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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by r231(m): 10:00pm On Mar 31, 2013
maclatunji: Beware of oral cancer.

Here we go again undecided
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:16pm On Mar 31, 2013
r231:

Here we go again undecided

Is it a lie?
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Mar 31, 2013
maclatunji:

Is it a lie?
yes.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by r231(m): 10:20pm On Mar 31, 2013
maclatunji:

Is it a lie?

Of cus it's a lie grin
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by armyofone(m): 10:29pm On Mar 31, 2013
I only do lollipop and cone ice cream. I don't know what you are talking about.
tongue

coogar:

i knew armyofone would be one amazing headmistress....
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:31pm On Mar 31, 2013
Just to let people know the risk attached. Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures and cancers are becoming more prevalent because of rapid and radical changes in lifestyle.

Make person no go get awful disease because of oral sexual gratification when there are safer alternatives. It is a mindset and can be dropped.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by coogar: 10:33pm On Mar 31, 2013
armyofone: I only do lollipop and cone ice cream. I don't know what you are talking about.
tongue

you forgot to include banana
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:35pm On Mar 31, 2013
brokoto: yes.

Just google 'MouthAction causes' so that it won't be a skewed search and see what comes up.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:37pm On Mar 31, 2013
maclatunji:

Just google 'MouthAction causes' so that it won't be a skewed search and see what comes up.

I typed 'Oral #ex' not 'MouthAction'. Word filter behave yourself.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by A40(m): 11:15pm On Mar 31, 2013
maclatunji: Just to let people know the risk attached. Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures and cancers are becoming more prevalent because of rapid and radical changes in lifestyle.

Make person no go get awful disease because of oral sexual gratification when there are safer alternatives. It is a mindset and can be dropped.
Na something go still kill person! Besides most of these old wives tales are yet to be substantiated
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 31, 2013
maclatunji:

Just google 'MouthAction causes' so that it won't be a skewed search and see what comes up.
stop spreading half truths ok? Oral intimacy. Does not pose any where near as much risk as normal sex when done irresponsibly.
"While MouthAction does seem to increase the risk
of oral cancer, you simply can’t live your
life constantly afraid of what might
happen. If you do, you might as well die
now. Remember, every time you get in
a car, you take the risk that you might
die in a car crash. In fact, more than
40,000 people die in car accidents
every year in the US alone (way more
than the number of people who die
from oral cancers). So if you’re going to
stop enjoying MouthAction, you better also
start walking to work. Life is full of risk.
You can turn yourself into a jittery little
neuron terrified of every itty bitty thing
that could go wrong, or you can
empower yourself, get educated, make
mindful choices, and then let it go."
Source: www.care2.com/greenliving/oral-sex-causes-oral-cancerbut-dont-wig-out.html#13647677705681&action=collapse_widget&id=566755

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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by sunnyt1(m): 11:22pm On Mar 31, 2013
fresh_dude: In the same vein, if she likes head and he doesn't oblige her, she's free to seek it outside her home? Bros, please, tomorrow is Good Friday, don't let me speak unholy words towards you today. Stay blessed.

Sorry sir . . . . . . . . dats all
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 7:24am On Apr 01, 2013
A-40:

Na something go still kill person! Besides most of these old wives tales are yet to be substantiated

It is ironic that when people with this outlook to life fall gravely ill, they start looking for help from other people instead of waiting to die patiently.

My philosophy to life is: 'Don't cause problems for yourself by your own actions.' There are so many ways to enjoy sex, I think avoiding one that poses such a risk is only reasonable. The people who do the research are not scaremongers, it is a clear trend that has been observed.

The choice is for each individual to make.

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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 7:56am On Apr 01, 2013
maclatunji: Just to let people know the risk attached. Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures and cancers are becoming more prevalent because of rapid and radical changes in lifestyle.

Make person no go get awful disease because of oral sexual gratification when there are safer alternatives. It is a mindset and can be dropped.

Blowjo-bs are a new thing among many cultures? We hear you, oga missionary.

