit in the comfort of your homes/offices to dictate how cheap foodstuffs should be, simply because farming has always been known to be a poor man's job in Nigeria.

Yet, same you will expect a recruiter to pay you $1k simply because you manage to know how to display "hello world" on the browser.

If you think farmers are cashing out like you guys always do, why not join the industry? I know you'll say no. But here you are saying rubbish about the few people still risking their lives and resources just to keep the industry afloat

Very terrible mentality

It is either you are genuinely naive to Nigerians' greed or you are actually one of the problems of Nigeria. The seller clearly stated that it costs on average 50k to maintain the birds daily, not just to feed them. Did it occur to you that the seller would obviously have thousands of birds in his/her farm? Then how in the world would a turkey be sold at 150k if not for greed? How many Nigerians legally earn 150k a month as a salary to be able to afford one turkey for 150k?
Anyways, as Nigerians are not patronizing the turkeys, he/she should go and eat them.
I expect you to also justify the 400k cost of flight from Lagos to the East, after all, $1 is #1500
I rest my case.

MaziObinnaokija:
Bia! Those wey second hand keke don show shege don tell him NOT TO GO NEAR USED KEKE.If those people eyes nor see shege pro while hustling with their keke,they'll be in best position to tell him to go ahead NOT YOU.Always listen to pipu.Nor be everything we dey play with here

People will discourage you in life but pay no heed to their discoragement. Do not let your 1.2m go to waste, go and buy your keke and ride it yourself.
It is better to try and fail than not try at all.
You must be stubborn to succeed in life.
I rest my case.

You guys greed will make you people want to put all your problems in the price of chicken. Which one be turkey for 80 to 100k

Don't mind those people discouraging you, go buy your fairly used keke and ride it carefully, you ll succeed with it. Just make sure it's not an abused/over used keke.

Go for it.

Thought they went to play football, appears to be fashion parade.

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Good move by ENGIS, sanitise the sector, cos alot of these charlatans are reaping unsuspecting members of the public off.

Morenikeji090:
lol see their shoes like Aba made….. abeg make Una go front jare

What happened to Aba made shoes?

SixSeven:
Good points. A simple question, do you think two adults in love can cohabit without sex

Well, my point is not whether or not people have sex during cohabitation but to make you understand other benefits therein.
I rest my case.

SixSeven:
Okay, if you think so. Can you list 3 reasonable purposes?
Also know that for privacy purposes, people will not talk with their mouths open.

1. During cohabitation, you can have first hand knowledge of how clean and homely a person is, alot of people know how to look and dress neatly but home keeping is zero, houses and kitchens are a mess.
2. During cohabitation, you can have first hand knowledge of whether a person is resourceful or not, by the way she/he manages resources at home, especially when there is lack, whether he/she makes use of her initiative.
3. Cohabitation reveals a person's routines and habits, thought processes which you cannot througly observe just by talking over the phone.
4. Culinary skills.
5. Relationships with neighbours and others.

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SixSeven:
Ta! What's a home without sex especially when married? We are adults here Oga

Finance and sex are the two top reasons for divorce, so what homely are you looking for?

Regina Daniels is not having issues today because of sex and finance, tuface and Annie not for sex and finance, rude boy, tonto dike.

Nevertheless, I am saying there are other reasonable purposes for cohabitation aside sex

Angelfrost:
Lol... Public perception and stereotypes are such interesting concepts.

I swear, I grew up hearing nothing but negative things regarding the following:

Ankle, waist, and nose accessories/adornments on women
Tattoos
Multiple piercings on each ear




It took a lot of self education and mental liberating to get such superstitious and uneducated nonsense off my head.

Superstition you mean? Make sure your wife posses all those qualities you listed and tell us later

flexyrule:
You people have brought this una backward-thinking topics to front page again.

Leg chain is just a fashion assesory. It doesn't in anyway determine the behaviour of anyone, and doesn't not identify anyone.

Do your research and report to us in the next 6 months.
Anytime you meet hookup girls, prostitutes, feminists, lesbians, and DV women, check for the presence of leg chains, multiple piercings, tattoos, loud voices, etc They usually posses one or more of these.

SixSeven:
Cohabitation is the see finish premiere to open your yansh before marriage. If you have self respect, you'll wife that woman. Bring her to your house after following all the necessary rites have been performed and even her family tells her, "go to your husband's house" or "go and do that in your own house". When you have the right to bring her into the house and don't have to look behind you because you want to gbensh her. You don't cohabit in your own house, that's like kidnapping another person's child without their parent's permission. It means you couldn't control yourself, you think she's giving you free sxx but you are the one not showing yourself as a man, a leader who follows the process.

If you want her to call you ‘your sExcellency’, the process that brought her into your house must be ‘excellent’ abi who's the man of the house again?

Do you think the only aim of cohabitation is sex? People also cohabit to see how homely their potential partners are.

Fit for dating
Skinny for marriage.

Sounds like OP is the Prince Nwafor

markidoo:
Buy Crypto especially the Pi coin,, it has shown it's bear market resistance

How much have you earned from pi coin?

Drifter02:
Na this kind thing be the reason why I dislike anything university-related.. Having to leave your loving family to go to a university is a very unnatural thing to do.

I totally regret that I went to university at all on my own end here

I guess not going to the university because you dont want to leave your family is a natural thing to do? maybe leaving a family to go and work is unnatural, just maybe.

infogenius:
Pattern matters, yes.


But let’s keep the same energy both ways:

A man who has slept with 50+ women while “waiting for the right one” is showing the exact same lack of discipline, impulse control, and accountability he’s accusing women of.


Same pattern, different gender.

If “easy access” is a red flag in her, serial cheating and “body count hunting” is a red flag in him.

The real metric isn’t body count or even pattern alone; it’s growth.


Has the person recognised their old pattern, owned it, and changed?


Or are they still repeating it while pointing fingers?

A repentant 50-body-count person who’s now disciplined and loyal is safer than a “low-count” person still stuck in pride and excuses.

Judge patterns, yes.

But judge ur own too.


Fair is fair. 💯

Men are not judged by body count, whether you like it or not.

Juliearth:
Yes, a one hundred year post can cost even your descendants their jobs. Digital footprints is not a joke.

Until it is time to judge a woman by her past, y'all will start to echo past is past.
Very hypocritical.

I want to go to Uganda, their women are beautiful.

EmperorIsaac:
The question is what we are diagnosed with as malaria in Nigeria, is it really it?

Have you heard of tropical diseases before?

yad2eidi:
Hello guys, I just arrived USA today and I am having serious malaria.
It showed up suddenly .
Please how do I treat it here. All the pharmacies I visited said they don't sell malaria drugs.
I need your help urgently please.

Which reasonable person travels abroad without routine drugs and antimalarial?

Looks like it's one person creating multiple accounts.

Hardeybohwarley:
Even though her action is commendable, we need to let go of such mentality as it doesn't work in saner climes and better organisation in Nigeria.

I find it hard to see why an employer will be expecting me to show appreciation for receiving a salary I toiled for.

Was the employer thanking me while I was doing the job.

You are a wise man.
Every worker deserves a wage, and I don't see any reason for such text after paying for your hardwork.
However, these types of employees are the dangerous asslickers and sycophants who would destroy an organisation if given the chance. It is a red flag and should be kept in check.

CJStarz:
For her mind, she go dey wish say na boy wey she born for 2face. She for use am pepper Annie because born only girls for 2Baba.

For Annie mind, she go dey happy say na girl Natasha born.

As e dey hot, Natasha go quick carry another belle based on sex determination so she go born man pikin next.

Inside life really. But you get time though.