What's with back and forth when OP is down there as a guest

OP where do you reside?

jidegirl12: What's with back and forth when OP is down there as a guest

OP where do you reside?

What difference does it really make where the OP lives?

jidegirl12: Have you heard?.... Kobi Bryant and his biatch reconciled? There's nothing impossible o!!!

Hahahahaha! I have heard o! We keep hearing! Na so so hear hear!

I imagine a woman that refuses to talk to her own family in Nigeria or even her cousin will all of a sudden start telling her about her lovers. Anyhow sha.

baby_123:
Hahahahaha! I have heard o! We keep hearing! Na so so hear hear!

I imagine a woman that refuses to talk to her own family in Nigeria or even her cousin will all of a sudden start telling her about her lovers. Anyhow sha.

commot for hia!!

Have you also Heard? They're trading that use less Dwight Howard from Lakers thank Gawd!!!

baby_123:
Hahahahaha! I have heard o! We keep hearing! Na so so hear hear!

I imagine a woman that refuses to talk to her own family in Nigeria or even her cousin will all of a sudden start telling her about her lovers. Anyhow sha.

Cognitive dissonance. I guess we have now turned to accusing the OP of lying.

jidegirl12:

commot for hia!!

Have you also Heard? They're trading that use less Dwight Howard from Lakers thank Gawd!!!

Have you heard that the sky is blue? Have you also heard that nurses wear pant? Or maybe not! Iish! I only care about Kobe though. Not a basketball fan except during finals.

davidylan:

Cognitive dissonance. I guess we have now turned to accusing the OP of lying.

Not saying she is lying, only really doubt if she truly lives in the US. So many things she has said shows she is not fully aware from both parties what is truly going on. Only looks like the husband is opening up. Now, I won't bother arguing with you as you can't argue without being insulting. Not like that will change the direction or my view. I would just rather not argue with someone that loses it when they don't get their way.

baby_123:

Not saying she is lying, only really doubt if she truly lives in the US. So many things she has said shows she is not fully aware from both parties what is truly going on. Only looks like the husband is opening up. Now, I won't bother arguing with you as you can't argue without being insulting. Not like that will change the direction or my view. I would just rather not argue with someone that loses it when they don't get their way.

Go back and read your own posts ma'am. You just described yourself. Hindsight is always 20/20. We all enjoy having the privilege of insulting others but then shed crocodile tears once we get a dose of our own medicine. If in doubt please read YOUR OWN response to bjcole on page 8 (first post on that page).

OP, why did they get divorced?

Also after divorce and getting full custody with child support payments, why did she continue to make reports about him? What more did she stand to gain?

baby 123 just admit you made a mistake n step down

Op lives in the US/Nigeria which i know from her post history

She is speaking based on first hand information

Ladies here are just supporting the women folk

Step down from where biola? Are we betting now?

Can you please quote where you gathered your deductions that OP lives in the US of A

jidegirl12: Step down from where biola? Are we betting now?

Can you please quote where you gathered your deductions that OP lives in the US of A

The OP has less than 30 posts total on NL. Take the time to read them, it is obvious she lives in the USA.

davidylan:

The OP has less than 30 posts total on NL. Take the time to read them, it is obvious she lives in the USA.

Wow Davido you counted them? This must have been a sensitive issue for you

biolabee:
Ladies here are just supporting the women folk

Not sure where you got this from. I dont believe a single woman who has taken the story at face value has supported the woman.

it's embarrassing that the ladies on this thread are holding a brief for the cheating wife. she has kicked her husband out of the house, she has cheated and she claims child support stipend from the husband every month and yet this odious witch of a woman is blameless?

jidegirl12:

Wow Davido you counted them? This must have been a sensitive issue for you

Nah, i just like to make sure i understand an issue thoroughly before making conclusions based on a series of half-baked lies and nonsensical opinions. Baby 123 should be ashamed of herself... it doesnt take that long to do a quick check on an issue before clicking "submit".

Oh and for the record, if you click the OP's profile, there is a post counter there. You dont need to do a manual count.

coogar: it's embarrassing that the ladies on this thread are holding a brief for the cheating wife. she has kicked her husband out of the house, she has cheated and she claims child support stipend from the husband every month and yet this odious witch of a woman is blameless?

Evidence?

jidegirl12:

Wow Davido you counted them? This must have been a sensitive issue for you

Very sensitive issue. OP keeps hearing. 75% of her posts are about nurses in the USA. She has known the couple from day one, but been in the USA for 5yrs(I checked her history now), but the couple has a 7 and a 10yr old. Where was she the other 5yrs? I wrote based on what the OP wrote here. I am not one to start looking at each thread starters history. The fact remains her story seems one-sided, as it seems only the husband is opening up to her. Chikena.

coogar: it's embarrassing that the ladies on this thread are holding a brief for the cheating wife. she has kicked her husband out of the house, she has cheated and she claims child support stipend from the husband every month and yet this odious witch of a woman is blameless?

