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yemi15:
You are welcome bro. Keep trying, they can not all be the same, that is my belief.

If they are the same to you, go foreign bro, at least you have peace of mind you exhausted all your options with them.

Take care bro.

yemi15:
Wow is all I can say.

I know how the heart ache feels bro, I am in your shoes too currently.

But I am not giving up, I will exhaust all my options before I finally go foreign.

Exhaust your options bro, at that stage, go foreign.

It will be a decision you will never regret.

So it does not feel like we hate our women when most of them seem to prefer rough guys.

Do not be tempted to be a rough guy by the way.

I will not.

My 2 cents.

Bluezy13:
Zerro, how service

He he he

austyn0:
You don't have to avoid her,, you are way stronger than that,, I want you to show her you can do so well without her,, infact I would like it if you inbox me let's take it private,, i have this insatiable urge of easing your pain.

Brugo:


Lol @ disconnecting yourself from this world.

Ogbeni, go and sleep. You go dey alright.

If you hear other people's stories, you go laugh. Abeg just calm down. Don't go on a fùcking spree sha cos you might catch something that would actually disconnect you.

A cold bath and a glass of wine would set you right. Don't beg her no matter how needy you get.

deewhydoski:
Mumu....kill yourself because of a girl.....I don't have time for rubbish.

austyn0:
You don't have to avoid her,, you are way stronger than that,, I want you to show her you can do so well without her,, infact I would like it if you inbox me let's take it private,, i have this insatiable urge of easing your pain.

austyn0:
Provided you are not a flirt, falling in love is not something you can control, fate plays tricks on we humans, even flirts get played when fate turns to their page in life, you just happened to have met and fell for a girl that shattered your life which is quite unfortunate...You are like this because you loved with just your heart excluding your head..... You will fall in love again, if fate permits it, believe you me, when next it happens use your head to help your heart... For now broh,, I once got over a girl I thought I couldn't live without, I strongly believe you can too..... FIGHTING

austyn0:
Laughs...You no go know how bitter leaf de taste until you taste am.

UDUJ:
Here are some steps to take to get over your ex finally:

First of all:

Understand that breakups happen. You're not alone. A lot of people break up everyday, and the pain that comes is NEVER easy.
In fact, most of your relationships are going to end in breakups till you finally find the one you’re meant to be with.
It's a learning experience you have to learn sadly, but I want to let you know that you CAN get through this.
Very likely, though there are things to be improved upon, your breakup isn’t a reflection on you. Very likely, it has more to do with your ex than you.
All the breakups I have seen so far, I find, always have unhappiness leading to them.

Second:

Look at your feet. It's silly, but tell yourself you are still walking and breathing. Tell yourself that you are still alive right now, and losing your (supposed) other half isn't going to kill you.
You can get through this.

Third:

You need to numb your self for this. Be a robot and do this automatically. Push your feelings aside for a while.

Ready?



Cut off ALL contact.
Checklist (block and delete):
Email
Facebook
Twitter
Instagram
Any other social media
Phone number
Whatsapp
Any physical item that reminds you of your ex, throw away or put into a box to put somewhere you won't look at for a long time

Harden your heart. THROW away anything that you don't want to keep and that hurts you.
Again, cut off ALL contact. Don't do the "let's be friends" thing. Third time: Cut off all contact.

Forth:

Allow yourself to grieve. Listen to sad songs, cry it out. Talk it out over and over again with close friends and family. Ask them to be there for you while you pull yourself together.
Tell your friends/family that you don't have the energy to call them, and you would appreciate if they checked in on you every few days. Believe me, the worst thing people can do is say "let me know if you need anything" at this period, even if they mean well.
Because at this time when you're feeling vulnerable, you can't quite stand the guilt of being a burden to people, nor do you have the energy to call anyone. So if your friends really want to help you, ask them to call you.

Fifth:
Happiness comes from within. What you are missing now, give it right back to yourself.
Feeling lonely? Hang out with friends.
Feeling sad and bored? Cheer yourself up by doing the things you absolutely love to do, that doesn't involve her.
The key is to feel independent and happy without her.

Sixth:
Now's a good time to get a support group. You can find some on Facebook or the internet.
Your friends are not going to like you being upset for long. Best that you join a support group who knows exactly how you are feeling as soon as you can.

Seventh:

The truth is, it really is not time, but ACTION, that truly determines how fast and well you will heal.
You can get over a 2-year relationship in a month, and a 4-year relationship in 2 days.
It is possible. You just need to believe that it is possible.

All the very best to you, and please be gentle with yourself!

austyn0:
Oga,, after the help we offered with our posts last time you are still in this state?

I told you to endure it,, with time you will definitely get over her...

Is she the only person that gives you happiness in this world? Seek happiness sensibly elsewhere man and get over this shitty occurrence.

horlahwaley:
bruh, how could you allow ursef into a situation like dis, love for a lady? noo, not anymore. currently dating 3 ladies all of which can do anything for me still yet i dnt know who to choose. take heart bro with tym, get as many ladies as u can nd enjoy ursef. they aint worth loving.

biacan:
Only you can make you happy so live your life to the fullest hang out with friends......Better don't stay alone in a room because it's seems you're depress.....visit this instagram pages to break your boredom @maraji @welovetolaugh

Fourwinds:
you have to....that is the best way to discard rubbish....


the way some girls behave, kai I keep my distance far from dating such people....


I just like the way God made me....no time for nonsense....

Fourwinds:
no OP you can't punish another girl because of your ex...you see, one thing I hate in life is confuse person....

dump her and move on...I don't waste my time with unserious girls....I can date three girls in a year....once you are good will stay together...I don't hibernate with confuse people

sexymonkey:
@zerro please get yourself a new girl before you discard the b.itch, if you breakup without getting her replacement my guy you go surely breakdown.

austyn0:
Laughs.... I have been there broh, I definitely and certainly know how you're feeling but man,,,,

You are a man, always remenber this..

You will definitely get over her, it's a matter of time.

Find happiness always through friends, families and wherever positive..

If she truly loves you she wouldn't be considering a second guy,, so break up with her no matter how hard it is.

Broh, never show her you are annoyed or can't do without her, while breaking up with her, if physically, do it with a smile on your face and most importantly wish her well.

Remember to always regard her as a friend wherever and whenever, don't pass her by without a wave at least on the road, prove to her that you can do so very well without her.

Lastly, don't try and I repeat, never in your entire life in this cruel and funny earth pour your pitiful experience on innocent girls, that's immature...


All you need is time broh,, you will see the sunshine again.... FIGHTING!!

zerro:
3 games, 3 odd+ 5VRMF2K

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good luck

smithsydny:
500 funded

iDROID:
You're stupid. End of story.

smithsydny:
100 funded..

zerro:
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Fxwarrior:
Funded #1000

Fxwarrior:
Funded #1000

iDROID:
You won't die you don't bet. Go and find something else to do. But if you need to bet so badly then enter the nearest betshops go beg.