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Sorry love. U can always cry on my shoulder. Look on the brighter side, " a broken relattionship is the Universe' way of telling u that there's a better and hotter person out there".

Thanks so much kitty, wil hold unto your words

its well my darling. u will be fine definitely and u will soon meet a wonderful and more agreeable person. its always like that.

kitty kat: Sorry love. U can always cry on my shoulder. Look on the brighter side, " a broken relattionship is the Universe' way of telling u that there's a better and hotter person out there".

u re ryt ma dear..v been on dat same path b4 n i know ow it fils..@op dis phase of lyf is jes 4a while...beta tins r cominq ur way ok..pls b stronq

Staging a hangover is not going to help. The solution lies in question, where did u go wrong. Frm a guys point of view, most ladies forget, I mean d way it all started.
Heartbreak is part of falling in love.
Kitty kat is rite

But alway remember. plz

Yeah,this is not the period to think abt where u went wrong though. Its also not the period to fall in love aggain so that u don't make d next guy a rebound. Allo urself to feel the pain. Cry as much as you want to. Cry till the tears are dry. Talk to any close friend that will listen. Empty ur mind of all d neggativity abt the relationship. It can take 2weeks to 6months for some ppl. It just depends on how long and serious the releationship was. Never ever try to suppress the feelings. Get it all out.

Also try and accept that its over. You will have more peace if you do this. It would also help you to have a better perspective.


When you are done mourninG, then you take an objective look of the ended releationship. Now ur head is no more clouded with intense emotions and u can think properly. Try to reason, if possible with anyone who as close about what you think caused the relationship to end. Outline ways of improving yourself cos of course u would have had some faults.

Then define the kind of person and kind of relationship you want to have. No need to fixate on a person. If possible, write it down. Be very positive, eg; instead of saying I don't want an unfaithful man, say, I want a very faithful man. Instead of saying I don't want an abuser, say I want a chilvarous man, who wwill respect and treat me like a queen. Read your write-ups everyday. Tell urself that you will meet him soon. Blv it. Soon u will see the exact person walkin into ur life. Pls don't even doubt for a moment that it will happen.


It worked for me. U can always contact me for encouragement and support.