It is what you put your mind into that will happen to you. If you put yur mind into being with a person for ever, its possible, just by making constant effort to make yourself happy will do, even though, sometimes, it may be boring, but it can become lively again, if we put our mind into making ourselves happy, may God help us all.

Monogamy is a foolish white man's fantasy, in reality, monogamy is not the nature of the beast, it was never designed to be that way. I hate it

Happiness is a thing of the mind.if u aren't happy with urself then u can't be with another person.speaking from the marriage perspective,deciding to spend the rest of ur life with someone isn't a joke. There r times of pain,sorrow,challenges and sometimes regret. But if u ve made up ur mind to be happy my dear,even in the midst of all mixed feelings there r memories u wud always smile and giggle about. Marriage isn't all about sex,most happy couples can't even say hw much they have it.but thinking abt not having money to buy breakfast,stepping over baby poo,drinking from the fountain of baby wee,silly questions and xperience we go through and the priviledge of holding that special one at night while sleeping satisfies it all. I don't know abt the rest,but it is a virtue to be able to find happiness with one person all ones married life despite all the facets of life.reality check:it aint easy.but u cud make it worth it.

We work at the same place, doing the came job for the most of our working years . . . and suddenly it's outrageous to marry the same person forever!
SMH!

masterpiecer: My girlfriend of 6yrs still gives me d chills like she is a new 'catch' whenever we r together cant even imagine my life without her, if i were to have a second life time, i wil stil go after her, 4ever even seem short to spend with her

Ur girl is indeed lucky to have you. Awwww.wish I had someone like you,she had better hold you tight

monalicious:
Ur girl is indeed lucky to have you. Awwww.wish I had someone like you,she had better hold you tight

oh really?, hold me tight like rubbing glue on her hands? lol

. . . And who says my happiness is based on ANYONE? Waaaaaaaaaaay too emotionally independent for all that o!
Sorry, my associations with others are just EXTRAS. . . I was born happy. . . regardless of who comes and goes out of my life!

Men are just necessary evils which I CAN DO WITHOUT! Of course I DON'T HANG AROUND FEMALES. . . SO OURRA THE QUESTION.

Unfortunately, the less I care. . . THE MORE I AM PURSUED, SPOILED AND LOVED BY THEM! BECAUSE THEY KNOW I FRANKLY COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THEIR RUBBISH. . . . .

Sometimes I wonder who is cursed. . . me or them!

@poster,why the thought of poisoning or strangling?why not the thought of calling for divorce if u feel u are tired?u most be a nuisance who does not know the meaning of marriage,and marriage is not for the generation of people like you,so she deserves to die for u not to be boring only?will she come back to this world again after strangling her?no,so this is what she deserves for choosing to love u among all the suitors she had,think about it,lastly it might be ur wife that gets tired of u first,do u pray that she prepares ur food with poison,I know u rather want her to ask u for divorce.