If he's her "last hope" then this question is moot because the husband would have no choice.

Seun:

If he's her "last hope" then this question is moot because the husband would have no choice.

Guy, you have a way of spoiling things for me you know?
You might as well pull the post MR ADMINISTRATOR and save me the embarrassment!
Was expecting people to answer the question hypothetically not practically. Please pull the post.

Sorry Poster

the answer is easier than u thought, if Dr. friend is the last hope. i guess the hubby has no choice.

I'm dating a Doctor, & on the very path to marriage. He asked me a question like this. "Can i allow a friend of his (he mentioned his name) to take my delivery? i went mad with a blatant "NO". I asked him what he'll be doing when someone else is taking my delivery and he said "Professionally it's not right" But the argument went on, that "what if there is no other option and all dat". After much argument i came to the painful but reasonable conclusion. Anyways i'm quite used to his medical jokes. He finally told me the question often comes up amongst medical peeps

And the answer is there has to be a difference btw ur social life & ur profession. Most medicals peeps draw dat line. Even if the Gyno Doc happens to be extremely randy even in profession and extends it to his friend's wife, i guess it has to be mutual for something to happen.

nope, for reasons that are reasonable,

MP007:

nope, for reasons that are reasonable,

i feel you

Randy or not, my husband wouldn't allow his friend/neighbour/colleague or anybody we know closely to take my delivery. He that always asks me to narrate my experience anytime I go see a doctor, especially a Gynaecologist, that guy sef! He's always content with someone we just met as in 'no existing relationship'.

However, in the scenario you've painted, it would be absurd to say 'No'. But if its not a 'do or die' (apology to OBJ ) affair, we'd have got me a neutral doctor from the onset.