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Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by r231(m): 10:00pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
maclatunji: Beware of oral cancer. Here we go again |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:16pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
r231: Is it a lie? |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
maclatunji:yes. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by r231(m): 10:20pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
maclatunji: Of cus it's a lie |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by armyofone(m): 10:29pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
I only do lollipop and cone ice cream. I don't know what you are talking about. coogar: |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:31pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
Just to let people know the risk attached. Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures and cancers are becoming more prevalent because of rapid and radical changes in lifestyle. Make person no go get awful disease because of oral sexual gratification when there are safer alternatives. It is a mindset and can be dropped. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by coogar: 10:33pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
armyofone: I only do lollipop and cone ice cream. I don't know what you are talking about. you forgot to include banana |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:35pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
brokoto: yes. Just google 'MouthAction causes' so that it won't be a skewed search and see what comes up. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 10:37pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
maclatunji: I typed 'Oral #ex' not 'MouthAction'. Word filter behave yourself. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by A40(m): 11:15pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
maclatunji: Just to let people know the risk attached. Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures and cancers are becoming more prevalent because of rapid and radical changes in lifestyle.Na something go still kill person! Besides most of these old wives tales are yet to be substantiated |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
maclatunji:stop spreading half truths ok? Oral intimacy. Does not pose any where near as much risk as normal sex when done irresponsibly. "While MouthAction does seem to increase the risk of oral cancer, you simply can’t live your life constantly afraid of what might happen. If you do, you might as well die now. Remember, every time you get in a car, you take the risk that you might die in a car crash. In fact, more than 40,000 people die in car accidents every year in the US alone (way more than the number of people who die from oral cancers). So if you’re going to stop enjoying MouthAction, you better also start walking to work. Life is full of risk. You can turn yourself into a jittery little neuron terrified of every itty bitty thing that could go wrong, or you can empower yourself, get educated, make mindful choices, and then let it go." Source: www.care2.com/greenliving/oral-sex-causes-oral-cancerbut-dont-wig-out.html#13647677705681&action=collapse_widget&id=566755 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by sunnyt1(m): 11:22pm On Mar 31, 2013 |
fresh_dude: In the same vein, if she likes head and he doesn't oblige her, she's free to seek it outside her home? Bros, please, tomorrow is Good Friday, don't let me speak unholy words towards you today. Stay blessed. Sorry sir . . . . . . . . dats all |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 7:24am On Apr 01, 2013 |
A-40: It is ironic that when people with this outlook to life fall gravely ill, they start looking for help from other people instead of waiting to die patiently. My philosophy to life is: 'Don't cause problems for yourself by your own actions.' There are so many ways to enjoy sex, I think avoiding one that poses such a risk is only reasonable. The people who do the research are not scaremongers, it is a clear trend that has been observed. The choice is for each individual to make. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 7:56am On Apr 01, 2013 |
maclatunji: Just to let people know the risk attached. Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures and cancers are becoming more prevalent because of rapid and radical changes in lifestyle. Blowjo-bs are a new thing among many cultures? We hear you, oga missionary. I heard doing it from behind can make the willy fall off 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by A40(m): 8:25am On Apr 01, 2013 |
maclatunji: The natural instinct is not to want to die but when its ur time to go there's really nothing you can do about it! So yes na something go still kill person But this thing you are even propagating is not a substantiated fact! Hence the use of the word 'may' please don't make it seem like its a definitive outcome for anyone that indulges in such habits because that is not the case |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by r231(m): 8:31am On Apr 01, 2013 |
oyb: 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Obinoscopy(m): 9:07am On Apr 01, 2013 |
Its always good to try out new stuffs with ur spouse 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by chuksme(m): 10:49am On Apr 01, 2013 |
Some ignorant people should not come here to broadcast false message. There is nothing like cancer in a healthy MouthAction between two healthy partner. We don't want to hear these olden age stories without prove |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
maclatunji: LOL serious hyper LOL. Well to each their own. Please if you don't like getting/giving head, just fem your mouth dia and live your life like dat. #teamBoringSex ppl seem to like creating bogus nonsense just to justify your uncreative sexual preferences. So tell me what act of #teamBoringSex you people do that itself not carries risk? Understand what it is you even want to use as an excuse to not please your wives/husbands. It does not CAUSE it, it SPREADS it. Just like even #teamBoringSex missionary SPREADS other things I'm sure you are aware of. Besides, just like you have condoms, there are also dental dams....but that should not even be needed if you are doing this to your WIFEY/HUBBY. You shouldn't be giving random strangers head. Ewww. Who knows what rot infested hole/pole they yanshed the night before? |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:06pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
oyb: Go to any rural settlement with little exposure to modernity in Nigeria and suggest it to them, let us know your findings. As prevalent as kissing is now. How many of our Greatgrand parents kissed? |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:11pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
2buff: Apologies but your post is not so insightful. Out of practically hundreds of thousands of ways of having sex, oral counts for like 99% abi? That is why you would infer that not having oral means not having any other method. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:16pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
chuksme: Some ignorant people should not come here to broadcast false message. There is nothing like cancer in a healthy MouthAction between two healthy partner. We don't want to hear these olden age stories without prove You are one funny dude. Wetin be my own? Na your mouth now. #LOL. My posts are for people who might not understand the risks associated with it. Not for people who might not be able to think beyond sex. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