I heard doing it from behind can make the willy fall off

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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by A40(m): 8:25am On Apr 01, 2013
maclatunji:

It is ironic that when people with this outlook to life fall gravely ill, they start looking for help from other people instead of waiting to die patiently.

My philosophy to life is: 'Don't cause problems for yourself by your own actions.' There are so many ways to enjoy sex, I think avoiding one that poses such a risk is only reasonable. The people who do the research are not scaremongers, it is a clear trend that has been observed.

The choice is for each individual to make.

The natural instinct is not to want to die but when its ur time to go there's really nothing you can do about it! So yes na something go still kill person

But this thing you are even propagating is not a substantiated fact! Hence the use of the word 'may' please don't make it seem like its a definitive outcome for anyone that indulges in such habits because that is not the case
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by r231(m): 8:31am On Apr 01, 2013
oyb:

Blowjo-bs are a new thing among many cultures? We hear you, oga missionary.

I heard doing it from behind can make the willy fall off

grin grin cheesy grin

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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Obinoscopy(m): 9:07am On Apr 01, 2013
Its always good to try out new stuffs with ur spouse wink

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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by chuksme(m): 10:49am On Apr 01, 2013
Some ignorant people should not come here to broadcast false message. There is nothing like cancer in a healthy MouthAction between two healthy partner. We don't want to hear these olden age stories without prove
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Apr 01, 2013
maclatunji:

It is ironic that when people with this outlook to life fall gravely ill, they start looking for help from other people instead of waiting to die patiently.

My philosophy to life is: 'Don't cause problems for yourself by your own actions.' There are so many ways to enjoy sex, I think avoiding one that poses such a risk is only reasonable. The people who do the research are not scaremongers, it is a clear trend that has been observed.

The choice is for each individual to make.

LOL serious hyper LOL.
Well to each their own. Please if you don't like getting/giving head, just fem your mouth dia and live your life like dat.
#teamBoringSex ppl seem to like creating bogus nonsense just to justify your uncreative sexual preferences. smiley
So tell me what act of #teamBoringSex you people do that itself not carries risk?

Understand what it is you even want to use as an excuse to not please your wives/husbands.
It does not CAUSE it, it SPREADS it. Just like even #teamBoringSex missionary SPREADS other things I'm sure you are aware of. Besides, just like you have condoms, there are also dental dams....but that should not even be needed if you are doing this to your WIFEY/HUBBY. undecided You shouldn't be giving random strangers head. Ewww. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Who knows what rot infested hole/pole they yanshed the night before? undecided
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:06pm On Apr 01, 2013
oyb:

Blowjo-bs are a new thing among many cultures? We hear you, oga missionary.

I heard doing it from behind can make the willy fall off

Go to any rural settlement with little exposure to modernity in Nigeria and suggest it to them, let us know your findings.

As prevalent as kissing is now. How many of our Greatgrand parents kissed?
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:11pm On Apr 01, 2013
2buff:

LOL serious hyper LOL.
Well to each their own. Please if you don't like getting/giving head, just fem your mouth dia and live your life like dat.
#teamBoringSex ppl seem to like creating bogus nonsense just to justify your uncreative sexual preferences. smiley
So tell me what act of #teamBoringSex you people do that itself not carries risk?

Understand what it is you even want to use as an excuse to not please your wives/husbands.
It does not CAUSE it, it SPREADS it. Just like even #teamBoringSex missionary SPREADS other things I'm sure you are aware of. Besides, just like you have condoms, there are also dental dams....but that should not even be needed if you are doing this to your WIFEY/HUBBY. undecided You shouldn't be giving random strangers head. Ewww. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Who knows what rot infested hole/pole they yanshed the night before? undecided

Apologies but your post is not so insightful. Out of practically hundreds of thousands of ways of having sex, oral counts for like 99% abi? That is why you would infer that not having oral means not having any other method.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:16pm On Apr 01, 2013
chuksme: Some ignorant people should not come here to broadcast false message. There is nothing like cancer in a healthy MouthAction between two healthy partner. We don't want to hear these olden age stories without prove

You are one funny dude. Wetin be my own? Na your mouth now. #LOL.

