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Thanks a lot guys

Gaborone:
I'm sorry! Whether or not no two people are alike, they can both have a meeting point. And before they think of getting married, they MUST have that meeting point. To me,that's one way they become one. Courtship shouldnt simply be about assessing whether the other person has a good character, but whether you both are compatible. Good character isn't synonymous with compatibility. Don't get that twisted.

Op, raise the issue with her. Tell her areas of discussions that really pique your interest, and observe if she can grow to love them. Try doing same at your end. If nothing works, consider whether you can bear a boring marriage, and decide accordingly.

Thank you

blank:
If you have no common interests how can you say you are in a relationship? You are only infatuated with her. After the physical attraction, what next? Be bored with each other's company?

Believe me, it's not mere physical attraction. I honestly love that girl. It's the love that have kept me going despite the differences. And i don't know how long i can continue going if/when the love begins to fade

Richy4:
In my humble opinion,I will say that was a perfect match made in Heaven...

<<<<You are patient to listen....And she was the talkative type....So do what a lot of men do ...sleep as she is talking without interrupting her....You can always spice it up by sleeping and nodding your head as she speak...Occasionally you can wake up and say "sweetie that's so hilarious" and you continue sleeping..That will keep her going for some time until she looks at u and hit u for sleeping while she was talking...Then u said sorry Dear I was kinda tired.

<<<As for getting bored at home, that one is basically your fault..There are lots of things you can do out door.. hold hands and go to parks, zoo,..etc just be creative man...I do not even see where the problem was...I for one have never come across a lady that talks about politics or sports...except when few mistakenly say that they were supporting Manchester United because certain person they know either brother or father was supporting it..full stop..That's all you might hear on sport knowledge....

Thank you sir

Thanks a lot guys

Chai!!!! What a world!!!

This guy is well known in Enugu state were he grew up. I used to watch him way back when they were still amateurs before he was signed by Rangers where he played for about 4 years. This life sef

His elder brother was an unused substitute in the gold winning atlanta 96 olympic team.

RIP bro.......God knows best

Please i need mature advise on this troubling issue.


I'm a young business man (and currently running my msc) based in the East, with a girlfriend that i'm so eager to marry. She's a pretty girl with excellent character and everybody seems to like her. Many guys are fighting to marry her, but somehow she has chosen me. I love her so dearly with all heart.

However, the problem is that we both don't have any common interest. For instance, i am interested and like to talk about entrepreneurship, sports, chess, books, history and politics........, while she's fascinated by religion, paid employment, facebook, telemundo, big brother and beauty pageantry.
I'm the type that can patiently listen to someone for hours, while she's the talkative type(which i like). But she always seems to talk about her interests, which results to me having to listen to long boring tales all day long. I also notice that she's easily bored whenever i talk about the things that i like. The relationship is getting boring, especially whenever we're alone in the house.

Now my question is ; Do you think it's wise for both of us to marry each other even with the obvious conflict of interests and outlook in life? Do you think the marriage will be all about endurance when the love eventually fades out?

Thank you