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Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by 50calibre(m): 6:47am On Oct 29, 2012 |
Well as for me I wouldn't go as far as setting that as a pre-requisite for marriage but what I will do is a little scienfic probing. Before marriage talks we will have to visit a doctor for comprehensive fertility tests for both of us because the level of stupidity some girls poccess these days is alarming. Some will go as far as having abortions into double figures for riff raffs who just want to use them so I will be a fool to bear the punishment for another man's deeds. 2 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by hollandis(f): 6:48am On Oct 29, 2012 |
1.So many girls take contraceptive and do D and C 2.They lie to their man that it never happened 3.The causes of miscarriage these days is attributed to many factors ,playing with ur womb viz a viz D and C ,pills is one of the many factors 4.the statement is faulty "I think it shold read-Women that wants to get pregnant before their man can marry them" 5.The only men that have that attitude are men who are suspicious of their wives 6.women can make themselves suspect in many ways 7.Any man who doesn't have sex with a girl (against the biblical and popular bed undefiled and abstinence stuff) is just wasting his time because she is having sex with another guy 8.The only girls that are not in the number (7) category above are virgins 9.If you don't agree with any or all of the above PLS HUG A TRANSFORMER 6 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by passionate88: 6:52am On Oct 29, 2012 |
bjcole: Its almost impossible 2 come across a lady that has not abortedno b lie o... Our ladies behave like kids sometimes... If u must do it with ur bf without condom, be on the pills... It's cheaper and much more safer than D & C |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by mactoni91(m): 6:56am On Oct 29, 2012 |
bt seriously, we all knw marriage isnt a jump in and run out affair.. Its better, u take preventive measures than wallow up in a life long mess... The main objective for marriage is to bear children... A marriage without children aint worth it.. Wit d high rate of abortion and toxic drug intake by gurls is alarming.. Imagine, u wan have sex with a gurl, u bring out ya CD(she tells u tew keep em, dat she doesnt get d required/desired sensation... Wen preg shows they say its d fault of we guys... N.B, God never created any gurl infertile.. Weda we like it or nt, our past life also affects our future... Be it negative or positive... THE LAW OF KARMA EXISTS 1 Like |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Nobody: 6:59am On Oct 29, 2012 |
this is the first i am hearing pills cause infertility o!! |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by ITbomb(m): 7:00am On Oct 29, 2012 |
freecocoa: Oh well, where is the love then?Which love ? After they ve destroy theirself with D&C and pills . Make another come suffer for their reckless living. Any girl who does not agree to these terms should be shown the way out. Better than spending most of ur married life in prayer house and lab 6 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by salt1: 7:03am On Oct 29, 2012 |
bjcole: surely not this world, sometimes i wonder if all serere of d wedding worth, a woman that has seen it all. Its almost impossible 2 come across a lady that has not abortedReally? Almost impossible to come across a lady that has not aborted? You are moving with the wrong crowd. There are still many young MEN and WOMEN who marry as virgins because they fear God and respect their bodies.They believe marriage is holy and the bed undefiled. @topic, the men who give such conditions sometimes get babies that aren't theirs. Only a woman knows the real father of her child 4 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Bunchersstab(m): 7:07am On Oct 29, 2012 |
Its a gud topic. The change should start wit D ladies, the should respect their bodies. It's Not toilet that different men will gO in & come out. U dnt expect a guy 2 marry a ladies who has done abortion Like 9times. My point is we should all change |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Bunchersstab(m): 7:10am On Oct 29, 2012 |
salt 1:@ guys virgins still dey plenty.... Jst make sure u look in d right directions. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by chiefbatiatus(m): 7:14am On Oct 29, 2012 |
kiss_angel: You are too much, all nigerian women and men should listen to what you just said. Great words my dear. People are unaware that there are men who don't see children as priority at all, like myself. If am blessed with a child good, if am not then I even have the opportunity to now do my very best for the many many fatherless and suffering children in every corner of the earth. I keep saying that nigerians now get more education and less civilization. So childlessness is the end of life? What a retarded thinking. So if u had no child u wouldn't know what else to do with your life? I think very soon the line will be drawn btw actually civilised people and those going around with certificates and fine clothes 1 Like |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by sizzlers(m): 7:15am On Oct 29, 2012 |
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Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by seunfly: 7:16am On Oct 29, 2012 |
kiss_angel: my sister i disagree with your statement, yes men come but ladies determine wether they want to or not. You don't blame what ever you can control, you blame your self for failing to control it. If you know you will be messed by a man why give him chance. Sometimes i shed tears when ladies talk about doing abortion 3 times for a particular guy all in d name of love, i wonder is it love or recklessness yet you will want to blame the guy instead of the girl for allowing such thing. Men are evil but girls should resist the evil not allow it and then justify that they are evil. One thing about evil is the more you resist them the more they reduce in the society at large. Please don't get me wrong am not crusifying anybody neither am i claiming to be holy, It include us all. 5 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by divinelove(m): 7:17am On Oct 29, 2012 |