My posts are for people who might not understand the risks associated with it. Not for people who might not be able to think beyond sex.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Apr 01, 2013
maclatunji:

Go to any rural settlement with little exposure to modernity in Nigeria and suggest it to them, let us know your findings.

As prevalent as kissing is now. How many of our Greatgrand parents kissed?


i guess mac is the 'mama bomboy, prepare yaself' kind of guy cheesy.

Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures

this is what you said - shifting the goalpost now are we?

maclatunji:

You are one funny dude. Wetin be my own? Na your mouth now. #LOL.

My posts are for people who might not understand the risks associated with it. Not for people who might not be able to think beyond sex.

oga who can think beyond sex, please let us ignorami know about how MouthAction causes cancer - we learn something new everyday, after all.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:22pm On Apr 01, 2013
A-40:


The natural instinct is not to want to die but when its ur time to go there's really nothing you can do about it! So yes na something go still kill person

But this thing you are even propagating is not a substantiated fact! Hence the use of the word 'may' please don't make it seem like its a definitive outcome for anyone that indulges in such habits because that is not the case

There was a time when scientists weren't sure why HIV/AIDS was spreading rapidly amongst certain groups. Well to remove their doubts, some people had to live the wild life and die before they could confirm it.

Confirmation you want will come at the cost of the excruciating pain and death of some people.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 01, 2013
this is the basis of macs long cautionary tale

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex

Links have been reported between MouthAction and oral cancer with human papillomavirus (HPV)-infected people.[21] In 2005, a research study at the College of Malmö in Sweden suggested that performing unprotected MouthAction on a person infected with HPV may increase the risk of oral cancer. The study found that 36 percent of the cancer patients had HPV compared to only 1 percent of the healthy control group

oga , note that we are talking about sex with one partner

btw, what is your stance on positions other than the missionary position and doing it outside the bedroom?
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:42pm On Apr 01, 2013
Oral cancer goes viral

Mahesh Patel, 45, had difficulty
swallowing food and water since the past six
months. What started as a minor discomfort
became a source of extreme pain when taking
in even a gulp of water was taxing. Patel
consulted an ENT specialist who suspected
cancer and referred him to a cancer specialist.


Patel, who has never touched tobacco in his
life, was aghast when he was diagnosed with
cancer on the base of his tongue. "Since there
was no history of cancer and the cancer was
typical of those caused by the most commonly
sexually transmitted disease- Human
Papilloma Virus (HPV)-we got a test done to
confirm the virus. It was positive", says
leading oral cancer surgeon Dr Kaustubh Patel.
Ahmedabad is considered the capital of oral
cancers with 40 per cent of cancers recorded
being cancers of the mouth, mostly caused by
tobacco and gutkha chewing. Now, another
risk factor is emerging from the bedroom.


Heart to heart exchange with the doctor
revealed that Patel had a history of MouthAction
which is now being considered one of the most
common risk factors for contracting oral
cancer caused by HPV. Patel did not need
surgery and responded well to radiotherapy
and chemotherapy. In fact, globally, doctors
are warning men of thinking twice about going
down on a woman, since there is a high
chance that she may be infected at some point
with HPV virus which could, years down the
line, give throat cancer.



Globally, oral cancer caused by MouthAction is a
growing cause of concern. In fact, in US where
robotic surgery is now being extensively used
to treat such patients, experts call it the HPV
epidemic",
says Dr Patel who has treated 14 proven cases of HPV related oral cancers in
the past two years.


