Step 1: Listen to what she has to say all the time (even if you don't agree). Hear her out, and then make a point either for or against what she has said. When you don't agree, be polite. Name calling and put downs only make you look like a jerk. Step 2: Don't go on and on about topics you know bore her. Some talk is ok, but keep it under 30 minutes at any one time. Step 3: If she's not in the mood for intimacy, don't press the issue. This statement can be applied to any number of situations, and it is always good to respect her. Step 4: Be honest, respectful, and loyal. Step 5: Be well groomed and use good manners. This is especially important when you are with her family. Step 6: Never forget an important date. You can set up email reminders to help you out. The gesture doesn't have to be grand (e.g. - an e-card or verbal mention) as long as you remember. Step 7: When you go out don't complain about prices. If you can't afford to go out, plan a date in. Step 8: Don't brag to your friends about your "prowess". Conversely, don't talk about problems between you to others before you talk to her. Both will hurt her. Step 9: Accept her for who she is. Step 10: If you choose to end things, do it in person. By phone is only ok, if you are long distance email and text message/facebook/instant messenger are never ok.