Pls what should I do - I met a lady recently, let's call her AS - she invited me to her house for her birthday, I arrived at her place thinking that it was a birthday party but on arriving I realized that I was to spend time alone with her. We talked and made love, the problem now is that - since I left her house, she has refused to call me, text me, she has also blocked me off from facebook, I'm not sure why. I left her screaming in pleasure and took her shopping. I'm not sure what I did wrong but

I just can't stop thinking about her - pls advice me on how to deal with this situation.

Thx friends

It's either she needed servicing which you gladly did or she is feeling guilty of sleeping with someone she hardly know too well.

In any case, I suggest You move on with your life if she is not ready to relate with you anymore.

Hope you used a condom

Go back to her house and find out why abi?
Perhaps she's just acting up, you didn't spend as she expected on the said shopping or you weren't man enough in bed . . .

Btw, did you call or text her?or you think that just cos you made her moan, she'll come running back to you?

obowunmi: Pls what should I do - I met a lady recently, let's call her AS - she invited me to her house for her birthday, I arrived at her place thinking that it was a birthday party but on arriving I realized that I was to spend time alone with her. We talked and made love, the problem now is that - since I left her house, she has refused to call me, text me, she has also blocked me off from facebook, I'm not sure why. I left her screaming in pleasure and took her shopping. I'm not sure what I did wrong but

I just can't stop thinking about her - pls advice me on how to deal with this situation.

Thx friends

where have you kept our real Obowunmi?

You served your purpose and she has moved on.

Guys have this myth that women must be in love with you to sleep with you.lol. Well now, you know better.

Maybe you have created this image of yourself. You use and dump girls, but are generous. She wanted a taste and that was it.

How does it feel to be used and dumped though? I wonder why you would take her shopping after the deed. Looks like an ashawo payment for someone you are not dating. A birthday present would have been ideal in this case. There is such a thing as a guy rushing a relationship, it is a turn off sometimes.

U never hear of s3x without conditions.
Abi na compensation u dey find?
Free the woman joor.

You have been OFFICIALLY used and DUMPED

baby_123: You served your purpose and she has moved on.

Guys have this myth that women must be in love with you to sleep with you.lol. Well now, you know better.

Maybe you have created this image of yourself. You use and dump girls, but are generous. She wanted a taste and that was it.

How does it feel to be used and dumped though? I wonder why you would take her shopping after the deed. Looks like an ashawo payment for someone you are not dating. A birthday present would have been ideal in this case. There is such a thing as a guy rushing a relationship, it is a turn off sometimes.

I wasn't looking for a relationship - we could have still been friends or sexxx buddies. Didn't know that she would just cut me off like that - for no apparent reason. Its a bit too harsh.

Are you not that trust fund guy that crashes in his parents crib and got knocked by his dad, if I recalled right?

obowunmi:

I wasn't looking for a relationship - we could have still been friends or sexxx buddies. Didn't know that she would just cut me off like that - for no apparent reason. Its a bit too harsh.

If I were to judge you by your username alone! I wonder what you are notorious for outside.lmao. Well she wanted a day with you as a birthday present and true to your name, you answered the call. . You think she doesn't know that you are not a serious guy? What better way for her to dump you or for you to dump her and add her as a notch in your belt. . As she has dumped you now, am not sure you will be too eager to boast about her to your friends or even try to think about the experience. I think you are just mad you were not the dumper. Well, life goes on. Act fast next time.

jidegirl12: Are you not that trust fund guy that crashes in his parents crib and got knocked by his dad, if I recalled right?

Erm, will it be ok to say yes? :/

baby_123:

If I were to judge you by your username alone! I wonder what you are notorious for outside.lmao. Well she wanted a day with you as a birthday present and true to your name, you answered the call. . You think she doesn't know that you are not a serious guy? What better way for her to dump you or for you to dump her and add her as a notch in your belt. . As she has dumped you now, am not sure you will be too eager to boast about her to your friends or even try to think about the experience. I think you are just mad you were not the dumper. Well, life goes on. Act fast next time.

Omo, you're mean oo..

obowunmi: I left her screaming in pleasure

Are you sure? My first guess would be that you didn't quite do it for her.....Maybe she just can't get over the disappointment

^^ Lol!

Na wa for this thread o!

@poster, just move on abeg, and forget the whole issue.

ileobatojo:

Are you sure? My first guess would be that you didn't quite do it for her.....Maybe she just can't get over the disappointment

She was also good in bed. Doubt she was disappointed.

chaircover: obowunmi wont kill me this sunday afternoon

[s]Why are you bothered? I thought that is what guys did all the time [/s]

madam, glad that I can make you laugh. Happy New Year!

Odunnu:
where have you kept our real Obowunmi?

who is the FAKE obowunmi

^^ Just wondering...did you finally manage to get yourself to stop thinking?

About the lady, I mean...

I had to...what choice do I have? I can't force her to be with me.

Awww....

Jeezzzzzz get busy buddy !

Look for another lady sir

^^ Shuo!!

guy what's that??!!

obowunmi: Pls what should I do - I met a lady recently, let's call her AS - she invited me to her house for her birthday, I arrived at her place thinking that it was a birthday party but on arriving I realized that I was to spend time alone with her. We talked and made love, the problem now is that - since I left her house, she has refused to call me, text me, she has also blocked me off from facebook, I'm not sure why. I left her screaming in pleasure and took her shopping. I'm not sure what I did wrong but

I just can't stop thinking about her - pls advice me on how to deal with this situation.

Thx friends

It's called buyer's remorse
You see a piece of jewelry on a shopping network,you are so happy,you want one,you order it
Then a few minutes later the euphoria wears off,you wish you didn't

Baby mama:

It's called buyer's remorse
You see a piece of jewelry on a shopping network,you are so happy,you want one,you order it
Then a few minutes later the euphoria wears off,[size=28pt]you wish you didn't[/size]

Madam Engrish, take it slow

jidegirl12: Jeezzzzzz get busy buddy !

Ugly girl please stop stalking me around the forum.

I refuse to be rude to your family cos I presumed you're the only knucklehead slash irresponsible slash oponu in that family...

Me stalk you?...that has been your fantasy all your adolescent years till now .. you wish to be stalked that I know for sure.. omo olę...be responsible for once and MAYBE good girls will reconsider you and forgive your st upidity!

I forbid you whatever wunmi you call yourself...omokomo

Grow up Already !!!!!

Barley soup and salmon sandwich yumm?

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jidegirl12: I refuse to be rude to your family cos I presumed you're the only knucklehead slash irresponsible slash oponu in that family...

Me stalk you?...that has been your fantasy all your adolescent years till now .. you wish to be stalked that I know for sure.. omo olę...be responsible for once and MAYBE good girls will reconsider you and forgive your st upidity!

I forbid you whatever wunmi you call yourself...omokomo

Grow up Already !!!!!

Barley soup and salmon sandwich yumm?

Chei
Some people get the gift of bad mouth o

Baby mama:

Chei
Some people get the gift of bad mouth o

she sounds like a local madwoman.