Dr Patel says that India is likely to see a rise in
the coming years as the lifestyle of people
change more on the lines of the west.
Plus,
the viral spread is only likely to increase.
He says that there is little that men can do
really to protect themselves from this virus as
avoiding MouthAction alone will not help. "Foreign
studies have revealed that virgins who have
done nothing but open-mouthed kissing have
been found to be infected. One study even
discovered that kissing may increase your risk
of oral infection more than having intercourse.
A study conducted by University of Washington
found that half of women who had had only
one sexual partner were infected with the
virus after three years of partnership.
Condoms are helpful, but HPV can attach to so
many different surfaces including the base of
the finger nails that even they are not
foolproof".

http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-11-27/ahmedabad/35387159_1_oral-cancer-hpv-human-papilloma-virus

You know the problem. Mr. X goes down on his wife and then gets infected, he goes kissing his other partners and spreads HPV. Already some people are suggesting we have an epidemic that affects people that don't partake in oral. See how these diseases jump from one group to the general population.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by tasandra: 4:45pm On Apr 01, 2013
@Jenny,hahahahaha oni fe rin kpa mi oo grin
@cougar,dis man nawa 4 u lol grin
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:49pm On Apr 01, 2013
oyb: this is the basis of macs long cautionary tale

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex



oga , note that we are talking about sex with one partner

btw, what is your stance on positions other than the missionary position and doing it outside the bedroom?

HPV does not respect the 'one' partner rule. Simple, the only position expressly forbidden to a Muslim is Anal not even oral. My position on oral is purely based on health issues.

Obviously, sex can be had in many places between spouses as long as long as it is not public and in front of 3rd parties.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by dayokanu(m): 4:51pm On Apr 01, 2013
Mac,

Dont mind them jare

#Teamboringsex rocks

12 rules to avoid or@l, penile, vagin@l and whole body cancer and most especially to avoid the wrath of the gods

Thou shall not mention or make any sexuall reference at any time
Sex only at night and in the dark,
Thou must not see each others blockos and wetincall
Booby touching is only for pikin alone
Sex only in the bedroom on the bed or Mat,
Nobody utters any sounds at all.
Both partners tie wrapper before the act. You must be covered during the entire encounter
Call your partners Baba Saheed and Iya Dorcas or Daddy and Mummy
Sex mustnt exceed 5minutes per round before you roll to the side and snore off
Kissing is banned and punishable by flogging
Heading or carrying microphone is punishable by Hanging
Chopping igbin can only be allowed if the man would purify his mouth with conc HCl afterwards

Missionary is the only acceptable position with the woman below and the man on top, The woman below should only open the thing small and never open yakata else cancer might h-enter
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by kay9(m): 5:46pm On Apr 01, 2013
^^Lol @ ''baba saheed...''

Dis maclatunji na real square o. undecided

Oga mac, congrats, you've officially bored this thread to death. Oya find shovel and bury it. Make sure it is in proper missionary position before you cover it up.

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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by greatgod2012(f): 5:49pm On Apr 01, 2013
dayokanu: Mac,

Dont mind them jare

#Teamboringsex rocks

12 rules to avoid or@l, penile, vagin@l and whole body cancer and most especially to avoid the wrath of the gods

Thou shall not mention or make any sexuall reference at any time
Sex only at night and in the dark,
Thou must not see each others blockos and wetincall
Booby touching is only for pikin alone
Sex only in the bedroom on the bed or Mat,
Nobody utters any sounds at all.
Both partners tie wrapper before the act. You must be covered during the entire encounter
Call your partners Baba Saheed and Iya Dorcas or Daddy and Mummy
Sex mustnt exceed 5minutes per round before you roll to the side and snore off
Kissing is banned and punishable by flogging
Heading or carrying microphone is punishable by Hanging
Chopping igbin can only be allowed if the man would purify his mouth with conc HCl afterwards

Missionary is the only acceptable position with the woman below and the man on top, The woman below should only open the thing small and never open yakata else cancer might h-enter

@Dayo.......sora e o.
U wan kill me, i laughesd so hard that my kids all ran inside to ask what was wrong with me, unfortunately, i couldnt ask any of them to read what made me laugh so hard.

Anyway, these your laws no be for me, i no get time, i for pick them one by one and negate them with my points, but sincerely, i get the sarcasm in your post, i know you are pulling Mac's legs,


i no dey o.
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by tessybaby(f): 5:54pm On Apr 01, 2013
Hmmmmmmm no comment

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