Fineman2:


1. He is 72 years old.

2. He has retired from active service.

3. He worked all his life to raise his children.

4. He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his children abroad.

5. They are now well-off in Europe, Australia, and America.

6. His wife, aged 62, has relocated to live with their children.

7. He remains alone back in Nigeria.

8. His children barely call him.

9. He has to start life all over again as a bachelor.

10. He struggles with high blood pressure and other ailments associated with old age.

11. How much longer will he survive alone?

12. This is the reality for most working-class monogamous men: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad.

13. No matter how good the man is, women tend to love their children more than their husbands. The older he gets, the less use they seem to have for him.

14. So, what do men truly benefit from marriage?

15. They sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for their hard work, while the woman seems to reap all the benefits.

It’s a man’s world they say but for the women and children in reality.

Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it?

What is your retirement plan?

Care for your self as much as you fend for your family. Love yourself.

God bless you.

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cococandy:
What type of kids forget a good father?

Ishilove:

Don't mind them. A good father will never be forgotten by his children. There's always an aspect of the story that they will never tell you

Fineman2:


1. He is 72 years old.

2. He has retired from active service.

3. He worked all his life to raise his children.

4. He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his children abroad.

5. They are now well-off in Europe, Australia, and America.

6. His wife, aged 62, has relocated to live with their children.

7. He remains alone back in Nigeria.

8. His children barely call him.

9. He has to start life all over again as a bachelor.

10. He struggles with high blood pressure and other ailments associated with old age.

11. How much longer will he survive alone?

12. This is the reality for most working-class monogamous men: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad.

13. No matter how good the man is, women tend to love their children more than their husbands. The older he gets, the less use they seem to have for him.

14. So, what do men truly benefit from marriage?

15. They sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for their hard work, while the woman seems to reap all the benefits.

It’s a man’s world they say but for the women and children in reality.

Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it?

What is your retirement plan?

Care for your self as much as you fend for your family. Love yourself.

cococandy:
What type of kids forget a good father?

dominique:
Men don't benefit from marriage yet when they're ill and admitted to the hospitals, it's their wives that nurse them to recovery. If the wives are ill, it's their wives that are ill, it's the wives family members that will be by their sides in the hospital. This is something I've personally witnessed.

Jim99:


The kind brainwashed by their mother.

There are millions of such cases.

98% of people here mothers did the same. Women use it as revenge, to get back at their husbands. It's nothing new.

I know the length women will go to get revenge, they don't have the physical strength to do it, so they carry out their revenge through the kids. This is why women should never be trusted.

The moment you leave your kids alone with their spiteful mother, she starts filling their heads with all types of evil things.

Many grew up hearing how evil their father is. Until they hear from their father himself or even those that lived close to him. But sometimes he ends up dead without them knowing the truth.

Your father probably changed the lives of many around him because men are generous in nature, but it's you his own blood that he hates??

Does that not tell you there's something your mom isn't telling you?

I would bet my whole savings that you're doing the same thing to your daughter right now. Quietly setting her up against her father.

Mindlog:


If you visit psychiatric facilities across Africa, there are more female visitors visiting male wards, more female visitors visiting female wards.

Jim99:


The moment you leave your kids alone with their spiteful mother, she starts filling their heads with all types of evil things.

Many grew up hearing how evil their father is. Until they hear from their father himself or even those that lived close to him. But sometimes he ends up dead without them knowing the truth.

Mindlog:


If you visit psychiatric facilities across Africa, there are more female visitors visiting male wards, more female visitors visiting female wards.

cococandy:


We have an oncology saying that as soon as the wife gets cancer, the husband does a bouncer.

It’s backed by credible studies. Men leave their sick wives more than women leave sick husbands.

descarado:
. The nuturing no concern them.

cococandy:


Yes. And that’s exactly the problem.

They make themselves out to be these unfeeling species and they wonder why their kids don’t feel close to or loved by them. ( or Some of them I should say).

The ones that behave the opposite of what toxic males tell them is appropriate masculine behavior are called simps. Meanwhile all they are doing is cultivating a loving close knit relationship with their wives and kids which benefits them in the long run.

Then these dude bros turn around and blame women for their kids not being particularly affectionate to them in old age.

As the popular saying goes “You don’t learn to use your left hand in your old age”!

Jim99:


The kind brainwashed by their mother.

There are millions of such cases.

98% of people here mothers did the same. Women use it as revenge, to get back at their husbands. It's nothing new.

I know the length women will go to get revenge, they don't have the physical strength to do it, so they carry out their revenge through the kids. This is why women should never be trusted.

The moment you leave your kids alone with their spiteful mother, she starts filling their heads with all types of evil things.

Many grew up hearing how evil their father is. Until they hear from their father himself or even those that lived close to him. But sometimes he ends up dead without them knowing the truth.

Your father probably changed the lives of many around him because men are generous in nature, but it's you his own blood that he hates??

Does that not tell you there's something your mom isn't telling you?

I would bet my whole savings that you're doing the same thing to your daughter right now. Quietly setting her up against her father.

Farfalla:


Liar!

Why would children abandon their fathers? What reason would they have to do that?

Biglittlelois:
I believe women have done justice to this thread


So Op you can rest now

1Sharon:


Stop these lies today.

Don't underestimate children. They're not as dumb and impressionable as you'd like to think. There is no way you can manipulate a child that knows his father was present and cares about him.

cococandy:
What type of kids forget a good father?

JeffreyJunior:
Thank you for that question, nne.

Only an irresponsible father will be forgotten at old age by his kids and if he was a terrible husband in his prime days too, his wife will leave him in the village to be drinking kai-kai and join her kids abroad.

They will always tell an incomplete story to suit their selfish narratives. Ndi ara.

If they don't benefit from their marriages, they should leave those that benefit from theirs alone.

Na like this some of them dey drink their useless redpill like Pepsi until they destroy their peaceful homes with their own hands and then resort to killing their wives.

I've added redpill to the checklist for my daughter's marriage. If you chop redpill, you will not marry my daughter. I'll rather she be a single mum than be married to an idiot that believes he is an alpha male when he can't even sit on the floor where real men sit on the table to discuss.

Karleb:
If you plan your life very well, omo, you go enjoy marriage as a man.