Vicony4real: What motivates men into going for other women outside, when they have wives at home?

ifyalways: Their 3rd leg. . .

The thing no get specific speed,time or direction,it's a scalar quantity. It might be heading for point a but end up in c.

Lol

ifyalways: Their 3rd leg. . .

The thing no get specific speed,time or direction,it's a scalar quantity. It might be heading for point a but end up in c.

Lol

k2039: ojukokoro.

Poor and wrong value system

Ujujoan:

Lol . . . Scary thought!

queenesthr: What motivates women to go for other men when they have husbands at home?

Vicony4real: What motivates men into going for other women outside, when they have wives at home?

r231:

madam how far

MRbrownJAY: @OP
if a man was married to a mermaid and suddenly after marriage (and baby), that mermaid turns into a BABY WHALE, then the important question is why shouldNT he?

the problem here is that many men are not strong enough to say it PLAINLY and SIMPLY to their wives, because men know how emotionally weak women are. so instead of hurting these women's feelings, these men rather go and cheat......so we can all conclude that MEN SIMPLY CHEAT BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO HURT THEIR PARTNER'S FEELINGS.......BWAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!
ok that was a joke, THAT WAS A JOKE!!!!

many men cheat because they dont get at home the SATISFACTION that got them there at the first place, and therefore go outside to seek for the satisfaction that is lacking in their home. also, many are marrying for the wrong reason, so cheating is just a continuation of the DECEIT that started the day they got married.

Ujujoan:
What of the ones cheating on their GFs . . . Or has the GF also turned to a baby whale?

It's wrong for you to conclude that all men who cheat are not satisfied at home . . in other words, wives are to blame for ther husband's infidlities!

As far as the man wasn't held at gun-point into the marriage, then he had a choice. If he choses to get married, then the least he could do is to stay true to the vows he took. Otherwise, he should stay single for the rest of his life (like you plan to )

Ujujoan:

What of the ones cheating on their GFs . . . Or has the GF also turned to a baby whale?

It's wrong for you to conclude that all men who cheat are not satisfied at home . . in other words, wives are to blame for ther husband's infidlities!

As far as the man wasn't held at gun-point into the marriage, then he had a choice. If he choses to get married, then the least he could do is to stay true to the vows he took. Otherwise, he should stay single for the rest of his life (like you plan to )

coogar:

men are mostly adventurous - we want a bit of action or adrenaline rush! a relationship without some side drama can be too monotonous and boring!



he said "many men" not "all men". ujujoan, put some yeast in your rice



some men had the choice taken from their hands....a lot of men were trapped by pregnancy....against their will but had no choice cos they wanted no child out of wedlock!!!

MRbrownJAY:

sista Uju
are you now claiming that all men with GF are satisfied with whatever their GF provide?

MRbrownJAY:
and as bro Coogar stated, i said MANY men!

Vicony4real: What motivates men into going for other women outside, when they have wives at home?

free2ryhme: What motivates women into going for other men outside, when they have husband at home?

Ujujoan:
If you don't want a child out of wedluck, then wear a rubber for God's sakes!

I refuse to beleive that any man can be 'trapped' into pregnancy . . . except of course he was rap3d at gun-point! It's just a lame excuse most men use.

When you were enjoing the woman without protection, you didn't think she could get pregnant abi? mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew!

Ujujoan:
I don't know you tell me . . .
If you are not satisfied then why stay in the r/ship?

Many of those men are selfish and unreasonable.

Would it be fair if I started cheating on my hubby just cos he developed a pot belly?

Again, marriage is not by force. No need to stay in it if you are miserable . . . but that is not an excuse to cheat!

coogar:

my girlfriend reacts to rubber - so what should i do? wear cotton socks?



siddon there -
i have heard of instances where these desperate women inseminated themselves with the used condoms - true story! when a woman is desperate, she would go any length to get her man entrapped!



enjoy what? don't be naive!
women have be known to assure the men that all is good in the hood with their daily pills and implants but they are only telling porkies to get impregnated! sometimes - the number of rounds also exceed the number of condoms available.....can you beat your chest you have never had sex without protection with your boyfriend?