maclatunji: i guess mac is the 'mama bomboy, prepare yaself' kind of guy . Let's face it, it is a new thing amongst many cultures this is what you said - shifting the goalpost now are we? maclatunji: oga who can think beyond sex, please let us ignorami know about how MouthAction causes cancer - we learn something new everyday, after all. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:22pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
A-40: There was a time when scientists weren't sure why HIV/AIDS was spreading rapidly amongst certain groups. Well to remove their doubts, some people had to live the wild life and die before they could confirm it. Confirmation you want will come at the cost of the excruciating pain and death of some people. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
this is the basis of macs long cautionary tale https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex Links have been reported between MouthAction and oral cancer with human papillomavirus (HPV)-infected people.[21] In 2005, a research study at the College of Malmö in Sweden suggested that performing unprotected MouthAction on a person infected with HPV may increase the risk of oral cancer. The study found that 36 percent of the cancer patients had HPV compared to only 1 percent of the healthy control group oga , note that we are talking about sex with one partner btw, what is your stance on positions other than the missionary position and doing it outside the bedroom? |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:42pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Oral cancer goes viral Mahesh Patel, 45, had difficulty swallowing food and water since the past six months. What started as a minor discomfort became a source of extreme pain when taking in even a gulp of water was taxing. Patel consulted an ENT specialist who suspected cancer and referred him to a cancer specialist. Patel, who has never touched tobacco in his life, was aghast when he was diagnosed with cancer on the base of his tongue. "Since there was no history of cancer and the cancer was typical of those caused by the most commonly sexually transmitted disease- Human Papilloma Virus (HPV)-we got a test done to confirm the virus. It was positive", says leading oral cancer surgeon Dr Kaustubh Patel. Ahmedabad is considered the capital of oral cancers with 40 per cent of cancers recorded being cancers of the mouth, mostly caused by tobacco and gutkha chewing. Now, another risk factor is emerging from the bedroom. Heart to heart exchange with the doctor revealed that Patel had a history of MouthAction which is now being considered one of the most common risk factors for contracting oral cancer caused by HPV. Patel did not need surgery and responded well to radiotherapy and chemotherapy. In fact, globally, doctors are warning men of thinking twice about going down on a woman, since there is a high chance that she may be infected at some point with HPV virus which could, years down the line, give throat cancer. Globally, oral cancer caused by MouthAction is a growing cause of concern. In fact, in US where robotic surgery is now being extensively used to treat such patients, experts call it the HPV epidemic", says Dr Patel who has treated 14 proven cases of HPV related oral cancers in the past two years. Dr Patel says that India is likely to see a rise in the coming years as the lifestyle of people change more on the lines of the west. Plus, the viral spread is only likely to increase. He says that there is little that men can do really to protect themselves from this virus as avoiding MouthAction alone will not help. "Foreign studies have revealed that virgins who have done nothing but open-mouthed kissing have been found to be infected. One study even discovered that kissing may increase your risk of oral infection more than having intercourse. A study conducted by University of Washington found that half of women who had had only one sexual partner were infected with the virus after three years of partnership. Condoms are helpful, but HPV can attach to so many different surfaces including the base of the finger nails that even they are not foolproof". http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-11-27/ahmedabad/35387159_1_oral-cancer-hpv-human-papilloma-virus You know the problem. Mr. X goes down on his wife and then gets infected, he goes kissing his other partners and spreads HPV. Already some people are suggesting we have an epidemic that affects people that don't partake in oral. See how these diseases jump from one group to the general population. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by tasandra: 4:45pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
@Jenny,hahahahaha oni fe rin kpa mi oo @cougar,dis man nawa 4 u lol |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by maclatunji: 4:49pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
oyb: this is the basis of macs long cautionary tale HPV does not respect the 'one' partner rule. Simple, the only position expressly forbidden to a Muslim is Anal not even oral. My position on oral is purely based on health issues. Obviously, sex can be had in many places between spouses as long as long as it is not public and in front of 3rd parties. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by dayokanu(m): 4:51pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Mac, Dont mind them jare #Teamboringsex rocks 12 rules to avoid or@l, penile, vagin@l and whole body cancer and most especially to avoid the wrath of the gods Thou shall not mention or make any sexuall reference at any time Sex only at night and in the dark, Thou must not see each others blockos and wetincall Booby touching is only for pikin alone Sex only in the bedroom on the bed or Mat, Nobody utters any sounds at all. Both partners tie wrapper before the act. You must be covered during the entire encounter Call your partners Baba Saheed and Iya Dorcas or Daddy and Mummy Sex mustnt exceed 5minutes per round before you roll to the side and snore off Kissing is banned and punishable by flogging Heading or carrying microphone is punishable by Hanging Chopping igbin can only be allowed if the man would purify his mouth with conc HCl afterwards Missionary is the only acceptable position with the woman below and the man on top, The woman below should only open the thing small and never open yakata else cancer might h-enter |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by kay9(m): 5:46pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
^^Lol @ ''baba saheed...'' Dis maclatunji na real square o. Oga mac, congrats, you've officially bored this thread to death. Oya find shovel and bury it. Make sure it is in proper missionary position before you cover it up. 1 Like |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by greatgod2012(f): 5:49pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
dayokanu: Mac, @Dayo.......sora e o. U wan kill me, i laughesd so hard that my kids all ran inside to ask what was wrong with me, unfortunately, i couldnt ask any of them to read what made me laugh so hard. Anyway, these your laws no be for me, i no get time, i for pick them one by one and negate them with my points, but sincerely, i get the sarcasm in your post, i know you are pulling Mac's legs, i no dey o. |
Re: Married Folks: Is Oral Se.x Neccessary In A Marriage To Build Trust And Love? by tessybaby(f): 5:54pm On Apr 01, 2013 |
Hmmmmmmm no comment |
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