honey86: I use to think I could do it. But ask me the same question now and its a big No unless its family. Going through pregnancy has made me seen the light, sorry if I offend anybody.

Actually, I don't even think @OP's example given here is a real surrogacy case.

Asking a young unmarried girl to get seeded by an older married man and then give up her baby to the man and his wife smacks of self-conceit, I'm sorry to say. The man should simply go get a second wife or divorce his wife if she can't bear to have a man take on a mate (new wife).

The situation would be more acceptable (my opinion), if the wife's egg is fertilized by the husband's sp.er.m externally then implanted via IVF into the surrogate mother. Now that's what I call real surrogacy.

Not a couple of Nigerian, Mgbeke wanna-be-oyinbo's feeling funky, trying to mess up a young girl's life.

I wont support such but then the surrogate will finally decides

Efemena_xy:

Actually, I don't even think @OP's example given here is a real surrogacy case.

Asking a young unmarried girl to get seeded by an older married man and then give up her baby to the man and his wife smacks of self-conceit, I'm sorry to say. The man should simply go get a second wife or divorce his wife if she can't bear to have a man take on a mate (new wife).

The situation would be more acceptable (my opinion), if the wife's egg is fertilized by the husband's sp.er.m externally then implanted via IVF into the surrogate mother. Now that's what I call real surrogacy.

Not a couple of Nigerian, Mgbeke wanna-be-oyinbo's feeling funky, trying to mess up a young girl's life.

But there's no one way to Rome. while IVF is most common abroad, where there's advanced medical fertility centers, it may only be affordable by the super-wealthy in Nigeria because the technology is not yet in Federal Medical Centers (FMCs) funded by the federal government, normally used by the lower and middle class. So this type I mentioned is what is very common in Nigeria irrespective of the financial status of the family. well, the catch is to convince a wife to permit her hubby to sleep with another lady to achieve that. Between that and her hubby divorcing her, or taking another wife, or even fathering kids elsewhere without her knowledge, you bet which is more acceptable.

^^ But that's exactly my point.

The man sleeping with another woman with the aim to father kids with her isn't surrogacy, is it?

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