ftmom: Interesting topic, how about women that make sure they get pregnant to secure a spouse trap d man by force or quicken d marriage arrangement u mean. Kinda sealing d deal. |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by codeine123: 7:18am On Oct 29, 2012 |
Such touching stories!!!!. I think the reason why most men will want the soon to be bride to take in is because of the fear of childless marriage. They want to be 100 percent sure that the woman is fertile and can give birth to their future heirs 2 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by ifeegee(f): 7:18am On Oct 29, 2012 |
bjcole: surely not this world, sometimes i wonder if all serere of d wedding worth, a woman that has seen it all. Its almost impossible 2 come across a lady that has not abortedIts nearly impossible to see a man that has not impregnated a lady. 2 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by deshclones(m): 7:20am On Oct 29, 2012 |
jmoore: funny op.... |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Demdem(m): 7:21am On Oct 29, 2012 |
ifee-gee: Am not justifying either of the two especially if its out of wedlock but believe me, one suffers more than the other. I expect the one that suffers more to use more of his/her brain the more before it happens. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by shakur1234(m): 7:23am On Oct 29, 2012 |
no guy want to wait after marriage without an issue.i think guys with such issues have their reasons.shikenna |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by ceejay80s(m): 7:29am On Oct 29, 2012 |
@topic Yoruba men, na their hand work |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Nobody: 7:31am On Oct 29, 2012 |
kiss_angel:nne itz like u ar infertile dz one u ar gingering like dz or itz like u ar topping d chart for abortions cos itz like d thing dey mimikwu u 4 bones. Nawa ooo |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Bright2(m): 7:31am On Oct 29, 2012 |
The only reason i needed to get married is just for my own baby making otherwise,i won't! just look around the world today & put your self in the shoe of those men.When the lady knew she's not capable & yet insist she could. 1 Like |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Burger01(m): 7:34am On Oct 29, 2012 |
@OP, don't say it's disrespectful. This could be attributed to culture or family lineage. what of women who would like to ascertain their partners capability in any form before marriage? If it's okay by the partners to go with pregnant before marriage then I don't think anything is wrong with that on the surface. |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by divinelove(m): 7:35am On Oct 29, 2012 |
There is no guarantee runs girls too many these days, i think comprehensive medical tests and going for young decent girls less than 25yrs might help issues of worry here. I ve seen where ladies wed wit preg n then ve miscarriage n neva got preg again but mainly advanced ladies. Any gal 35 u don carry am b dt even if she is a virgin becoz she is running out on eggs, anyway miracles n adoption dey sha. |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Burger01(m): 7:38am On Oct 29, 2012 |
chief batiatus: Are you a Nigerian? OK, are you an African? |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by lolaluv1(f): 7:42am On Oct 29, 2012 |
ceejay80s: @topic Yoruba men, na their hand work This is so true! But it is not limited to Yoruba men alone. Men from other tribes are also known to do it. The Hausas and fulanis are the ones that can be exempted to an extent. |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by tobechi74: 7:42am On Oct 29, 2012 |
drnoel: clears throat and looks around..... gives her tomtom |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Nobody: 7:43am On Oct 29, 2012 |
Truckpusher: Such men usually end fathering children that are not their biological child due to the high level of promiscuity amongst our people these days and the agony that follows outweighs the stupid idea itself.I really thank God for the kind of mind He gave me and how am using it to help humanity. I can only father a child dat is not mine ie if I want to not dat my wife hid the truth from me cos wen any of my kid is born, she wouldn't know I've already done a dna test and if ie not my own baby na from dat labour room she go follow waka dey go on holiday to wereva she belongs. Not every one is stupid |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by nuelobi(m): 7:47am On Oct 29, 2012 |
i gues it all boils down 2 serving as a warning 2both parties dt u cnt eat ur cake n hv it. A guy who endegeard a gurls lif som yrs bk thru series of abortn she tuk 4hm wuld one day bcom anoda man's wife,den y shud u be scared wen such a gurl com acros u 4mariag dt u nw wnt 'a tast' b4 aceptin her? Wat morals r we passing dwn 2our unborn childrn? Cn we confidently sit our kids n gv den such an awkward advs of hvn a 'taste' b4 sayn yes?...i tink our society has a biga issue 2deal with...wat a generatn dt we r breedin...may God help us! |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Rooneyboy(m): 7:53am On Oct 29, 2012 |
But I really do feel for ladies o. Especially those u know were extremely good before marriage and yet still have serious challenges conceiving when they get married. I know a few of them that are presently sailing on this boat @ the moment. Its really heart breaking seeing good ladies go through challenges they shouldn't go through. 2 Likes |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by Nobody: 7:56am On Oct 29, 2012 |
i hope this is the advice these men will give their sisters and daughters. |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by dabrake(m): 7:58am On Oct 29, 2012 |
So i should wait for 15years before having a child? Mtchew. Will rather adopt. |
Re: Men That Want Their Women Pregnant Before They Can Marry by newmaonza: 8:01am On Oct 29, 2012 |
jmoore: You may have heard of men that want their women pregnant before they can go ahead with the wedding, that is a very disrespectful. That man no well..... Something is definitely wrong with him, Guyz no let ladies turn u MUGU, DO WHAT YOUR BALLS TELL U, IT HAS NEVER FAILED ME |
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