I got married some 7 years ago and already i féel like old school .it started with what my cousin told me 2 weeks ago when her fiance gave her an ultimatum to get à job or there is no mariage.i have also heard thé same story from another couple .i just felt this is not right .To me ,it is placing économics ahead of love.My wife didnt have à job when i married her because i believed by faith that with her degree things will work out.Thank Godo today she is okay.what do you Think.Is it thé reality of our time?