Permit me if this topic has been treated before, just want to know if someone ever felt the same way at one time or the other. Before getting married, i resolved never to beat my wife, and i have been keeping to that. I must say that it has not been easy, sometimes she will get into my nerves, i hate it when she argues with me blindly such that i feel like beating her. Does anyone feel the same way, and how do you handle it?

If she argues with you and gets into your nerve there are various ways of dealing with the situation rather than contemplating or resorting to beat her. You can always walk away you know? You shouldn't let her turn you into something you're not(wife beater)
Remember, a woman always has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after, that is the beginning of a new argument.

Ignore and tolerate her,u guys are now one flesh. can u allow sum one hit ur wife outside? When ever she starts, is better to leave the room or her presence.

And rmember dont say anytin,bcoz when ur angry u might say what u dont mean,so is better u keep mute, it'll not be easy but TRY!!