I am in the same predicament. i am planning my wedding for Feb 2013 and i need some help on how to go about it. i am absolutely lost. My wedding is in port harcourt and i am a bit of a perfectionist who likes great value for money. any help with vendors for make up, decoration, catering and photography will be much appreciated.

[quote author=Jackie_25]This case will not make any headway until the lawyer produces the said girl and from what I see he has never met the young lady yet he wants N2billion compensation! This lawyer sef. SMH[/quote]

Just a testament to our broken educational system. How could an experienced lawyer seek compensation of £2billion. Even under the laws of defamation, to seek such amount the lady in question will a celebrity with high social standing and much to lose for such negative publicity. I will be seriously disappointed in my country if this case is given any audience in the appeal court. if the lawyer wants to prove a point that no one is above the law, then he should press charges and see that the matter is dealt with the criminal court as this is a case of common assault. Then if found guilty beyond reasonable doubt he should be punished accordingly.

i have never replied on this site but this story is very touching. i feel your pain my dear and will advise you from a very rational perspective. society have a way of influencing people to make decision just to save their face. i dont undertand why a family will advise a young woman to go back to a home she built for her former employee to humiliate her because she is carrying a child for the pig who is meant to be her husband. if you are going back to that home then you should be prepared to forgive your husband and accept his new wife. if you go back there because you fell pressured or ashamed of what society may say then you have sentenced your self to a lifetime of unhappiness. The hurt your husband put you through will sear through your heart when that child cries. there will be so much pain in your mind when you see this woman walk into your husband room and make you feel like a furniture in the home. please my dear, take your supermarket and please get yourself a nice home. who knows you may meet a lovely man who will marry you and give you kids in a year. please life is too short to sentence your self to a lifetime of unhapiness. sometimes things happen for a reason, maybe the dog of your employee was sent by God to take the Dog of your husband so you can have a meaningful life. please leave and go and build a life. if no husband comes, there a lots of helpless children you can adopt and give a better life in that way you will be remembered as a woman who turned such a negative into a positive. i wish you well.