Quote where any one held brief for her.

ileobatojo:
Evidence?

baby_123:
Quote where any one held brief for her.

read between the lines......you have gone from doubting the op's story to having second thoughts whether she really stays in america and blah blah blah. if the roles are reversed, i know you people would cursing the man till kingdom come. some have even said the man has not done enough to bond with the kids since his restraining order......a bit of perspective, please!

coogar:



read between the lines......you have gone from doubting the op's story to having second thoughts whether she really stays in america and blah blah blah. if the roles are reversed, i know you people would cursing the man till kingdom come. some have even said the man has not done enough to bond with the kids since his restraining order......a bit of perspective, please!

Shall we take every post at face value? Especially a 3rd persons account? There is always the husbands side, the wives side and the truth. We have heard mostly the husband's side. No one is doubting her story, but there are things in it that raise questions. If there are questions, then we should be free to ask and OP should come and make the situation clearer. You don't ignore the obvious to make a point.

baby_123:

Shall we take every post at face value? Especially a 3rd persons account? There is always the husbands side, the wives side and the truth. We have heard mostly the husband's side. No one is doubting her story, but there are things in it that raise questions. If there are questions, then we should be free to ask and OP should come and make the situation clearer. You don't ignore the obvious to make a point.

except that you and others take it at face value when the villain is a guy!

coogar:

except that you and others take it at face value when the villain is a guy!

That's not true coogar, and you know it.

coogar:



read between the lines......you have gone from doubting the op's story to having second thoughts whether she really stays in america and blah blah blah. if the roles are reversed, i know you people would cursing the man till kingdom come. some have even said the man has not done enough to bond with the kids since his restraining order......a bit of perspective, please!

In other words you have no evidence?

Can you stop trying put a false spin the discussion then? The main argument for the bulk of this thread was whether it was ok for the man to stop trying to see his children with both sides putting forth their argument. All the while not a single woman supported the wife.

The fact that some are now trying to address holes in the story doesn't mean support for cheating or frivolous accusations on the woman's part. Abeg!

I guess OP disappeared into a thin air.....this thread is getting ridiculous without OP stating where she lives.

ileobatojo:

In other words you have no evidence?

Can you stop trying put a false spin the discussion then? The main argument for the bulk of this thread was whether it was ok for the man to stop trying to see his children with both sides putting forth their argument. All the while not a single woman supported the wife.

The fact that some are now trying to address holes in the story doesn't mean support for cheating or frivolous accusations on the woman's part. Abeg!

the "holes" being?

jidegirl12: I guess OP disappeared into a thin air.....this thread is getting ridiculous without OP stating where she lives.

you are being ridiculous. Read her previous posts... she does live in the US.
Anyone with 2 brain cells could have figured that out 2 yrs ago.

davidylan:

you are being ridiculous. Read her previous posts... she does live in the US.
Anyone with 2 brain cells could have figured that out 2 yrs ago.

Okay Davido .... I thot we just clicked 2013 2yrs ago kę ?

Just quote it for us to see... simple ! Is that too much to ask? chairman.

davidylan:

the "holes" being?

For starters.

ileobatojo: OP, why did they get divorced?

Also after divorce and getting full custody with child support payments, why did she continue to make reports about him? What more did she stand to gain?

baby_123:
That's not true coogar, and you know it.

that's the norm in this part of the forum.

ileobatojo:
In other words you have no evidence?

the evidence is everywhere...

Can you stop trying put a false spin the discussion then?

goodness gracious....
you didn't even wait for me to answer the question before concluding i am putting a spin on the discussion. the man is the one getting hammered here and not the odious wife who kicked him out and placed a restraining order against him.

The main argument for the bulk of this thread was whether it was ok for the man to stop trying to see his children with both sides putting forth their argument. All the while not a single woman supported the wife.

of course - he should break the curfew of the restraining order on him so he can then go to jail. what a groundbreaking idea from mama biology herself. at this rate, you would soon discover a simple solution to the AIDS scourge.

The fact that some are now trying to address holes in the story doesn't mean support for cheating or frivolous accusations on the woman's part. Abeg!

which holes?
i see that as a way of deflecting the attention on the woman to some insignificant point. whether the poster stays in america or new zealand is irrelevant......that line of argument is inconsequential to the problem at hand. in the man's shoes, what would you have done?

jidegirl12:

Okay Davido .... I thot we just clicked 2013 2yrs ago kę ?

Just quote it for us to see... simple ! Is that too much to ask? chairman.

I believe you can read... thanks for not letting me think otherwise.
Like coogar stated, where the OP lives is beside the point and a warrantless diversion by those who have seen their own arguments crumble under the weight of facts.

ileobatojo:

For starters.

sorry but i fail to see how that is a "hole". It is fairly common that women use children and the threat of police accusations in contentious divorce and child support cases. What she stood to gain? Preventing her husband from having any form of visitation rights whatsoever. That much is clear that i wonder how you fail to see it.