MRbrownJAY:

if many out there MARRY for the wrong reasons, how did you think they got there, if not by dating for the wrong reasons?
many men stay in wrong r/ship because:
- they dont want to be alone.
- they'd rather settle for a for the mean time, until they get to a 9 (or possibly 10)
- they have someone to use for sex whenever they get Hot.
- they have someone to go to if/when they want to talk to someone.
- it makes them look like "everybody else.
- its much better than being by yourself.

but these are simple guesses and i am sure there are many more other reasons.



probably but it doesnt chage the fact.



it wouldnt be fair but i would certainly UNDERSTAND why you wouldnt be sexually attracted to your partner any longer. how you decide to solve the problem will be up to you, and you only.



of course it aint, and i blame society and no one else for that.
why would a woman stay with such miserable men (when she knows he is cheating)? why is divorce so taboo? the day women are able and willing to be on their own, is the day many will live a better life.....until then, let them suffer in silence, as weak men will continue go and get the groove on with others.

also many men dont want to hurt their emotionally weak partner, so they'd rather satisfy themselves (and therefore satisfy their partner by smiling like everything was ok) instead of letting her know that she has to lose 50Kg or take it up the "back door" (aka the bootay hole).

Vicony4real: What motivates men into going for other women outside, when they have wives at home?

coogar:

my girlfriend reacts to rubber - so what should i do? wear cotton socks?

coogar:

siddon there -
i have heard of instances where these desperate women inseminated themselves with the used condoms - true story! when a woman is desperate, she would go any length to get her man entrapped!

coogar:
enjoy what? don't be naive!

Snipe...

sometimes - the number of rounds also exceed the number of condoms available.....

Snipe...snipe...

Ujujoan:
1. Wear whatver you want to wear, just keep them sp3rms out of her ovaries untill you make an honest woman out of her!

2. If a woman goes out of her way to decieve a man then that's a diffrent thing entirely. But I've known men who begs for a smoth ride only to turn and around and claim 'trapping' when the girl becomes preggers!

3. If you run out of rubbers, then keep your 'thing' in check . . . you won't die before dawn!

4. This is not about me, but about you men claiming someone trapped you with preggers!

Efemena_xy:
Now you've got me curious. What sort of reaction / allergy does she have to rubber? How does this er...reaction manifest itself?

Never knew you were W. Africa's Mr Valentino!

Ujujoan:

So if a man married/dates for the wrong reason . . . maybe out of pity or out of societal pressure, he should blame his weakness and wrong choices and not his wife.

Why then would he risk her life and those of her children through a reckless and irresponsible lifestyle!

Tell me again which is easier, sleeping around and helping your precious wife lost a few pounds.

Honey don't justify cheating . . . it's wrong for whatever reason you give!

Anywyas, I dn't blame the men . . . I blame the women who stay with cheating husbands!

coogar:

i don't think a man should sleep alone!!

why is it different? this is what happens on a daily basis especially with naija women!!

i reiterate - a man should not sleep alone!!

yeah, some men got trapped into marriage via pregnancy! that's standard!!

coogar:

people react to rubber na!

coogar: if you dunno, now you know

Efemena_xy:
No one's saying a man should sleep alone. But he should put a raincoat on it if he doesn't want the patter of tiny feet!

re: your comment about naija women, cut the crap Coogar!

The beast in you men, loves the thrill of adventure, having a brush with danger (i.e risk of pregnancy) hence the refusal to put a sheath over it.
Now talk another one make I hear jor!

Efemena_xy:
How? C'mon spill the beans...

What a randy male we've got here...

coogar:

wearing a raincoat is not 100% guarantee - a woman should get the required contraceptives and save us from this entrapment! i could wear condoms and still get a woman pregnant!

i am telling you what i see/hear. pregnancy is the major reason our youths are jumping into marriage these days. once a woman perceives her spouse is delaying his intentions, she quickly gets pregnant to speed up the process....

condoms suck!!!

MRbrownJAY:

- if a man dates/marry someone and that person doesnt satify him (but still marries her due to whatever reason) then HE should be blamed, and whatever his wife does is irrelevant.
- if a man dates /marry someone and then she changes and decide that his satisfaction isnt important then SHE should be blamed.

MRbrownJAY:


sista Uju, is he not risking HIS own life as well?! so if that kind of reckless lifestyle is good enough for him, then thats all that matters to such man, so long as he can still be "called" a happy man due to his "married" status....... but thats just a guess o!